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Do you believe my wife's girlfriend claim that her Date sleeps in her bed - but no Sex ?

Q.   My wife's girlfriend is in her thirties, and recently divorced. She's found a boyfriend online who has no car and lives with his sister. Yeah, he's poor. Lousy job, no education, no future. So she drives to his sister's house, picks him up, an...

A.   3 April 2010: There are lots of sucessful people out there who are scum of the earth. Your a little to old to not have learned this yet. ... (read in full...)

I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!

Q.   I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...

A.   3 April 2010: I don't believe you actually told them you sleep with girls once then discard them and move on. I would suggest you try prositutes. They will understand you. None of the agro afterwards either. No one gets hurt. Prostitute earns a living. Everyone ... (read in full...)

Isnt she completely over the line here?

Q.   My wife was snooping through some of my personal belongings and found a picture of my exgirlfriend and an old letter that she had sent me. She asked me why I had kept those two things and I told her quite honestly that I didn't even know I still ...

A.   3 April 2010: You should have gotten rid of letter and photo when relationship finished. If it going to upset present relationship rip them up and give bits to your wife for her to dispose of. This will not be difficult to do. Also, start giving wife oral sex but ... (read in full...)

Why is my husband being so nasty?

Q.   Hi there Agony Aunts and Uncles. My Agony is my husband who keeps telling me I have 'large saggy breasts' and also that my upper lip and face is looking 'old and haggard'. I am feeling so down and so I decided to get a boob job done. The doctor ...

A.   3 April 2010: Your husband has lower self esteem than you. he thinks its in his best interests to make you feel worthless. Ultimately your self esteem is your responsibility. Start building a life without him. Join clubs, start a hobby, start up a new project. ... (read in full...)

A rough diamond? Compliment? or Insult?

Q.   what If your boyfriend says (your' a rough diomand )rough aound the edges.is that insult .or cheeky towards me.?...

A.   3 April 2010: Its not a compliment or an insult. Just a throw away comment. Never take a throw away comment personally they mean nothing.... (read in full...)

Are there any faithful men out there?

Q.   Hey everyone! I was wondering ....Is there such a thing as a faithful man? Even after so many years? No offence guys just got myself out of a bad and long relationship and I am worried/scared : / What are your experiences? Thank you ...

A.   3 April 2010: many men are faithful. I come across such men all the time. You need to ask yourself why you end up with the unfaithful ones. I would imagine its a mutual attraction. Your attracted to them and they are attracted to you.for every gur who is a liar ... (read in full...)

He never wants children, I definitely do, and I don't approve of his job!

Q.   My boyfriend never wants to have children, and I absolutley do, and lives a lifestyle I know I would not be happy with living in the future. (he is a porn director!) I know he won't change and I know I can't change him. For now I have a fantastic ...

A.   3 April 2010: If a man says he doesn't want children you need to believe them and respect their wishes. To want children or to not want children is major. There are so many men out there why have you picked one that never wants to have children. Basically if you ... (read in full...)

Men & affairs--what's it really all about?

Q.   Do men who have affairs really enjoy having another woman or does it all become a bit of a chore keeping everything secret? Plus do these men just latch on to anyone who'll have them - or is there always an attraction there?...

A.   3 April 2010: I think they want sexual variety. And I don't mean different positions. I mean blond then dark then latino then short then tall etc. They are bored of sleeping with same woman. Nothing bad about the woman and usally nothing woman can do. Best bet if ... (read in full...)

I haven't forgiven my mother for grounding me when I was 12!

Q.   I am a 23 year old, married, new mom. My mother contacted my husband after the baby was born and is wanting to get together. Now, he is pressing me to have my mom in our lives. I have not been on speaking terms with my mom for years. When I w...

A.   3 April 2010: Shocking and unbelieveable. Are you being serious?? Basically you are unable to forgive your mother for what amounts to almost nothing. You then became hateful bitter and twisted about an incident that amounts to nothing and cut her out of your ... (read in full...)

Why do men cheat on me?

Q.   am i a fool about wanting to be trully loved. i am the best women a man can ask for. i am hot and sexy, smart and loving great in bed. why do men cheat on me?...

A.   2 April 2010: There is something about you that is attracting these cheaters. I suspect that it is your image that is atracting them to you. Players tend to make a bee line for anyone who is overtly hot and sexy. Maybe you should tone your image down. I suspect ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has strict conditins on my involvement with my daughter and her mum

Q.   Hi There, It's come to this as I honestly don't know what else to try, and I need to know if I am in the wrong here or if it's my current gf. I met my current gf 4 years ago, at this point she was lovely and wanted to be totally involved in...

A.   2 April 2010: Once she has your baby I think she will become much worse. This happened to a friend of mine. If your girl friend has your baby she will feel threatened that you love older child more than new baby-even if its blatently obvious that you love them ... (read in full...)

I want to be accepted my muslim girlfriends family.

Q.   My girlfriends mum has recently found out that her daughter is dating me and she will not accept it as she is worried that the rest of her family will frown upon it. They are a Muslim family and they will not accept me, a White British male, even ...

A.   1 April 2010: Mywhite uncle married a muslim girl. He had to convert to Islam and give her family who live abroad money inorder to marry her. They seem very happy together and have 3 children now. They don't appear to be overly relious-eg kids still get xmas ... (read in full...)

I don't think my boyfriend's mum likes me!

Q.   i dont think my boyfriends mum likes me, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. and the other day, he said somthing that i didnt think he meant to say, he told me his mum thinks i moan to much, and just attention seeks? i know i moan, ...

A.   1 April 2010: Try to stop moaning and making mountains out of molehills. If your not carefull you will start a war over a throw away comment that even you yourself half agree is true. You sound very sweet caring and loving. Contiue to be this with him and his ... (read in full...)

Why did he stop talking to me and stop answering my emails?

Q.   these guy asked me out and i said no. 5 months later i moved to a diffrent country but we still used to talk every month. after a year he stopped talking to me and he would never answer my emails. how come he stopped talking to me and not answering ...

A.   1 April 2010: He is not getting anything out of your 'relationship' and has sensibly moved on. Let him go. You should do the same.... (read in full...)

I'm worried by his behaviour, am I just over-reacting?

Q.   my ex and i have been talking for a few months...he needs time to get his head together before getting back into things with me. Noone did anything bad, I think he just needs time...not ready to be in a relationship again. The times we talk it seems ...

A.   1 April 2010: If he wanted to be in a relationship with you he would be in a relationship with you.it's as simple as that.your both free and single and what he may or may not be doing with another woman is none of your concern. Except maybe to give him your ... (read in full...)

Can people change?

Q.   My husband had a 3 year affair with his niece who was 15 when it started. He was 30. He says she initiated it and that he was to far in to get out, he said she threatened him with suicide if he left her. He was raped by family members as a young ...

A.   30 March 2010: Men who fancey children will always fancey children. There is nothing you can do about it. It is well known that a pedo can't be rehabilitated. The best you can do is to teach them that what they did was wrong and hope they resist the urge next time ... (read in full...)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

Q.   I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

A.   24 March 2010: This is a message to people who are quoting byron katie and twisting her words to make these women feel as if they should stay in such relationships. I also love byron katie and have read all her books -many times. I used to be married to a porn ... (read in full...)

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