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Are there any faithful men out there?

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Question - (2 April 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone!

I was wondering ....Is there such a thing as a faithful man? Even after so many years? No offence guys just got myself out of a bad and long relationship and I am worried/scared : /

What are your experiences?

Thank you

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A female reader, LoveGirl South Africa +, writes (8 April 2010):

Yes my hubby is one of the faithful ones. He's a good man. Decent. And I love him! I know that there are many like him but you have to look very heard. The faithful ones may just also be dead or gay! But they do exist

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A male reader, cheated Australia +, writes (6 April 2010):

yes there are many faithful men out there, i am one. but the question that you posted could also be " are there any faithful women out there". i say this because that is what i think. i have been cheated on twice. it has rattled my head as to why and the only answer i can come up with is that i have spoilt them to much.

it really hurts when someone cheats on you and u really loose all trust in the opposite sex. my wife and i are slowly working through her unfaithfulness but as for trusting another woman, well that will be very hard.

as for me being faithful, well if the opertunity came about i could possibly consider it... i know thats wrong but wot the hell..............

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A female reader, naughty girl United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2010):

many men are faithful. I come across such men all the time. You need to ask yourself why you end up with the unfaithful ones. I would imagine its a mutual attraction. Your attracted to them and they are attracted to you.for every gur who is a liar and a cheater there is another who is decent honest and caring.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2010):

Yes there are. I'm one.

It's very much a case of meeting the right man. The 'statistics' actually show that about 50% of men and women are faithful. So for every cheater, somewhere the's a man who won't cheat.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):

There are lots of men who are faithful and lots of them who aren't.

If you are constantly only finding the unfaithful ones out of the two types, then it's time to rethink how you are choosing men.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

Illithid agony auntAs a man who was faithful to one cold-fish girlfriend, only to move on (when I found her cheating) to another woman that left me high, dry, and sexless for three years (until she cheated on me too), I still never once cheated. Even though I wasn't getting it at home, I was loyal. It CAN happen. And for what it's worth, I'm wondering now if any woman can be faithful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):

yes there are. Theres not a doubt in my mind that my guy is, and has been for 30 years. There are a few good men out there, im sure of it. Mal

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntThere are definitely faithful men out there. I don't know how to tell you to assess the guys, but look for how they approach life, how they interact with other people, what size ego they have, self confidence instead of narcissism, what kind of family they come from, just be aware of those clues that will tell you if you've got a gem or a player.

As far as I know, I haven't been cheated on since 9th grade, when my then boyfriend started seeing an 11th grade girl behind my back. I paid attention and that was the end of that. It took a while for me to catch on, but once I did, buh-bye.

Hang in there, be true to yourself, and don't assume all men are creeps just because of a bad one. They're really a pretty good bunch of humans, most of them.

Good luck.

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (2 April 2010):

Myau agony auntAre there faithful men? Yes you are taking to one.

I have ben cheated on a few times and I know how awful the feeling is. However I put it down to the person, not the gender.

There are plenty of honest people, i pesonally believe that cheaters are still a minority. So dont ruin your next relationship being parinoid

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (2 April 2010):

C. Grant agony auntYes, there are.

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