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After watching porn, I feel insecure about my penis size. Is there a way to make it larger?

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Question - (27 February 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2011)
A male India age 36-40, *agchaitu writes:

Hi, I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I am feeling so shy about my penis after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of questions that are hurting me. After marriage if my wife hurts me or feels bad about my penis size, then I can't live the rest of my life happily.

So please give me suggestions and advice. I am planning to marry at the age of 27. Is there any chance of improving my penis size? Please give me a solution.

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A female reader, missy_musk United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2011):

missy_musk agony auntMy dear your penis size is technically perfectly normal! There is nothing wrong with the size of it-no Woman in her right mind wants be bonking a freakishly large penis, it hurts! Men in porn films are pretty much designed to be intimidating and women in porn movies are supposed to look like they are having the time of their lives, no one would watch porn otherwise! A great tip that me and my partner discovered (through some intimate foreplay i might add) is that if you shave or wax off your pubic hair it actually visually enhances the size of your penis, visually adding 2-3 inches! So with all that in mind, stop worrying about your size and start worrying about how your gonna be keeping your wife's lips off of you when she see's your freshly shaved crown jewels!!! ;) xx

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A male reader, uncle bob Canada +, writes (9 March 2011):

uncle bob agony auntHey buddy, you're perfectly normal.

The guys in porn are the abnormal ones.

Be thankful your not like them.

Being "hung" comes with all kinds of problems,

mostly, recurring urinary tract infections.

And you don't want that.

Besides, if your lady loves you, your size won't matter.

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A male reader, Moonknight United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

Moonknight agony auntIt's not about the size of your fanny wacka, it's how you use it, women find big size penis appealing, but that's all it is, it's like a woman with large breast, sure it's appealing but that doesn't mean if a woman has small breast you wont find her beautiful in every way and want her madly.

External appearances do not determine a long term relationship, infact no relationship last long on that theory. It sounds all great to have a huge cock and all, in reality it's not, i have a very average size penis, yet with my current and previous girlfriends i could hit their cervix, now understand that no female on this planet can possibly enjoy this, it's the equivalent of being punch in the balls.

The purpose of the cervix is to separate the uterus and the vagina, and to allow a baby to pass through outwards to the vagina, it is their for reproductive purposes, not sexual enjoyment, therefore there is no gain in making contact with the cervix.

The pain is intense when the cervix is touched, and will kill any sexual mood real quick. having a penis too big will cause this to be a huge problem in your relationship because you will not be able to fully enter your women without hurting her to the point she wants you to stop.

That is boring and wont last long. so having a average size penis is a good thing, you can pound away at your woman all day and you will both enjoy it. A woman will find you sexually irresistible if you can fuck her right regardless of your cock size, and having a huge cock doesn't mean you automatically have skills to please a woman, a big cock does not make you a good lover.

Don't feel insecure about porn, porn is a business as has no meaning at all towards sexual enjoyment, the actors/actress/ people involved in porn are staging the whole experience.

Porn is a business, don't ever forget that!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntI'll be honest, smaller penises often come into my fantasy life. I would be perfectly happy with you, because I could actually deep throat and succeed, and you would not hurt me with a huge schlong! You sound completely fine to me!

A woman will marry you for who you are and for your compatibility, not the size of your dick. And, a lot of women don't care for porn - they find it intimidating and inaccurate. They will be just as happy with a real man as you will with a real women without all the silicone, fake lashes, full Brazilian and high heels.

Good luck, sweet! If you are really that insecure, work on your oral skills. The size of a penis doesn't not come close to comparing with a guy who has oral skills... that's where the money is, sweet thing!

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A female reader, Inutashy United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

Inutashy agony auntThere are ways, but actually you shouldn't worry about it to much. The g spot(the spot that gives alot of pleasure to a woman) is only about an inch inside the vagina. Also if the penis is over about 7inches you can hurt a female if you go all in. Lastly I know very few girls who care about size, in fact I no several who anyone with a penis much above 6 inches kinda scares them as far as sex goes. I'm one of those people and I don't care how big it is and am happy with my bfs 5ish incher haha. If it really concerns you MSG me and I can give you a link that may help

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