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writes:AA Scenario:i was been going out with this girl for 2 years. 6 months ago she went on holiday and had a bit of a holiday romance wiv anutha guy. i was devastated, but eventually got over it and got back together with her. in january i introduced her to my parents for the 1st time. a week later i found out from one of her mates she had sent an sms to another guy trying to get with him. again i was devastated. i thought enough is enough and confronted her over this. her response was it was none of my business. i was crushed, she hadnt even the decency to acknowledge any consequence of the action. we've broken up since and haven't spoken for a month. i found out that she met up with her holiday romance recently also and it just crushes me also.I'm 25 years old, but this is the first time i've ever loved someone. i don't want her back, but i just don't understand all the lies and deception.please give me some advice on how to get over her!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): wel i was in a relationship 4 only 3 mounths and the girl i was seing cheated on me and i was absolutly detraught so i can imadgine how you felt mate it musta bin 100 times worse for you, you have done wel 2 get over her tho!!
josh
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reader, devoted  +, writes (10 March 2007):
I know exactly what your going through, and it hurts. I too am still trying to get over someone who hurt me by lying and cheating. I guess we both just have to give it time and find ourselves.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Time is the best healer here. Just keep yourself busy and put her out of your mind. She wasn't right for you, she was a liar and a cheat, it would never have worked out, she had no respect for you or she'd never have cheated. When you confronted her and she said "it's none of your business" I think that said it all, it showed you exactly where you stood in her life. You deserve far better.
Have a read of this link I've provided for you. It gives you lots of tips on how to get over a break up.
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
There is someone out there for you and you will find her eventually, meanwhile have fun in the process.
Eve
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (9 March 2007):
Please dont ever blame yourself for her actions. Maybe she did not feel the same as you feel about her. I am sorry that it is painful, and you need to realise that she was just not meant for you. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I promise you will find a woman who will return that love for you, and probably even love you more.A one sided relationship is very hurtful, but atleast you are out of it, and stop looking back. Look forward and find a beautiful woman who you can fall deeper inlove. Or even better let her find you!!
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reader, kellyO +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Hi Anom,
I know how difficult it is to let go of someone u really care about but think about all her lies/deception and unrepetant nature. What u should do is not to call, text or even inquire about her, she isnt worth it. With time u will be able to get yourself someone else. I dont see her new relationship with this holday romance guy even lasting as well becos she seems the sort that isnt eager to commitment.
It will be good for you to find someone who has the same notions as you when it comes to dating and love. I can see that u are looking for something more stable and commital and believe me that are alot of girls out there looking for the same.
Dont keep yourself idle that doesnt help abit, try to relax with friends in parties and events when u can really get to meet people. I'm sure in no time u will get to find the right girl that fits with you.
Goodluck dear.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 March 2007):
 The lies and deception are very simple to understand, she's a loser with no class. You are so much better off without her. Get busy looking for that special lady who is just perfect for you. Good luck, Buddy.
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