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Ive been in a lot of places relationship wise though I havn't been dating long and I'm young so I hope I can help any one who needs it

Double boy trouble! Part 1...

Q.   This problem is several fold so I guess I'll ask one part at a time rather then all at once 1) I love a boy (pretend his name is Dylan) so I've known him since basically infancy as his family and my friends are rly close and I was always at my fr...

A.   3 March 2011: just to clarify, i love alex, and i dont want to go out with dylan agian cuz its just not meant to be, i just dont no how to get over him for good so that i only love alex. The reason it didnt work wit me and dylan is because i couldnt be without ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I can cum around this girl

Q.   I have a quick question about masturbation and sex. I'm still a virgin and have recently started dating a very sexual girl, i've given all I can give up to the point of sex and haven't received anything. I'm worried about not being able to cum. I c...

A.   2 March 2011: I wouldn't worry about it, just explain it to her and she may be able to help. Also if you orgasm but don't ejaculate that can b a plus as somtimes that allows men to last longer during sex. Lastly you never know what can happen in the heat of the ... (read in full...)

Insecure about the size of my penis?

Q.   my penis size is 5inches im very unsecure and afraid that It wont penetrate or fit! and my girlfriend wants to have sex veryy soon. should i be worried please help!! and please be honest.. thank you (:...

A.   2 March 2011: The average size a the human penis is 5-6 inches. It will penetrate(even men with 2inch peniss do) as it should be fine, size dosnt matter as much as men(and some women) tend to think. If your comparing size to those in porn there's are one of those ... (read in full...)

What do women think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend?

Q.   Hey i was just wondering what girls think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend (yes, a virgin aswell), do you consider it pathetic? I dunno im a sweet guy, i'd dare say attractive, im just a lil shy, i guess it's true what they say: ...

A.   2 March 2011: Thou we're younger my bf hadn't had a gf or ne thing before me and I just found it adorable. And as far as u getting a gf somtimes it's easyest to go out with a girl you've been friends with and happen to have a crush on. Also there's nothing wrong ... (read in full...)

How do I ask this girl to kiss me?

Q.   Hey guys, I really wanna kiss this girl who i like and I am pretty sure she likes me but I don't know how to ask her to kiss me. Has anyone got any good ideas?...

A.   1 March 2011: If u txt or MSG her you can do what my bf did before we wen out. After walking to the bus after scool we'd been talking. When I got on the bus he said "I rly wanted to kiss you" of course u had wanted to kiss him to. This can be a double edged sword ... (read in full...)

She's the woman of my dreams, but I can't ask her out on Facebook, can I?

Q.   Okay, this is quite a difficult thing to explain, but I'll try. - I have been single for a good while now. I'm currently 20, and haven't had a girlfriend in about 18 months. This never really bothered me too much and I was pretty happy, up until ...

A.   28 February 2011: Send her a MSG saying you saw her at school n noticed on fb u got some stuff in common and mayb you should catch a movie as friends. You should be friends before hand, and that way you can avoid asking out on fb... (read in full...)

I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!

Q.   Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. ...

A.   28 February 2011: My friend is 17 and is with a 20 year old, personally I've no age problems once both parties are at least mid/ late teens. One thing is to explain to your mom, if you can maybe sit with her alone and explain how you feel. Keep sex out of it(as in ... (read in full...)

Have I blown my chances with her by not making my feelings obvious enough and maybe appearing disinterested??

Q.   Hi everyone, Yesterday I went on a second date with a really nice girl (beautiful, intelligent, etc etc) which I thought went quite well but when I sent her a message afterwards to say thanks I got no response (normally she responds within ...

A.   28 February 2011: well i wouldnt worry if she dosnt answer in a day or two, somtimes you just dont think to, maybe ask her if you two could go out agian via phone call email ect and see what the answer is, and the not kissing part i wouldnt worry to much about, ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!

Q.   I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who ...

A.   28 February 2011: Personally I'm friends with all my exs an some are my best friends. I think it's cuz I was always friends first relationship later and I feel like we have enough in common to talk. Also it's alot easier to ask a really good guy friend about somthing ... (read in full...)

Could I get pregnant doing this?

Q.   okay so i want to remain a vargin until marrige but my boyfriend doesnt so we do mess around. He has rubbed his penis around my anus area and almost by my vaginal area i just want to make sure that there is no way i can get pregnant unless the penus ...

A.   28 February 2011: Though it's rare it can happen, you can even get pregnant without him ejaculating. Sperm can be in pre cum and can get in without penetration so be careful. I'd get birthcontrol for safety(I've considered it myself) hope this helps... (read in full...)

Am I puritan for staying a virgin at 18?

Q.   I am an 18 year old girl who is a virgin. All of my friends have had sexual relations prior to turning 18. They say I am a puritan and should be having sex at my age. I think I am right in that I want to wait until I am married. Am I wrong ?...

A.   28 February 2011: I'm 17 and I am planning for no sex till marrige. Actually no more virgins my age, then non virgins. It's your choice and don't do it unless it's what you want, nothing is worse then being pressured into things, especially sex. Nothing is wrong with ... (read in full...)

After watching porn, I feel insecure about my penis size. Is there a way to make it larger?

Q.   Hi, I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I am feeling so shy about my penis after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of ...

A.   28 February 2011: There are ways, but actually you shouldn't worry about it to much. The g spot(the spot that gives alot of pleasure to a woman) is only about an inch inside the vagina. Also if the penis is over about 7inches you can hurt a female if you go all in. ... (read in full...)

I gave my boyfriend my first hand job. Was his reaction good or bad?

Q.   Well, I gave my first handjob after wracking my brain for two weeks about doing it. My boyfriend and I were together a month and a half last year in September/October. He broke up with me, and we got back together in December and are still together...

A.   28 February 2011: Lol the first time I gave my bf one was kinda the same. He ended up stopping me and sitting up and right as he was about to run into the bathroom his bro went in hahaha. He had to hold it in until his bro was done. Guys have kinda weird reactions. I ... (read in full...)

I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?

Q.   Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything...

A.   28 February 2011: I'm 17 and only just barely let my bf touch me haha. Maybe your not scared but just as the game says nervous. Don't think a boy has to touch you for the relationship to work. I told my bf right out, no sex and even though he wants to, he accepts ... (read in full...)

Does body size matter to a guy?

Q.   Do men find a curvy body attractive??? I am short lol! Only 5'4" JUST!!! and I am not a skinny girl like, I wish I was more hourglass too, my measurements are 38-35-42 and I just want to know, do guys like girls with a bit extra on the bottom a...

A.   28 February 2011: Depends on the guy. I'm 5'4 even ann I barly made it there, but I ain't skinny and haven't been since elementry school. But I've found a few guys who've liked me, not all are my body type either! One was skinny as heck, and the current is skrawny ... (read in full...)

I'd like to ask my girlfriend to shave...

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for not that long and just started to have sex, but she doesn't shave. It doesnt bother me that much but I would prefer it if she did shave. How can I approach this problem?...

A.   28 February 2011: My bf just asked me to shave it, didn't say he didn't like it or nuttin just asked. When I asked why he said he heard it felt beta n so I did n no I keep it shaved almost all the time. If she gets offended just say it's not that you don't like the ... (read in full...)

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