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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok i have a really complicated situation. I was going out with this girl and we were both madly in love with eachother but i started to slip away and i broke up with her. our relationship lasted a year and 2 months. About a week later i realized i loved her and we met up and started going towards that direction. We were dating on and off for 5 more months but i never actually asked her out again. About 3 weeks ago she talked to me and said that she needed a break and she needed to figure things out. I guess during that time she started hanging out with my friend and they got into a relationship. She called me saying that she loves me but shes not in love with me and that she found a new relationship but ensured me that if they were to break up it would mean nothing. I gave it about a week space to clear my head and started to talk to her again she replied right away and we went to the mall the other day everything was fun and she was sending mixed signals towards me i was asking her who she would go to prom with and she said hopefully me and etc. since then we have been talking on the phone every night and texting all day she has also said that she misses the old me and she hopes our relationship ends up working out but shes just scared and hurt and vulnerable. My question is how could i ensure that i dont screw this up and show her that i am the right guy for her without looking like i am being annoying.Please respond ASAP Thank you!
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reader, loveonce  +, writes (18 March 2012):
 it seems tht she z nt enjoying her new relation,as she z not completely out of older one....as you guessed rightly she z scared and insecure in feelings,your case is of simple reassurance...win her confidence,you may try being for her always,apologising for mistake commited,asking her out with love and giving surprises....in short make her feel loved and cared...be a reliable companion..all d best
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (18 March 2012):
 The way to show her you're the right guy is to BE the right guy day in day out every day. Not just long enough to woo her away from some other guy. Even then there are no guarantees. There just aren't any magical words or actions anyone can give you.Frankly the two of you have been pissing and farting about and I really don't think either of you is right for the other. You're on and off like a faucet when your 'together'. Now she's with someone else, claims she isn't in love with you anymore, yet wants you to accompany her to her prom. I think you need more alone time to figure out what you really want in life.
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