New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244969 questions, 1084319 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Does body size matter to a guy?

Tagged as: Big Questions, Breaking up<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (27 February 2011) 12 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2011)
A female Ireland age 36-40, *ischa1987 writes:

Do men find a curvy body attractive???

I am short lol! Only 5'4" JUST!!! and I am not a skinny girl like, I wish I was more hourglass too, my measurements are 38-35-42 and I just want to know, do guys like girls with a bit extra on the bottom and does it turn them on????

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (28 February 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt You gotta be kidding. I have your type of body ( with a smaller waist, but also one inch less of height ) and when I was your age I had to fend them off with a stick :)

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

while i agree with the other answers, yes, anyone can find someone to love them, regardless of size - i have found myself that i get much more attention when i am slim, as opposed to the times in my life that i have been a little overweight. so personally i do think body size plays a part in initial attraction, because when i am bigger although i have the same face and hair and i am the same person, i get less attention. maybe i do not feel or appear as confident when i am bigger??

no matter what size you are you can dress very well and make the best of your body size. exercise is a key ingredient for a happy healthy life though so it would be great for you to get some, whether you want to lose weight or not

xx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, underTow70 United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

underTow70 agony auntbeauty is in the eye of the beholder!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (28 February 2011):

The Realist agony auntNo one is beautiful to all but everyone is beautiful to someone.

I'm sure you will be the most beautiful girl in the world to the guy you choose to be with. You can definitely turn guys on, it's all about how you work the body that you have.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (28 February 2011):

Danielepew agony auntI agree with Dobro: beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. So do enjoyable women :-). So, don't worry.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Inutashy United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

Inutashy agony auntDepends on the guy. I'm 5'4 even ann I barly made it there, but I ain't skinny and haven't been since elementry school. But I've found a few guys who've liked me, not all are my body type either! One was skinny as heck, and the current is skrawny too. Both where/are(respectively) turned on by me(I don't get why but it's true haha) and so don't worry to much about body type. Personality can turn a guy on more then the perfect "hourglass"

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011):

Yeah of course we do.

We like every size girl as long as she's happy and confident.

Although we tend to stay away from the morbidly obese and malnourished.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011):

Lots of guys like short girls, I'm 5'11'' and it's pretty annoying. And yes, all my guyfriends like the girls with big cabooses, haha. :3

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, SweetSmoochy United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

SweetSmoochy agony auntGuys definitely don't get out the tape measure dear.

It matters to some guys, but they aren't super nit-picky. Your height is going to be cute to a lot of them, actually, and you're not really that short!

Curvy is absolutely something a lot of men like. The starved model look is overrated and reptilian, and 98% of all guys I know really don't like the skinny look. They'd much rather have a lady with actual shape!

Curvy is beautiful, but you know what's more so? Confidence. When you can look at yourself and see beauty inside and out, people will see that. When you're confident, the people who don't see your beauty don't matter.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, guccimane99 United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

I would agree with dobro all women come in all different shapes and sizes. Ur not short at all u need to be more confident men like women that know what they want.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, dobro United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

dobro agony auntbeautiful women come in all shapes and sizes.

you sound perfect to me :)

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntEver hear the saying, There is a lid for every pot??

PS: I am only 5'3" have similar measurements, and my hubby is 6'7". Its never been a problem for us. ;)

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Does body size matter to a guy? "

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312492000011844!