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writes:I know this question isn't specifically about love but i need some help, please!I have just got this new group of friends at school and im REALLY happy, they are great! Problem is, they all live near each other and are really close. They always go the park together but they don't ask me because i haven't hung around with them before and they don't call for me because they don't know where i live. I started hanging around with them about a few weeks ago? I would really like to go with them but i cant just ask? what should i do?Thank you :)Jeeeeeez.. i sound desperate, i do have other friends!! haha Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey! Theyre group is big and there are boys in it too, they have all known each other since primary.just some updates :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Me and my best friends where always the same they didn't live in the same area as me and to begin with I was always left out. This is what I did and it worked for me. I took their numbers and made the first steps. Since they have always been together and are in the habit of always just thinking of each other. This way if you have their number you can phone them and ask them what you are upto. Ask them what their plans are for that night and once they tell you say for example they are going to the park just say ok will I meet you there? It is a question but a forceful one where they will give you a time and expect you to come at the same time. After a while hopefully you will become one of the "clique" and they will involve you without you having to put in much effort. Good luck x
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 I would not stand so much on ceremonies. You can just say : Hey guys, at what time are you going to the park usually, I was thinking of joining you .Or : here's my phone no, next time you are going to the park, could you text me, I'd like to hang out too .There should not be any problem . But even if they should be coldish toward the idea, don't take it dramatically, as some spiteful rejection. Girls at your age can be very cliquey , particularly if they know each other since long time, - so maybe the park get together is like their own little ritual.Anyway, by asking friendly and politely you are not crossing any boundary, so go for it.
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX +, writes (8 April 2011):
 Why don't you try inviting them round your house for a day, or some kind of other social event? :)Maybe after that they would invite you out with them when they go out? Good Luck ^_^
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