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writes:I'm a bit confused... a friend of a friend was texting me the other night asking me to go he pub. I couldn't because i was in work early the next morning. I told him and he was trying for ages to persuade me to go.. although i never..so he continued to text me. Texts included him saying stuff like...he doesn't agree when i said i was annoying, he thinks i'm sweet, that the night would be alot better if i was there, that he can't get drunk because he is missing my good company, and to these i said, 'oh your girlfriend will get jealous', and he replied saying 'i don't have one but i wish i could ask a certain girl out'. When i asked who, he said that i should have figured it out by now...and conversation ended.Thing is i am not an attractive girl or anything... we have never had a proper conversation. My friends say that considering the texts he must have a crush on me, but because of the two reasons i have just said, i don't see how??Any ideas what he could mean by these texts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): I think he likes you definately - text him and ask him out.
- if he makes excuses then don't pressurise him just leave it.
Some guys just like the attention - but - and I hope I am not wrong - it does seem like he is keen on you.
Make the first move and text him.. go on a date and have a good gossip.
And stop putting yourself down.. I bet there is nothing wrong with you!!!!!!
Text him and let us know what happens!
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reader, Nevalearn  +, writes (15 April 2008):
He is obviously interested in you. Why are you so harsh on yourself? What is attractive in people is not just physical appearance, its the whole package, inside and out. And from what you have said, it seems that he wants to get to know you, not just have a physical relationship with you. You really need to do some work on your self confidence. You are a young lady who has a guy doing his best to get to know you, he must see something in you that you don't!! Be positive.
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reader, vsnod  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 If you know for a fact that he is 'not that type of guy', then I would say it's a good possibility that he has a crush on you. Or at the very least he seems to want to get to know you better if he wants to hang out with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes he was in a pub..but wasnt drinking
and i no for a fact he wasnt thinkin about sex cz he a virgin n dnt wanna loose his virginity till he in a serious relationship
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 April 2008):
He was in a pub so don't take anything he says too seriously.
The real problem here is the fact you have such incredible low self esteem!
Get some confidence in yourself!!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionabout what you said sayng he just wanted sex... i would agree but i know from what his friends have said that he wasnt even drinking alcohol that night..
also i no for a fact he is a virgin..has never had a girlfriend..and is not the type at all to have casual sex.or sex at all until he was n a serious relationship
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reader, vsnod +, writes (15 April 2008):
I think he just wanted to sleep with you. He was drinking and texting you, so I'm sure sex was on his mind. If he was really interested, he would ask you to dinner.
Also, I wouldn't go around telling people you are annoying or not attractive, please try to be more positive about yourself!
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