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I'm 25, live in the UK and have the most special wonderful man in my life who makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the world 3 |
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Someone help me with talking dirty?
Q. Someone help me with talking dirty? Me and my boyfriend were in an intense makeout session before and he wanted me to talk dirty to him. I didn't know what to say so I panicked an pretended that I had to go. I don't know what to say and he's a year ...
A. 29 May 2012: This kinda happened with me too~ I was making out with my boyfriend and he asked me to talk dirty to him; something which i'd never done before to anyone. I just went along with it and acted confident/like i knew what i was doing. I said stuff like ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend watching porn? I feel sick at the thought of it!
Q. I recently found out my boyfriend watches porn, and I hate it! I have some real issues with myself, I have terribly low self confidence and low self esteem. We have a very active sex life, so why does he have to watch other women? What is wrong with ...
A. 28 May 2012: Most likely he's just watching it for the act itself and not the actors/actresses. I'm female and I watch porn, and when I watch it (I also have a boyfriend and he occasionally watches it when i'm away)i don't look at 'them', just the breasts and ... (read in full...)
He comments on everyone's FB pics except mine??
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months and we are friends on Facebook obviously. What bugs me is he has never liked or commented on any of my pictures but I see him commenting on my friends pictures saying things like "awww" and ...
A. 28 May 2012: Maybe he feels he doesn't need to comment on your photos as he sees you on a regular basis (and not your friends?), and tells you personally each time you meet up? If it really bothers you, talk to him :)... (read in full...)
I want to date my friend's ex!
Q. I like my friends ex boyfriend they broke up a week ago and I want him to notice me but it's hard because he is still into her what do I do if she moved on and I want him to move on and date me...
A. 25 May 2012: I'm not the sort of person to say 'never date a friends ex'. I went out with one of my friends ex's and we lasted a year (broke up mutually) and I'm still on good terms with my friend (and ex). To me it depends on 3 factors~ how long they've broken ... (read in full...)
I want to show him I love him -- should I lose my virginity to him?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months.. i feel like i really love him . but i sometimes think about my ex. that hurt really bad but then again we had alot connection. but! i really want to show my bf how much i love him i dont know ...
A. 25 May 2012: Don't lose it just to prove that you love him. Wait until you feel 100% happy yourself to lose it. If it felt right to you, you wouldn't have to ask this question. There are many other ways to show someone how much you love him without having to ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex before. What do we do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex. I've never had sex before. What do we have to do? What foreplay can we do before? Help me please? :/...
A. 24 May 2012: Surely if you're ready for sex, you would know what foreplay turns you both on? ....
But, use hands and/or mouths on each other, kiss, cuddle, lick...just getting yourselves more and more aroused until you feel you can't stand it any longer. :) Make... (read in full...)
Do women really hate porn?
Q. I have lot of porn dvds at home. My wife rarely watches it. My question is, do all women hate to watch porn or is it some?. If some women like porn what are the categories they like to watch. say, lesbian, taboo, straight, BDSM, oral.... ...
A. 18 May 2012: I like porn, and on occasion watch it. I don't really have a particular category but I mainly watch straight, sometimes lesbian, never just 2 guys though. I'm open to watching most things though at least once :)... (read in full...)
Problems and worries about dry sex!
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 3 months. Quite recently, we started having dry sex, with clothes on and gradually, just in undergarments. However, I'm starting to feel insecure. I did my research on Dry Sex and many sou...
A. 15 May 2012: You could go on the pill or get the implant? :)... (read in full...)
My friends and family always seem to call me when I'm with my boyfriend! Is it rude to tell them not to call me when I'm away with him this weekend?
Q. It seems like everytime I hangout with my boyfriend my friends and family all seem to call and text me. Sometimes it is just a weird coincidence. My one friend likes to call me a lot. I plan on staying with my boyfriend this weekend. My question is, ...
A. 9 May 2012: Why not just switch your phone off completely for the weekend? That way, there's no need to tell people not to call you. When you return if they query it,just say you didn't pay it much attention. If you're having a holiday away, why would you need ... (read in full...)
I get called a teacher's pet at school but I only do this because I appreciate my teacher! What shall I do?
Q. My English teacher is one of the top 3 in my life and I am her little pet. I give her multiple presents and cards and I am always complimenting her on the way she teaches. I bring her candy everyday and I make sure she's always having a good day. I ...
A. 29 April 2012: I'd say probably cut down on the gifts~ once every now and again, or on a special occasion like Easter, Christmas or her birthday it would be fine, but every day is over doing it a little in my mind. It's nice that you've got a good relationship ... (read in full...)
I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl.
Q. I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl. My bf has many girls as friends and I don't have any issues with any one of them except this one. I think it's important to understand their past to answer this question. ...
A. 21 April 2012: If I was in your posistion i would be extremely insecure too, but then again I get jealous quite easily. I'd say to tell him exactly how you feel about her and how uncomftable it makes you. Maybe you could try and become friends with this girl too, ... (read in full...)
How should I dress for this new job?
Q. So I start my new job in a few days and you think i would be nervous about the job or that and i'm meeting a new group of people who i'll be working with for the next month. But instead i'm more worried about my outfit! I want to make a great ...
A. 12 April 2012: I'd say that they were probably a bit too high for work~ maybe you could get a pair of heels just for work which are smaller? Ones that high could leave the wrong impression.... (read in full...)
Do girls shave their pubes when they have sex?
Q. I'm a virgin still at the age of 19, I've had plenty of flings but I'm waiting for that right guy to lose it to, and I reckon it will be soon. One thing - do girls shave their pubes when they have sex? I know this sounds ridiculous but i...
A. 11 April 2012: Me and my friends have talked about this lots~ its really ok to talk about if you feel close enough :) A lot of my friends do shave because they think it feels nicer for them and they don't like having hair down there. I personally just shave the ... (read in full...)
I feel insecure about my 34C breasts!
Q. Hi this is gonna seem a really cliché question. I've always been really small like a size 6/8 and 5 2" so this is going to seem inevitable but I am really self conscious about the size of my boobs. On paper they should be fine ( 34C) but they look ...
A. 21 March 2012: I know how you feel~ mine are a 36D to DD depending on the bra, but without a bra they look a LOT smaller. But over time i've become happier with the way they look. It could be that you have a wider ribcage which therefore could make them appear as ... (read in full...)
A cologne to turn my girlfriend on?
Q. Hi Guys, This question is for women to answer and men are welcome too :D. Do you know a specific perfume that i can use to turn my girlfriend on and really worked for you? ...
A. 18 March 2012: My boyfriend doesn't wear cologne (neither did my ex) but i LOVE the deodrant/spray he wears. It's adidas~ice dive :D Smells sooooooo good ^_^ They also apparenly do an aftershave with the scent too :) ... (read in full...)
I want to have a relationship--but I find women utterly annoying!!
Q. ok here's my problem. i've never really had a successful relationship with a woman. the reason is...the ones I've dated or known closely have gotten to be the most annoying, superficial. dishonest, and gossipy individuals I've ever met. i am ...
A. 15 March 2012: I bet many women would say steorotypes about men too, into; sports, gaming, cars etc. Not all women you meet will be like you described~ personally I hate reality TV and don't care much about shopping/clothes either. Many of my female friends share ... (read in full...)
How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend in the average week?
Q. Hi Dearcupid, I was wondering how often you see your boyfriend/girlfriend on average? My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost four months and we only see each other once a week, usually on Saturdays. Sometimes he will text me ...
A. 15 March 2012: The relationship you're describing sounds a little like the one i had with my ex (my 1st boyfriend). At the start we'd text each other every day or so, but soon he stopped texting me first and i had to initiate the conversation most of the time. We ... (read in full...)
Dating a guy but found out my best friend liked him too and now we barely speak! Should I break up with him to save our friendship?
Q. So I've been dating this guy for 3 months now. Only thin is I found out my best friend liked him as well. I found this out a month ago. When she heard we were dating she told me and said that it's gonna take a while to get used too. Since then, we ...
A. 14 March 2012: If you like him, and he likes you too then there's no reason to break up with him. If your friend told you she liked him before you started going out with him that'd be a different story but you weren't to know and it's a bit mean of her to bring it ... (read in full...)
I really dislike being single
Q. I've been single since October And most people I talk to say that they like being single but I don't. Everyone says that I will never fib nd a boyfriend if I am looking but I cant just stop. I like a couple of guys but I am 99% sure none of them lik...
A. 13 March 2012: You're only young~ you still have your whole life ahead of you. I only had my first kiss when i was 17 (nearly 18, and i'm 19 now). I never did anything before this. And i'm pleased i didn't~ i've skipped the whole young teenage boys being immature ... (read in full...)
Crush revealed he had a g/f on our date and now he's ignoring me
Q. Hi all I'm feeling pretty upset over this guy I have a crush on. We recently went on a date and everything went well (at least I think so) Before that we've been texting non-stop. I did not expect that because I only knew him for a day. But he was ...
A. 10 March 2012: Maybe his girlfriend feels uncomftable with him texting another girl and asked him to stop so he's respecting her wishes? I know if my boyfriend suddenly started texting a girl i never met i would be very jealous/suspicious about it. Give it a few ... (read in full...)
B/f inexperienced and winds up hurting me while trying to make me feel good
Q. Ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we both virgins and want to stay like that till we both feel ready for sex. The problem is when we do make out he likes to rub my clit but he rubs with alot of force which leaves me ...
A. 10 March 2012: Take his hand and guide it as if it were you touching yourself. Just simply show him and tell him that you prefer it softer as it feels better :)... (read in full...)
Liking a friend's ex?
Q. I really.like my friend's ex-bf. They have broken up many times when they dated and got back together. They broke up again and now my friend has a new boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her that I like her ex. But i want to tell her I like him but don't ...
A. 29 February 2012: To me it depends on how close friends you are with her~ stay away from ultimate best friends ex's but if you are close friends or just friends, then tell them that you have a crush on their ex and wondered how they'd be if you both went out. If she ... (read in full...)
Oral sex saved for a special occasion?
Q. My boyfriend has been asking me to give him oral sex for a little while, and I finally brought up the courage to do it for him the other day. It was spontaneous and romantic and everything I imagined it to be. Since then, He has asked me a coupl...
A. 22 February 2012: Me and my ex used to do oral on each other a lot~ many of the times we met up, and we never got bored of it, and likewise, it never lost intimacy. If you like doing it and get it reciprocated, then there's no reason why you can't do it more often ... (read in full...)
Does anyone deserve a second chance?
Q. when someone has cheated, should you give them a second chance?...
A. 18 February 2012: I don't think i could ever ever forgive someone who cheated on me. I would just cut them out my life completely.... (read in full...)
Is the fact that she's pretty a good enough reason to ask her out?
Q. Ok so there's this girl i like and want to ask out but i dont know if i should. The only reason i want to ask her out is because she's gorgeous, i dont really know much about her. We see each other once a week due to work, and because we are working ...
A. 9 February 2012: Maybe invite her out for drinks with you to get to know her better? Then you'll get an idea of whether you'd actually be compatible together^^... (read in full...)
I'm a nerd but I want a girlfriend
Q. Hey guys, (and girls). I just need an opinion or a few tips for this question. Alright. I really don't know how to start this, so I guess I'll just say it as quick as I can. I'm a nerd, I want to be in a relationship with a girl, and everyone in ...
A. 7 February 2012: You will find someone~ My ex boyfriend was slightly nerdy in the sense he was amazing at computer stuff, understanding it all (though it seemed as if they were his real love) and my current boyfriend is a comic book/gaming nerd and he is adorable ... (read in full...)
B/f left me on a dark street by myself and he knows how terrified I am of this kind of situation!
Q. Just a quick question! What would you do if your boyriend left you in the dark on the street by your self? Ill give you a bit more detail, i', having doubts if my boyfriend acctually does love me, he says he does so much and i acctually started to ...
A. 6 February 2012: I'm sorry for what happened to you :( If i was you, i would definatley be mad at him. If it was a one off then i probably would try and let it go, but if things happen frequently in your relationship that you don't like, then you are probably making ... (read in full...)
Dating 3 months, no sex. Shall I leave?
Q. I need some imput. I have a new girlfriend and everything is good except for us not having sex yet. When we started to go out we both agreed that we were going to take things slow, and we have been to this point but Im a man that has needs and I ...
A. 31 January 2012: 3 months to her may be way to soon to be having sex (is for me as well) ~ and making the location better isn't going to change her values. If you're thinking of leaving someone you 'love' just because they won't have sex with you yet, then that's ... (read in full...)
Circumcized or uncircumsized? Which do females prefer?
Q. Hi, I want to know if girls like penis uncircumcised or cirmcumcised? I'm french and in my country we are all uncut. It's about religion and culture, what is it in your country (well about muslim and jew I know) but for others country pls let ...
A. 30 January 2012: I don't judge a guy on his penis~ I'm from England :) My ex was uncircumsized and I gave him oral and handjobs and didn't think anything strange of it; he kept it clean so it was ok. My current boyfriend is circumsized (he's half british half ... (read in full...)
Going to his house to do oral...does he like me?
Q. Hi um recently I've been talking with this guy and he is in my science class. I've known him for two years now and were friends. Not close but were friends. And recently we've gotten much closer than ever. It started over Christmas break. He texted ...
A. 23 January 2012: I would say not to do sexual stuff unless you are in a proper exclusive relationship. It sounds like he could like you, but could just be trying to use you for easy oral? I would be wary...... (read in full...)
Matters down under!
Q. I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having ...
A. 23 January 2012: Have it how you want it, not for a guy. I usually trim mine out of choice and my ex never had a problem with hair down there, but my new boyfriend is a little put off by it but i've told him i won't shave for him. Shaving hurts when it grows back, ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to get mad and/or jealous?
Q. Long story short, my boyfriend, who lives about an hour away, went to his schools winter formal. This morning, I see all these facebook posts about that night. It seemed like a lot of fun. Apparently he ground on some girl (he even said so in...
A. 21 January 2012: I'd feel exactly the same as you if i was in that situation~ especially with the grinding; in my eyes that's nearly cheating. You should definately talk to him about how upset you are over this. ... (read in full...)
I dyed my hair bright red, what do you think people think, when the see my hair?
Q. Hi. I am a teenager and like most teenagers I want to express myself. I dyed my hair bright red, and when I say bright red, I mean BRIGHT red; I love it! I am usually a shy and quiet person, and listen to my mother and teachers, im not a goody tw...
A. 18 January 2012: i wouldn't really think much of it unless it was a really unique style/cut or bright multi-coloured to which would interest me, as i've seen a lot of people with brightly coloured hair especially red and pink.
As long as you like it thats all that... (read in full...)
Should I send him a private message or post it on his FB wall?
Q. Do you prefer writing comments on someone's wall on Facebook, or sending them private messages? I want to arrange a date with this guy, but I'm not sure whether to send him a comment or a private message. I'm worried in case he won't see the private ...
A. 12 January 2012: Definately private message~ its something between the both of you and not everyones hundreds of facebook friends. :) also its difficult to not notice if you have a new message~ if i get a PM then thats the first thing i look at when i log on ^_^... (read in full...)
What do I need to be told? What lessons do I need to learn? I have a huge Teacher crush.
Q. Hi I'm 14 years old...ever since this school year started i met my social studies teacher, and I'm heavily in love with him. I totally understand this is wrong and those of you who think so i won't listen to you so don't bother. Anyway he ...
A. 6 January 2012: I can speak from experience here~ I've had about 9 teacher crushes varying from when i was 11 till about 17 and these have also varied in intensity; some were a simple "oh, he's cute" type ones and some where more like "i love their personalitly so ... (read in full...)
My friend warned me my b/f was cheating and going to dump me. What do I do?
Q. My best friend has warned me two days ago that my boyfriend is to dump me for another girl. It hurt because I found out of her but its worse that he still hasn't said anything yet. It's breaking my heart that I'm waiting like this because my friend ...
A. 29 December 2011: Aww~ i'm really sorry for what you're going though :( i think though that you should act now, rather than wait~ i know i definately would if i was in the same situation- i'd want him out my life entirely. Tell him that you know he's been cheating on ... (read in full...)
Do guys find black hair attractive in girls?
Q. i know this is a random question but i just want to see what everyones opinion was, mostly from a guys perspective. Of course a lot of guys like or "love" blondes then theres the burnettes and red heads. what about the girls with black hair? in my ...
A. 29 December 2011: I've had crushes on a couple of females before with black hair~ it can look really sexy :)
When i was with my ex boyfriend, i dyed my (naturally brown)hair all kinds of colours- purple, black, blonde, red... and he never said how he prefered one ... (read in full...)
How many kisses x x x x is the right number of x x x x in an online message to someone I'm interested in?
Q. Hello just a quick question, how many x's do you think are suitable to put at the end of a text/ facebook message to the opposite sex? Without giving the wrong impression, or should i just put none at all. Sometimes my boyfriend gets jealous when i ...
A. 25 December 2011: I usually only put one with guy friends if their good friends, if otherwise then none. My boyfriend usually gets 3. I know many guys who put one or two at the end of their texts to friends who are girls. :)
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Do I continue to try with the 19 year old reluctant girl? Or try with this amazing girl I just met?
Q. I met this girl, we dated for a month and it was all going so slow it annoyed me. She didn't let me kiss her until after a couple of dates and it was not even a kiss it was a peck. When I tried giving her a real kiss she got so tense I stopped. An...
A. 24 December 2011: I think that maybe you were trying to go too quickly for her, some girls just take a while to do certain things. Touching a girls thigh can be seen as quite intimate and she obviously wasn't comfortable doing this so soon with you~ she might've had ... (read in full...)
Does this disgust girls?
Q. Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ...
A. 23 December 2011: I find it a huge turn on that my boyfriend gets hard just through kissing/hugging. i think many girls would feel flattered and feel happy knowing that they are turning on their guys ^_^ ... (read in full...)
Should I wait until he texts me first?
Q. Should I always texts my boyfriend first. I love him alot but I some how feel like i'm the one who misses him. He dosen't really text me first. Should I just wait till he textes me first. ...
A. 21 December 2011: If it bothers you, then maybe mention when you next see him to him that you always seem to be initating the conversation and see what he says and tell him you'd like him to make more of an effort ^_^
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