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Should I wait until he texts me first?
Q. Should I always texts my boyfriend first. I love him alot but I some how feel like i'm the one who misses him. He dosen't really text me first. Should I just wait till he textes me first. ...
A. 21 December 2011: If it bothers you, then maybe mention when you next see him to him that you always seem to be initating the conversation and see what he says and tell him you'd like him to make more of an effort ^_^
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How can I be more open with my boyfriend? Is it ok to tell him to back off?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a fairly new boyfriend (about 4 months together, although we've known each other for about 2 years), and I'm having trouble figuring out how much I need to share with him. I grew up with a lot of problems at home, and I'm stil...
A. 16 December 2011: It's really sweet of him to care, and it shows that he really loves you if he wants to hear about your problems. :) However, you don't 'need' to share anything like this if you don't want to, and you could simply tell him in a gentle way that whilst ... (read in full...)
I have an eye infection and can't wear makeup. Should I not go out clubbing?
Q. Honest question, i'm going out tomorrow but I can't wear eye makeup with an infection I have at the moment. I've never been clubbing without makeup and I worry guys will think I look ugly without it, I don't know whether to go out and just have a ...
A. 15 December 2011: I'm sure you look fine without make up :) you could make sure that your hair is done nicer than usual and wear an outfit you know you look good in with some nice jewellery to make you feel more confident? You could also maybe wear some lipstick if ... (read in full...)
Best friend and I like the same girl. She likes me. Do I ask her out and betray my friend?
Q. I really like this girl and she told me she liked me but the problem is that my best friend likes this girl too and everyone knows that he does. Everyone also knows that this girl likes me but almost noone knows I like her. So here's the situatio...
A. 9 December 2011: Maybe you could ask your friend how he'd feel about it first, before going ahead with it as if you go out with the girl behind his back it could ruin your friendship for life. If he isn't happy about it, then don't go out with her and try and find ... (read in full...)
Art and Design or Business and Enterprise? Which one to choose?
Q. Basically long story short i need help choosing one more subject for me to do for the next two years. In two years time i will be having a series of massive exams called GCSE'S. Depending on the results ...
A. 30 November 2011: I chose art GCSE because i thought it would be relaxing and i liked it, but it was actually my most stressful subject and the one i had to do most work in. (i chose History, and an advanced ICT option which took up 2 choices)
Business would be... (read in full...)
How can I approach an attractive girl? Fear of Rejection.
Q. There is a girl in my class who in see at least twice a week who seems really polite and quiet but I don't know how to approach her. As I'm afraid of being rejected. She once approached me and a couple of friends and asked in a very polite manner ...
A. 30 November 2011: I know how you feel~ After starting at uni, every friday I had a lecture mixed with another course and the first week i noticed a boy who intrigued me instantly and that i thought was extremely attractive. I'd found out that we had a lot in common ... (read in full...)
Ladies, once you meet a new interesting guy, when do you allow that first intimate touch?
Q. Ledies, you meet a new interesting guy. When do you allow that first intimate touch? Is it any different if you meet him while you're hurting from a recent break up? Your answers are important to me....
A. 30 November 2011: I guess it would depend on the guy for me and what the touch was. My ex (my 1st boyfriend)and I had the first kiss, holding hands and making out within the first week of going out and then he touched my breasts after a couple of months. After about ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my messy flatmates?
Q. Hey everyone, I was wondering if you could advise me how to deal with this situation. Basically, I am in first year of university, living in halls in a flat with 5 other girls. We share a kitchen/ living area. I get on with them alright, but they...
A. 27 November 2011: I'm at uni too in my first year sharing a small kitchen with 4 other girls and 5 guys. We've sort of made everything thats not food~ plates, pots,cutlery etc communal so anyone can use each others. And we've also come up with a washing up/cleaning ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to obsess over a celebrity?
Q. Okay so i'm 15 ... and i'm just wondering if it's normal to obsess over a celebrity ... now i'm not crazy or anything. It's a member of a not so popular band and i was in covent garden for about the one and only time last week and i wrote as a jok...
A. 22 November 2011: I'm now 19 and i still obsess over a couple of celebrities :) It used to be a lot more when i was your age though and i drove my friends mad talking about them all the time. It's perfectly normal to really fancy famous people as they seem like "id... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any quotes/sayings that they live by or feel inspired from?
Q. I know this is a relationship website, but I am getting a quote painted on my wall above the mirror, I want it to be something that when I wake up and look at everyday, I feel inspired by it! Something about either, life, success, our future, ...
A. 20 November 2011: Nikki Sixx in his solo band Sixx:AM wrote a song called "life is beautiful" which is a really inspirational song in itself. It's first lyric though i completely agree with and love...."You can't quit until you try" :)
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Am I immature for feeling like I can't be friends with my ex boyfriend...?
Q. I had a horrible break up with my ex boyfriend for almost 2 years months ago. It was like a few days after my birthday he broke up with me so imagine how long it took for me to start pulling things back together. So during our time not speaking to ...
A. 20 November 2011: Nothing says you have to be friends with an ex. A couple of months ago, me and my ex broke up~ it was mutual due to uni's and stuff, but to get t truely get over him i blocked him out of my life entirely- deleted/took down all his photos, hid all ... (read in full...)
It's been a week since I last heard from my boyfriend
Q. I haven't heard from my boyfriend in a week. We've been in a long distance for almost two years. Every now and then, he'll just disappear until I confront him and he'll tell me something about how he's stressed out and can't handle being a bf right ...
A. 16 November 2011: I was in this sort of situation when I started uni this year. Me and my boyfriend (now ex) of a year attempted long distance and it didn't work out. He never contacted me unless I made the first move (but this had happened a lot in the past too), so ... (read in full...)
How do you give a hickey?
Q. Its a random question but how do you give hickeys/love bites? My friends told me all you do is suck on the skin but for how long? I tried giving my boyfriend one last night and Nothing happend. Seriously How do you like make them??...
A. 3 September 2011: I sort of put my teeth lightly on the skin and suck strongly and then with my teeth still biting, lick the area and then suck again and then let go. I would say this takes me about 10 seconds :)... (read in full...)
Has anyone managed to stay in touch with their college friends?
Q. I'm quite depressed, I'm leaving for university in two weeks and last Saturday was the last time everyone i went to college with was together. It was the best send off that it upsets me that we're going separate ways. I know I'll love university and ...
A. 2 September 2011: I'm in the same kind of situation as you~ as me and my friends are all going off to different uni's. I think though that if there is a strong enough bond between you all and you reguarly keep in contact with them such as texting and facebook/emails ... (read in full...)
I really don’t think he will cheat on me, but there is a nagging worry in my mind. Am I over reacting? Or should I be cautious?
Q. Hi, I am really sorry that this is so long and if anyone does read all of this then I deeply appreciate it. I’ve been with my boyfriend 'Carl' for 11 months now and things are pretty good between us and we’re gonna try and attempt a long d...
A. 17 August 2011: Just a little update, I've talked to him now (he's been away) and he told me seriously that he had no feelings at all apart from friendship for Beth and he meets up with her sometimes due to the fact that they live really close to each other and all ... (read in full...)
Do guys really like girls dying their hair?
Q. Okay so do guys really like it when girls dye their hair? I am 19 and have never dyed my hair. I have a natural dark brown shade really dark and sometimes I wonder what it would be like to dye my hair a different colour or even a little lighter. ...
A. 14 August 2011: My boyfriend has never complained about my hair colour and I am constantly dying it. Naturally its a dark brown colour, but when i bleached it blonde i seemed to get a lot of attention. One boy told me it looked nice but he prefered my hair red and ... (read in full...)
What body type do ladies find attractive?
Q. Everyone will have a different answer, I know, but... what type of body do you girls like in an 18 year old lad? As in skinny, slim and toned, bulky or lots of softness? I'm doing a bit of weight training to get biger and just wondered what people ...
A. 12 August 2011: Everyone has personal preferences but for me personally I like slim-ish but i think a little tummy is adorable and a lot more comfy to cuddle! :D I don't particuarly like muscles though most of my friends like guys who are fairly toned. ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you like your friend's ex?
Q. Right well I really like this boy I've liked him for about 5 weeks and he likes me exactly the same, the only problem I his ex is one of my friends and they went out for about 5 months and she lost her virginity to him and everything they finished ...
A. 11 August 2011: I think there isn't really a yes or no answer to this sort of question. In my opinion it's ok to be with a friends' ex as long as they give you permission for it. This happened with me and I'm now going out with a friends' ex because she was ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to not talk on the phone?
Q. Are there any couples out there who never have conversations on the phone and are okay with it? My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year and we've only had one conversation on the phone. The other times we've talked on the phone were j...
A. 10 August 2011: I've only had a few short phone calls with my boyfriend~ and those were just to organise a couple of plans. We just text mainly, use msn as well as facebook along with seeing each other in person! However, as we are both going to different ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has lots of female friends and I feel jealous
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and I guess I'm in teenage love. When we're together it's perfect- I feel like he really does like...love me. He says and does everything right...but.he also has a lot of friends. Thats great- but ...
A. 10 August 2011: I know exactly how you feel~ my boyfriend of nearly a year has got loads of friends who are girls and this makes me feel so jealous (i get jealous easily) and insecure. He also occassionally meets up with some of them one-on-one which worries me as ... (read in full...)
Is the age gap really a problem? What do I do?
Q. Basically me and my best friend are very very close and we spend a lot of time with eachother and eachother's familes and friends. For about a year or so now i have known this guy who lives next door to her, we get on really really well and from day ...
A. 7 August 2011: If you like him then you should just be with him~ this is only a tiny age gap so it shouldn't be a problem. One of my friends has a boyfriend who is a year younger (she is 18 whilst he is 17)and they have been going out for nearly a year now, so ... (read in full...)
Someone help! I don't want to make the wrong decision on my future!
Q. I know this is relationship advice, but this website gives me the best, most insightful advice!! I don't know what to do, i have a vitally important life decision to make. And i have to make it as my future starts in a month!! Ever since i was 10 ...
A. 5 August 2011: I would definately choose America. I'm actually so jealous of you as I'm going to uni next month to do film production and i would love to go to America in the film industry! If you can still get your degree whilst being out there then thats an ... (read in full...)
Making out?
Q. What is the right way to make out with someone?...
A. 3 August 2011: As the others have said, there is no 'correct' way to make out, as long as you are both enjoying it then thats the most important thing.
I personally would say to start off just doing little kisses in a row, and then gradually maybe introduce tong... (read in full...)
Need advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend!
Q. Hi I’m 16 nearly 17 and I need some advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend.We’ve been together for 6 months now and He’s getting pretty confident when it comes to pleasing me. We've both agreed to wait a while before sex but he often gets a ...
A. 1 August 2011: maybe you could very gradually ease your hand under his boxers and just stroke there to get him more excited? Try different stroking patterns and rhythms~ i like pressing my fingers on my boyfriends bulge lightly one by one very quickly :)
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I really don’t think he will cheat on me, but there is a nagging worry in my mind. Am I over reacting? Or should I be cautious?
Q. Hi, I am really sorry that this is so long and if anyone does read all of this then I deeply appreciate it. I’ve been with my boyfriend 'Carl' for 11 months now and things are pretty good between us and we’re gonna try and attempt a long d...
A. 29 July 2011: Thankies for your answer but I really don't think he's cheating on me. He never actually touched her breasts and that was a one off one minute type of thing where they were surrounded by other people at the school activity and were just messing ... (read in full...)
I really don’t think he will cheat on me, but there is a nagging worry in my mind. Am I over reacting? Or should I be cautious?
Q. Hi, I am really sorry that this is so long and if anyone does read all of this then I deeply appreciate it. I’ve been with my boyfriend 'Carl' for 11 months now and things are pretty good between us and we’re gonna try and attempt a long d...
A. 29 July 2011: Thank you both for your answers, especially to the first poster~ you wrote so much and it was really interesting to read.
In answer to your question no he doesn't tell me when he meets up with them~ i'm sure he would if i asked something like "wha... (read in full...)
It's my boyfriend's birthday in a month. Any hints on what to get him?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of weeks now - its his birthday in a month and I have no idea what to get him. Any hints would be great!...
A. 26 July 2011: As Fatherly Advice said, i like the idea of making some sort of food/sweets for him or how about a homemade cake? if you're not that good at baking then what about a voucher for a shop he likes? :)
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Opinions on beards please!!
Q. Hiyaaaaa, Well this isn't really a problem more off a personal opinion and preference! I don't do art as a subject anymore but I recently bumped into my art teacher and saw him with a beard!!!!! So guys why would you guys grow a beard or ...
A. 9 July 2011: I love stubble on guys but not too keen on full on beards and really don't like moustaches. Also i'm quite fond of the style of facial hair Nikki Sixx has~ though i don't know it's correct name! hehee ?... (read in full...)
Why are you vegetarian/vegan?
Q. Hey, I'm not planning on becoming a vegetarian, but I do care about animals very much and when I'm older I'd like to cut down on my meat intake. I could never fully quit, I love meat too much. So, to all the vegetarian/vegans out there, why are you ...
A. 10 June 2011: I've not eaten meat since i was about 12 and i'm now 18. It started off by seeing and reading infomation online about how animals were treated and I just thought that was wrong~ why can humans get away with killing animals whereas if they killed a ... (read in full...)
I feel left out by my girfriends. Is it because of my good looks?
Q. up until recentally i looked a bit geeky and awkard and i used to get a bit picked on at school. but at this stage i had a very close group of friends who are all girls. we used to always do stuff together at the weekend. but in the last 6 months i ...
A. 10 June 2011: Once you started getting more attention, did you start acting differently around your friends, as if you are better than them or boasting about your new found attention slightly? If so then this could be the case and if you want your friends 'back' ... (read in full...)
How much to shave.
Q. I'm new to sex and everything and i wanted to know do i shave it all off keep some? i would ask my boyfriend but its embarrassing and i dont know what to do! ...
A. 16 April 2011: I'm quite new to sexual stuff too and when me and my boyfriend started doing things, I just trimmed it a little(my own choice) and he's never complained or told me to do anything different :) Just do what you feel comfortable doing and don't worry ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion of someone who has quite a few piercings on their body?
Q. I currently have my first and seconds (lobe piercings), and my helix done (upper ear cartilage piercing) and in my left ear first piercing (lobe), i have a 3mm fleshy (stretcher) And i want: -My thirds -My tongue -My nose -My belly ...
A. 15 April 2011: I don't think that there's anything wrong with getting a lot of piercings. I personally have 12 (mainly ones on my ears) and a tattoo and i get quite a lot of compliments about them~ and i still want more of them! :) For work or school you can ... (read in full...)
I want to go out with my new friends, but I need them to invite me. What should I do?
Q. I know this question isn't specifically about love but i need some help, please! I have just got this new group of friends at school and im REALLY happy, they are great! Problem is, they all live near each other and are really close. They always g...
A. 8 April 2011: Why don't you try inviting them round your house for a day, or some kind of other social event? :)Maybe after that they would invite you out with them when they go out? Good Luck ^_^ ... (read in full...)
I don't find fingering enjoyable!
Q. recently my girlfriend has been fingering me (first time) i'm almost 16 but i am finding it's not very enjoying and i don't feel any pleasur, also my vagina starts to hurt afterwards what may this be ?...
A. 20 March 2011: Maybe you aren't wet enough down there in which case you could buy some lube or spend longer touching more of each others bodies and kissing to make you more turned on? Good luck :)... (read in full...)
Who to share a flat with?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm at university and am having to decide where I'm gonna live next year. Problem is I have 2 offers on the table - one of them is with one other girl who is quiet and already owns a flat in a reasonably nice area of town, but its a ...
A. 15 February 2011: I'm not at uni yet but i will be next year. I think i would probably choose the girl as i personally don't think i would like to share a house with 4 other people (i like my own space too much). But it depends on your personality and who you feel ... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell him to get rid of his friends who are girls!
Q. Hi, Well I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and it’s been going really well and we see each other most weekends and sometimes a couple of days throughout the week ~ but recently I’ve been feeling really insecure. I know he is a loyal(he...
A. 6 February 2011: Thank you :)... (read in full...)
We've been dating 10 months and she still doesn't know my number by heart?
Q. So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4+ months and I came to realize that she doesn't know my number by heart. No big deal is what I initially thought but then I found out that she still know's her ex's number by heart (they dated for 2 ...
A. 4 January 2011: I wouldn't be worried.:) I can't remember anyones numbers, not even my own mobile, and i have had some of my friends for years (best friend now for 15yrs and i still don't know her 6 digit home number by heart):P
Some people are not good at reme... (read in full...)
Views on student crushes on their teachers?
Q. I really like a teacher...So I have liked many teachers before but once again i am in love with this teacher but the thing is i dont atcually have him as a teacher...he is an computing teacher and the first time i saw him i really liked him...one ...
A. 14 December 2010: I have liked quite a few of my teachers in the past, but when i was 15 I fell so deeply for my english teacher; not just her appearance but her voice, personality, laugh, clothes etc...
At the end of yr11 (i was moving to a different schools 6th ... (read in full...)
Attracted to my Best Friends Ex
Q. Im in my last year of high school and i've started having feelings for my best friends ex. But its forbiddon territory! I never meant to fall for him, but we are together everyday and its so hard. He really likes me too and I think we could be so ...
A. 13 November 2010: i would say, that eventhough it'll be hard, don't go out with the ex. i nearly lost a friendship as i got caught making out with one of my friends ex's- luckily she forgave me and we are still really close. It's probably because he was your ... (read in full...)
I have an urge to tell him how I feel
Q. Alright, so. I honestly think that I am in love with my teacher. He is so perfect to me in everyway. I am a freshman student as of now, and he is my Spanish teacher. I am 15 years old and he is 30. It is a 15 year difference, but I can care less abo...
A. 23 October 2010: I think that it would be for the best if you didn't tell him because it could cost him his job, and if you really do love him (i'm not going to judge you and say that it's only a crush) then you would put his feelings and career first, especially if ... (read in full...)
Lost in high school, lost in life generally
Q. I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's ...
A. 5 September 2010: Hiya. Everyone has a purpose in life even if they are unsure what theirs is yet. :) Maybe you could take up a new hobby or a sport to give you something to be passionate about and take your mind off things? you might discover a hidden talent too ... (read in full...)
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