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41-50,
*winkletoes30
writes:hi everyone.. its been AGES since ive been on, i guess that means life was going ok. Well now im stuck again. 2 years ago, i met a wonderful man on the internet We now live together. I love this man. Hes divorced and his a son, who i treat as my own. I picked up his phone today (it was under the sofa!) and there was an open message on it - from a woman i dont know, asking if he will be free tonight. Shaking, i read his reply. He said hes free Wednesday. Im going away on wednesday. My sisters geting married on Friday, and i cant bring this CHEAT to sit with my family when i know what he is. Sorry. Rant over. I then went through his computer. Hes registered on sex sites. Adult sites. Not like the one we met on. He chats and cams with girls when im in work, and at night, when im in bed. a year ago, he put on a lot of weight and said he wasnt intrested in sex, he didnt feel sexy. I listened, sympathised, put up with the drought. Now, i find hes doing disgusting things on the internet, and arranging meets with this girls. And they are very, very young - hes 40, these girls are 18, 19. I know im not the woman he met, ive put on a bit of weight, but not that much! Im still so in love with him, doing everything i can for him, i want his physically (we wre very adventurous!) and am heartbroken. He has to go abroad for 6 weeks, to help his parents with a new business (legimate, him mum asked me if i minded him going) - i cant go and KNOW hes going to cheat on me..... HELP. Im devasted. Again a man doesn think im good enough for him.
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reader, twinkletoes30 +, writes (9 August 2010):
twinkletoes30 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hi - a bit thank you to those who replied to my question - im now free, single and holding it together - just. im devasted, but i know i had to kick him out. time to lick my wounds now, and wallow in a large vat of chocolate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): You are far too good for him. If he thinks he can do better let him get on with it alone. Do not ignore what he is. It wont make it go away.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 August 2010):
A man does't think you're good enough for him? How about he's not good enough for you.
You seem to be very good at putting yourself down, but not good enough at sticking up for yourself. If a man cheats on you, it's not that you're not good enough. It's that he's a bad guy. Dump this man, and look carefully at the type of man you're attracted to. If this has happened before, then it could be that you're attracted to a certain type of man that you shouldn't be with.
As for this man, certainly dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): hi,
Ur boyfriend is cheating on u by playing around with younger girls... u need to confront him... and make him realize that its wrong those girls are too young.. think about their future.
- Would u rather lay in bed sleeping with a cheater or would u rather make him realize his mistake.
- you don't deserve a better man than him, and he is taking advantage of u
just because u love someone that doesn't mean u have to ignore their mistakes
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reader, vampyreholic +, writes (2 August 2010):
It's not a case of this you not being good enough for him, he is not good enough for you.
If you know he is cheating on you, why are you with him? You know he is going to hurt you over and over and over so my advice to you is end it now and end it for good.
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