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I love Giving helping hands to people,with what little intellect and knowledge i have,in best possible way!!therefore i felt immensely happy,when i first visited this site.A lot of people,with different nationality come on this stage and get pretty good advices from learned ones!
Well I am engineering graduate holding B.Tech in Information Technology,with much interest in Psychology.
I am rather new And have posted few answers here,but wish to remain here as it gives me immense satisfaction.
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My friend told me that his girlfriend likes me, how should I handle this?
Q. Hi, I have a problem and wanted to ask for some advise since I don't know what to do. Today a good friend of mine which is also a classmate from a class I'm talking told me that things between him and his girlfriend have not been good and that they ...
A. 27 May 2012: for friendship's sake,stay away from her... (read in full...)
Why does he pretend he has no feelings for me?
Q. PLEASE ANSWER, ANY ADVICE IS GREATLY APPRECIATED. okay lets try keep this short and sweet! ive had a friend hmm.. lets call him Chencho. so chencho and i have been friends for around 3-4 years now and we have always had chemistry. we talked fo...
A. 6 May 2012: At one hand he says he will no be the one to catch feelings..soon he says he has feelings and again you find that he is behind one of your friend..So my opinion is ,if something lovely needs to be happened,it should be mutual..may be your friends ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because he saw me talk to another guy! How do I show him it was just a conversation and that I only love him?
Q. hi dear uncle and aunts, im now in a lot of trouble and my rlationship is now on a verge of breakup. yesterday my bf sees me talking to another guy and broke up in anger .he is neither receiving my call nor coming online .he abused me and said you ...
A. 11 April 2012: His this behaviour is a bit extreme,Possessiveness is one thing that happens,but once the things has been properly explained then the thing should return to normal.You should try to convince him by meeting him,at some time.And a word of caution as ... (read in full...)
We dated 10 days broke up and I can't get him out of my head
Q. Hi, i have just got out of a relationship and i cant get this boy out my head, i loved him so much, anyway yeah he was like 'i love you so much princess, im never leaving you, ever ect...' was that all just a lie? anyway after 10days of going out he ...
A. 28 March 2012: You have not given enough details of his behaviour.though he seems a jerk n liar...strengthen ur heart and try to believe that you do nt deserve such kinda person...probably he was searching for a girl ready to do intimate things quickly..you did ... (read in full...)
Answers required ASAP - I need to know how to show her I am the right guy for her
Q. Ok i have a really complicated situation. I was going out with this girl and we were both madly in love with eachother but i started to slip away and i broke up with her. our relationship lasted a year and 2 months. About a week later i realized i ...
A. 18 March 2012: it seems tht she z nt enjoying her new relation,as she z not completely out of older one....as you guessed rightly she z scared and insecure in feelings,your case is of simple reassurance...win her confidence,you may try being for her ... (read in full...)
I think she only wants me on her terms and I've had enough now, should I tell her I don't want this kind of friendship?
Q. Me and my friend are coworkers. She was my schoolmates for two years but we don't know each other very much. when she joins she has a boyfriend who is going to marry someone else they did not marry each other because of religion. I was attracted ...
A. 27 February 2012: as your best friend is married to some one else,so you should try to move on.By this you would save yours as well as her life .ur friend mails you,she does not prepare plans to leave her husband n start living wid u(which probably u will not ... (read in full...)
Does my friend's girlfriend like me? Does she want to be more than friends?
Q. i used to really like my friends gf. at one point i thought i loved her. were really good friends with each other better friends than i am with her bf. i thought she used to like me cause she always put hello you and things like that on fb when ...
A. 21 June 2011: Be there for her,hold on from your side,soon you will start getting clearer signs if there would be anything from her..but if not then remain in controlled friendship relation only... (read in full...)
I like him, what should I do?
Q. I have been friends with this guy for almost a year, recently he made it quite clearly that he wants to be with me, but when I asked him to hang out, he said no and told me there is not a chance for us to be together although he is physically ...
A. 7 June 2011: Totally Misleading!!!
what vshould you do??
it's plain and simple..how are you attracted towards him?It is clear you thought of a permanent relation but he did not..now are you ready for "am attracted-have sex-part the ways" type act??he is not g... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing in dumping my ex? Am I really in love with my friend?
Q. Hi, I am very confused. Did i do the right thing? Am i really in love or is it just a rebound? Am i the one to blame for all that happened? Well, I met my ex boyfriend when i was 16. Few months after our relation he moved out of town. W...
A. 1 June 2011: you did nothing wrong..story is plain and simple..all efforts which is being made from opposite sides are mere for making you feel guilty,not because you did wrong thing,but because you hurt a male's ego.
he is unable to swallow the truth that you ... (read in full...)
My wife admitted to cheating, but she can't bring herself to end it with them!
Q. My wife and I had a loving marriage 8 years back. I love her very much. She is a very sexy lady and she has had a large number of admirers because of this. Now she is interested in them and sleeping with them when I am not around. When I caught her, ...
A. 31 May 2011: depends upon you,whether you can tolerate it(not coz you love her).talking straightforwardly this behaviour of her ,will poison the relation today or tomorrow..moreover she is taking it casually and you are not,indicates a huge difference of outlook ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has flunked the last year at school. should I break up with him?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i love him so much and i think he still has some feelings for me BUT the problem is for the past week he has been ignoring me....i was curious to know why then i found out he got grounded ...
A. 29 May 2011: which sort of relationship is this in which you can not face the fact that he got some trouble...he could not tell you coz of shame.people normally do that...is leaving him is the only way??but if you think that it's a casual relationship then you ... (read in full...)
I don't know if she felt my erection
Q. Ok so me and my gf we kinda cuddling one day on the couch. I kissed her and after, her hand brushed up against my erection. She didn't seem to notice or nothing. And after she said she was completely comfortable and didnt mention it. Do you think ...
A. 29 May 2011: She is taking it normally by not mentioning it,and trying to show you that it's quite common thing, so that you may not feel awkward or something!!do not conceive prejudice..and let go shame when you do intimate things ... (read in full...)
If a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?
Q. This might seem like a funny question but if a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?. This guy gave me his number a few days ago, and i got intouch with him, and he replied to my ...
A. 29 May 2011: ya it's possible that you both are playing the same tune..meet him;things will be more clearer then.good luck!... (read in full...)
Am I the one for her? how can I get her to trust me again? Is she doing this because she still loves me?
Q. i was with a girl for a year in a half in a pretty serious relationship. We lived together and it was really good for a while, but i ended up hurting her really bad because i cheated on her and then after that she had pretty much forgiven me but i ...
A. 11 May 2011: you can be sure of few things--
1. she is still hurt..
2.she is not in any serious relationship anywhere else(as per your descriptions).
3.she is not ready to trust you ,till you do not prove yourself again..
look ..she tried and could not ge... (read in full...)
I like her but she doesn' t like me, so how should I act around her?
Q. i liked/like this girl alot !! for one whole year now and nothing happened bcoz i new she doesnt like me. and eventually after a long year in hope, i got the answer saying that she doesnt like me. This was when my friends asked her abt me. i...
A. 10 May 2011: As you know that girl is an attention seeker...therefore she can not tolerate you to ignore her..therefore she comes to you ,to make you lose your control..the only treatment to egomaniac is to treat them like nothing,for a while,till there ego is ... (read in full...)
How can feel safe about falling in love again, and how do I get a girlfriend?
Q. I have been having love trouble forever. I used to like people a lot, but after heartbreak, I haven't had the guts to fall in love again. I do want to fall in love, but I am a bit afraid of what can happen along with it, as well as what other people ...
A. 5 May 2011: Quite a nice Discussion..b/w TasteofIndia and you.Hopefully your most of the problems would be solved soon..and ya I Do have a Deep Interest in Psychology,though i am an Engineering Graduate in IT,just for the sake of your Knowledge.. carry on.. :)... (read in full...)
How can feel safe about falling in love again, and how do I get a girlfriend?
Q. I have been having love trouble forever. I used to like people a lot, but after heartbreak, I haven't had the guts to fall in love again. I do want to fall in love, but I am a bit afraid of what can happen along with it, as well as what other people ...
A. 3 May 2011: If you repeat a mistake then,you probably did not learn a lesson from the past one.
do try to analyse,what went wrong previously,what exactly do you want out of a relation..and what qualities should be their in your partner...as you are younger and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me and I've lost my best friend!
Q. I just realised last night that I've lost my best friend. My boyfriend was my best friend and a month ago he dumped me, the reason for this was because he had become incredibly depressed and had no strength to keep up a relationship because its so ...
A. 29 April 2011: Ya,The phase you are undergoing is quite challenging..
I am not getting the reason,why your bf started behaving strangely all of a sudden..You should ask him the reasons which brought him in depression..
Normally ,when depressed people find not... (read in full...)
Getting over a broken heart when you still have to see them?
Q. How do you get over a broken heart when you still have to see her weekly? Should I just grin and bare it or try to never see her at all? I don't want to do the later because I really don't want to give up a sport i love (which is where I see her)...
A. 29 April 2011: friend this feeling may be due to two reasons: 1.you are still in love/attraction with her 2.Or you find yourself guilty of breaking up. now if you are still attracted then realise that she is not that much serious with you,and she moved o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends were showing naked videos to him! How should I react?
Q. i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 months.recently my bf has gone for a trip with his guy friends.he was telling me that he and his friends were having a nice time on sea beach. but after sometime there was a huge wave due to w...
A. 28 April 2011: You should tell them either through bf or yourself that,you do not like their these type of cheap fun stuff..so either they remain serious when in front f you or do not talk to you!!
You should talk to your bf first,in my opinion,to make them unde... (read in full...)
How do I move on? I need to get her out of my mind for my kids sake....
Q. I am 40 years old and married with my 35 years old wife for 17 years.we have 4 children and our relationship was not going good.ten months ago my wife had an outburst and she left me leaving our 4 children with me to look after.she said to me she ...
A. 27 April 2011: I would want you to first decide what would you want to do with her?options are 1.Talk to her,to bring her back for the sake of kids ,at least OR 2.Want to leave her Completely,as you stated in question. Now if you chose 1. then as you to... (read in full...)
Need help with managing the rough patches of a single life.
Q. Hello all, This is a bit long with some rambling. But please please....bear with me and read on. Let me begin by giving some background info: I am a 24 year old male and I've been single all my life. And my trouble is, my being single h...
A. 27 April 2011: look,your feeling lonely is pretty logical.
tell me if you do not want a girl then why feel down,jealous,self pity etc. at sights of couple..
In fact the problem which is there is of Emotional discontentment,you may be lacking friends with mental c... (read in full...)
Torn between the two
Q. What do i say to them? So theres this guy. lets say 'David' who i liked and he liked me, we never really 'went out' but we spoke a lot and clearly both liked eachother. (we held hands a few times) After time however David gave me the impression h...
A. 27 April 2011: look thinks are now centred upon you..you are in dilemma whom does you like..you are dating jamie and telling david the "sort of things",and kissing ..obviously a guy(jamie)will not tolerate this,if he is serious to u..now AS u have realised..you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship but I've fallen for him!
Q. Hi, ok, so I'll try keep this very brief. I'm 30, met a guy in a bar last month, his 27. Gorgeous, funny and yum. We get on great. However he doesn't do relationships and made it pretty clear... But we started seeing each other. Were both pretty ...
A. 27 April 2011: First of all stop feeling down,by stating and restating that ,coz u r in miserable condition,therefore you are being treated as nobody by him.
You are being treated by him like this b'cause he has foreknown,that you will need a support out of him ... (read in full...)
When will she be mine?
Q. hi... well i am very jovial guy and right now finished my deg 2nd year. in this academic year i fell in love with my junior she is very good and very talkative, and shy girl. she was friendly to me, i saw her first on July 16 2010 and i changed all ...
A. 26 April 2011: look friend,you are in love with her...you could have been more manipulative to her regarding your feelings..the day you fought..you both were in tension..but your tension was triple:1.you both fought 2.you had feelings of love (possession)3 & she ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not?
Q. I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for I can't stop thinking about him .. Hes even giving me butterflys and I get really nervous when I see him .. I haven't felt like this before , not even with my exs, having him around gives me ...
A. 19 April 2011: look.chill out relaxxxx!!!!the way you are feeling is surely a sign of attraction(of a considerable level). the guy may be attracted towards you or your beauty...he wants a relation with you(therefore he may be spending his time,which he could sp... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marriage..........
Q. Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...
A. 19 April 2011: gentleman,love is good,rather best thing on this earth. do u know why did i say so?? coz the girl loving you is showing u the right most path,which you should follow... you are now a father... your gf suggested you to stay with your family bec... (read in full...)
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