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Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!

Q.   Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...

A.   25 September 2012: I sense some jealously here. You need to get over yourself and stop sounding so selfish. Life isn't fair. Get used to it. There are worse things that could have happened. You have written "I want" a LOT in this article. Do you have any idea how spoi... (read in full...)

I need my ex to be part of my life, how do I get him to be my friend despite me dating someone else?

Q.   How do i get my ex to at least try to be friends with me?? Despite of me dating someone else. He was an important person and in a way still is... i mean i feel like someday we will have another chance. But when we are more mature because we were ...

A.   19 September 2012: You don't sound mature enough to be dating, honestly. Trying to be friends with him will screw with him. Lads have just as many feelings as us, and frankly I'm sick of girls thinking they have more rights to everything, and things like flirting... (read in full...)

Is he flirting or just being his usual self?

Q.   I have a crush on a guy at our school, in my class for most things. I wouldn't say he flirts but he is really weird around me like today he walked past me at dinner and tapped my head with a bowl,he hugs me like loads and other times he just looks ...

A.   8 September 2012: You should make sure he knows how you feel. He doesn't dislike you because if he did he would just avoid you all together. The fact that he looks away when you look at him suggests that he likes you, but can also suggest other things too, like me an ... (read in full...)

Is 11 inch height difference too much? People keep telling me she is too short for me.

Q.   Hello, My height is 6'1½" inches, she is around 5'3" we have nearly 11 inch height difference. We have been together for half a year I have never thought of height difference as a problem. I'm OK with it. I love her and we are planning our futu...

A.   23 July 2012: I think that if you have to ask whether a height difference is an issue then you shouldn't be together. It sounds like you are just picking on parts of the relationship that aren't ideal. So what you have to bend down to kiss? This wouldn't stop ... (read in full...)

How do you get over someone that you have never been with and never will be with?

Q.   How do you get over someone who you have never been with? I need help desperately, as i feel happy whenever this person is around, yet i have never been with them, and i know i never will. Please help. x...

A.   11 July 2012: Try to forget about them. Take up a hobby or something. I know it is difficult but at your age crushes are mainly hormonal. Hell, you probably won't even know their name in 15 years. If you don't mind me asking, how do you know you will never be ... (read in full...)

Our eyes met twice, I like him so what do I do next?

Q.   I like this boy who i am friends with and met him with his friends and my friend in town and went to see a movie with them we met eyes like two times but i like him and i am wanting to know what to do next and how to....

A.   18 March 2012: Break the touch barrier. Become his friend. Ask him out if he doesn't. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I'm being bullied at work by my boss who is also my husband!

Q.   This sounds mad I know, but I am being bullied at work. The trouble is its my boss (who is also my husband) We have not been married long (6 months) and worked together for years before this and never had any trouble. I dont know what to do, he c...

A.   21 February 2012: Theres a saying, "Work and relationships dont mix", because you never have a break from one another. Tell him how you feel and maybe try and get a position somewhere else. After all, you are the woman. The women rule the house ;) ....... (read in full...)

Can you help me understand my HUGE crush on this guy who I have like forever please?

Q.   Okay so I need help. Im in senior school (high school) and i fancy this guy who is really sweet. I have known him since we were 3 and I have liked him for about 6-7 years, but my friends only think Ive liked him for 3. He has always stuck up for me, ...

A.   21 February 2012: Thanks for the answer. He has a girlfriend now so I think I'm gonna completely blank him. After 7 years I don't think I deserve to be with someone who is going to mess around with me like that. ... (read in full...)

I'm a nerd but I want a girlfriend

Q.   Hey guys, (and girls). I just need an opinion or a few tips for this question. Alright. I really don't know how to start this, so I guess I'll just say it as quick as I can. I'm a nerd, I want to be in a relationship with a girl, and everyone in ...

A.   7 February 2012: If you have a "type" of girl who you have had crushes on, then one of my first bits of advice would be to open up your "type" barrier. This will allow you to be able to consider the likes of other girls, and you may end up liking someone who likes ... (read in full...)

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