G/f slept with 2 guys while we were broken up and I can't get over it

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, I split from my partner after seven years, her choice and took this really hard. We spent 2 months apart and all I could think about was her. Finally I managed to win her back which really made me happy. We are now 6 weeks on and I'm finding it real difficult to deal with the fact that she slept with two people in the time we were apart. One of the guys doesn't bother me so much as it was a one of time but the other guy was an on going thing. I just can't stop thinking about it. Even when we have sex it sometimes goes through my mind, I think about it at work and it really depresses me and makes me feel jelous. I don't want to ruin things with her by how I'm feeling because I really do love her. We did talk about it in the beginning but I can't keep on at her because she gets annoyed, so am trying to keep a lid on it. How can I get over this???

View related questions: at work

Reply to this Question

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!