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Do you hang out with your friend's? or the friend's of your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Q. Hey all. I want to get some personal opinions about this. It's not really a problem but more so a question I have. My boyfriend is a very popular guy, he has a ton of other guy friends and even has a lot of female friends. I know this is ...
A. 4 May 2013: I can't really hang out with my own friends much sadly as i'm in a different town to them due to my uni being a few hours away and none of us really drive. My boyfriend is from my uni's town so he has all his friends here and i've hung out with a f... (read in full...)
Jealous that my FWB had sex with someone else
Q. So there's this guy....we've been having sex lately and I REALLY like it. I mean I know he doesn't care about me like emotionally and I dont care about him like that either. But the sex is really good.....until I found out the next day he had sex ...
A. 24 April 2013: You should stop. I'm sorry you feel like this, but friends with benefits only work as an act where no feelings are involved at all. You clearly feel something towards him as you're jealous. Friends with benefits aren't necessarily exclusive, and the ... (read in full...)
It seems anniversaries and her birth day are for her, but my birthday is not a day for me!
Q. This one goes to the ladies out there. To what point should you be considerate of your man? Let's assume it is your man's birthday, how far is a man worth going for? Like I understand in modern day societies it is expected for the man to go above ...
A. 7 April 2013: I'm not the best person at giving gifts~ to anyone. I love my boyfriend so much, and when I asked him what he wanted for his birthday, he just wanted jeans :P and i've got him socks since he needs new pairs and won't buy them himself. He's not ... (read in full...)
We've shared kisses on a regular basis. What do the "looks" she gives him, when he flirts with me, mean?
Q. It started around 4 months ago. I went to my best friends house for a few drinks as it was Christmas Day and it's tradition, only this year her friend came and we started talking straight away. He is the same age as my best friend (20) two ...
A. 31 March 2013: Maybe he's very flirtatious and hurts girls a lot, so she doesn't want him to hurt you? He might not be what he seems. The only way you'd know though is by asking your friend, since we don't know any of you in real life. ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip?
Q. I've been waitressing at a restaurant for a few months. I've noticed that certain regulars don't leave tip regardless of service. And of course there are occasional customers that don't tip at all. How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip? ...
A. 28 March 2013: I think it's rude to ask people to tip you- i'd never even think about doing it personally.
I do casual waitressing at a big event place near where I live and people there pay hundreds of pounds to eat there. Some tip extremely well (one boy i work... (read in full...)
How can I find a cute nickname for my boyfriend?
Q. I've got a problem. My friend has an adorable nickname for her boyfriend and it isn't girly or anything (It's darebear) and he loves it. I'm having trouble thinking of one for my bf because he has the most god awful name (Rudolfo...but he goes by ...
A. 22 February 2013: hmm, the other posters are right, you can't suddenly just pick a random name and start calling him that. And a load of 'stereotypical ones' are too sappy in my opinion. I call my boyfriend Puppy because he kinda reminds me of a spaniel, and he calls ... (read in full...)
Has he Lost Interest in me After Only Two Months?
Q. Hi everyone (: My boyfriend and I are dating since two months and a half, I know it's not a long time, but it has been a lot since I had a "serious" relarionship. I am not the kind of girl that wants her boyfriend to call her every time, or text her...
A. 21 February 2013: This sounds like the same problem i had with my ex. I was always the first to contact and he never bothered unless i made the initiative. But when we were together it was ok. Tell him you want him to make more of an effort, and if he doesn't then it ... (read in full...)
Are you supposed to feel a spark when you kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Q. when i kiss my boyfriend, there is no spark and am really confused because i believe that spark is true but i dont feel anything for my boyfriend no fireworks or chemistry between us. My question is...is spark really true?...
A. 21 February 2013: I think it's something that wears off over time. When i first kissed my boyfriend, there was a massive spark and a massive feeling of sexual excitement. Now a year and a bit after I still love kissing him, but in a different way~ it feels more ... (read in full...)
Desperate - wife found a pic and says she is leaving
Q. My wife and I have had a very close relationship - and we have both been known to get a little freaky regarding sex. We both use porn (me more than her), but she has never had any issues w/it at all. I recently created a "locked" folder on my pho...
A. 5 February 2013: It's probably also due to the fact that the folder it was in was password protected, so you obviously didn't want her to see it, making her more suspicious than she is, rather than if it was just found amongst random files.
If i was her, i woul... (read in full...)
How important is oral sex?
Q. The basic question here is how important is oral sex to you? I'm aiming this at both genders just to get an overview from both sides. I've been with some people who absolutely love oral and others who aren't really that interested in it and i'd li...
A. 24 January 2013: When i was with my first boyfriend (now my ex) we did oral all the time on each other~ it felt amazing. He was really into it and I loved it, and didn't mind giving it either.
With my current boyfriend, he tried giving me oral (i was his first sexu... (read in full...)
I have a beautiful friend, and I'm jealous to the point where I don't want to hang out with her in places where she draws a lot of attention.
Q. I have a dilemma. I have this friend, a girl, who I know for the past 5 years. She is very sweet, and we are not that terribly close, but we see each other we really enjoy each other company. The thing that about 9 months ago she broke up ...
A. 20 December 2012: I agree with the other poster, you can lie a few times to stop hanging out so much. Why not ask to go shopping with her, or meals or some other activity instead of just nightclubs/bars? Though if you have a boyfriend, you probably shouldn... (read in full...)
My daughters are jealous of the time I spend with my boyfriend.
Q. Ok, here is one for ya. Been in a serious relationship with a wonderful man and things are great except for my two girls (ages 19 and 20) from a previous marriage. I thought it would be his 11 year old daughter that would be a problem, but no... My ...
A. 29 November 2012: I'm your daughters age...My parents aren't divorced or anything, but I am close to my mum and i'd get jealous too if I could only spend 1 day with mine, whilst all the rest of the time she was occupied with someone else. Especially if i had to share ... (read in full...)
How do I stop myself from being a needy girlfriend?
Q. Hi everyone. I have a wonderful wonderful boyfriend and things are going pretty great so far but im worried that Im becoming emotionally dependent on him. We've only been together 6 months but it got serious really fast. I feel like I want to be ...
A. 25 November 2012: you could take up a new hobby or class to meet new people, and focus some of your interest on that? :) Tell him that you're worried you're becoming too clingy maybe and see what he says? it's natural to miss someone, but not normal to want to be ... (read in full...)
How do we tell our parents that my 17 year old girlfriend is pregnant?
Q. I really don't know what to do with this situation. I'm 21, in my last year at undergrad (pursuing my PhD), and have a 17 year old girlfriend back home who, after a very passionate end-of-summer date in August, is now three months pregnant. And she ...
A. 14 November 2012: Maybe she could have the baby but put it up for adoption? ... (read in full...)
Should I get a second ear piercing?
Q. i want to get a second ear piercing because i think they are cute and catchy. i just really like them and almost obsessed with them. it's just whenever i want to go and get a second piercing i always wonder if it would ruin my ear, as i've always ...
A. 14 November 2012: Do it :) I got mine done when i was 11 and they didn't hurt at all~ the first ones hurt a lot though. I have thirds done (though one closed up), 4 cartlidge piercings, a rook piercing and a tragus piercing. Also my nose :P
As long as you go to a go... (read in full...)
Is this cheating? My boyfriend went out with his friends and he had a private nude lap dance provided for his enjoyment.
Q. I've never posted on anything like this before but I'm really not sure what to do. A few weeks my boyfriend went out with his friends just for a night on the town with the boys. At beginning of the night he and his friends went to a strip club ...
A. 4 October 2012: There's no way that i could forgive my boyfriend if he did that~ never. I wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it but i wouldn't class it as cheating. I would still dump him though for it. ... (read in full...)
What colour scheme for a room of a 20 year old would look nice?
Q. this isn't a relationship question, just more so of a question. I'm decorating my room and I wondered what colour scheme is nicest to have, it's a plain room with cream walls. I don't know whether red, dark gold and some black or green would look ...
A. 19 September 2012: I personally like purples and silver, possibly a white fluffy rug (fake fur) and light wooden flooring. But as it's already been said, choose colours that you like :)... (read in full...)
Does the no contact rule work?
Q. hello, does the no contact rule work? ive been told that if you give enough distance to someone who left you, they eventually miss you and come back. but does this ever work? plus what if you try this for ages and then they just forget you ...
A. 6 September 2012: I always thought that no contact was supposed to get both of you over a relationship~ not trying to get the other back, but that's just my opinion... (read in full...)
Do I leave my wife over breast implants?
Q. my wife lies to me she had a breast implants done without my permission i dont like it what will i do. leave her?...
A. 4 September 2012: I don't think she needs permission from you to do something to her own body. If there was a piercing/tattoo or some surgery I wanted, I wouldn't ask my boyfriend if i was allowed to get it done. I'd do it anyway as it's my body not his. (sorry if ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't invite me for icecream!
Q. recently my bf has moved to my city and our 3years of long distance has ended.we love each other and we were meeting frequently last week.today he went to mall without telling me.he didnt invite me though he knew that next week its not possible to ...
A. 3 September 2012: You are allowed to do your own thing in relationships sometimes. Me and my boyfriend spend plenty of time together, and still do our own thing with our own friends on occassion. The only thing i'd be annoyed/jealous/upset about in the situation was ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified to be alone in the dark!
Q. this isnt really a relationship question or what ever but im scared of the dark and want help with it please im litrally terrofide to be alone in the dark or even at night for a 15 year old thats not right. what can i do !!...
A. 29 August 2012: Everyone's scared of something~ mine's spiders and storms. Eventhough I'm not scared of the dark, I sometimes like to sleep with little battery powered fairy lights around my bed, and because they're battery operated, there's no fire risk :) They ... (read in full...)
He is a true gentleman. Am I worrying too much due to past experiences in relationships?
Q. Hi, I have begun a relationship with a wonderful man but need advice on a small matter. Every time we have a date, he will walk with me to my nearest transport stop - whether bus or train - before saying goodbye and going on his journey home We...
A. 24 August 2012: My boyfriends like this~ he will always walk me home, no matter what time of night nor how long it took him out of his way :) He never seemed to mind once. So just let him do it, as I'm sure he really cares about you, and protecting you makes him ... (read in full...)
I am a cheater but is that really so bad?
Q. I am cheating on my GF. should i stop. i cant help it i like the excitement of chasing new women and when i see a beautiful woman im curious how it feels to be with her. but i like having something guaranteed at home. but people make it seem like a ...
A. 21 August 2012: "but no one is getting hurt". Yes they are~ if your girlfriend finds out she will be extremly hurt which isn't treating her very well. If you want to chase after women then be single. You can't have it both ways.
Cheating is the ultimate one thin... (read in full...)
How do you deal with pubic hair growing back?
Q. For people who have sex regularly, how do you deal with the growing back of shaved pubic hair? It loses the smoothness after only 1-2 days, so doesn't it get uncomfortable for your partner with the stubble? Shaving the stubble creates hell for me. ...
A. 21 August 2012: After going through a phase of shaving, I've decided that just keeping it trimmed short whilst shaving the bits which would come through the sides of underwear, is a LOT better, more comfy and doesn't hurt. Don't shave just to please a guy. :)... (read in full...)
Partner is abusive and keeps saying I'm cheating. Why is he suddenly acting this way?
Q. I have been in this relationship with this man for 9 years, and i really do love him, I have always been faithful to him and been there for him through all the good and bad. I overall consider myself a good woman and a great catch to a man who would ...
A. 20 August 2012: I agree with the poster below, he could be cheating on you, and is accusing you to make himself feel better. I think it'd be for the best if you left him, especially if it turns out he is cheating on you. ... (read in full...)
How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife?
Q. I am alone in a foreign land. My wife and family are not with me. How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife? ...
A. 20 August 2012: could you maybe sext each other, and if possible go on webcam for each other? :)... (read in full...)
Ladies: Is long hair on a man attractive?
Q. is long hair on a man unattractive? i have hair past my shoulders it is always clean and tidy tho. thanks...
A. 19 August 2012: i LOVE guys with long hair :) most of my male crushes have had long hair (way past their shoulders) my ex had shoulder length hair (i wanted to cry when he had to get it cut) and my boyfriend now has amazing long hair ^_^ ... (read in full...)
What can I buy my friend for her birthday without spending to much? it's her sweet 16!
Q. My best friend's birthday is coming soon, and i have no idea what to get her! she is the kind of person that doesn't like to talk about herself...so i need some ideas. she is turning 16 so her birthday is pretty special...also she wants to become an ...
A. 4 August 2012: Bake her a really nice cake maybe? Or make her a scrapbook full of memories of your friendship? Sometimes the best presents don't need to be bought from a shop :) For my 18th, 2 of my friends made me a giant scrapbook filled with photos, quotes and ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my LDR boyfriend put forth the same effort that I do?
Q. Hi everyone. Thanks for being there to help all of usm. My problem is my long distance boyfriend was going to get a place for us to stay and then we would marry and I would move there and look for a job. I have been saving to have some money to use ...
A. 29 July 2012: He may not be feeling the same about you as you feel about him. When I was in a long distance relationship it only lasted a couple of weeks, since I put in all the effort of communicating first. If I hadn't we never would've talked. Have a serious ... (read in full...)
Is my weight the reason I can't get a boyfriend?
Q. I've convinced myself that my weight is the reason I can't get a boyfriend, I'm 14, 5,5, 12st. Is this normal? I go through stages where I get really tall and skinny, then bulk out again. Is this the reason I cant get a boyfriend?...
A. 23 July 2012: It shouldn't be as only shallow guys care about physical appearence. If you're not happy with yourself, this probably reflects outwardly and can put off guys. If you learn to love yourself the way you are, and are confident in your own skin, you ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable that I don't want my son to lie in bed all day?
Q. At 2pm today I told my husband that he should go and tell my son that it was time to get up out of bed and he said "To Do What?" Am I unreasonable not to want him to lie in be all day? ...
A. 8 July 2012: I'm 19 and a girl and I sleep sometimes until the early hours of the afternoon~ once 5pm :P My parents just let me sleep and said it was my own fault if i wanted to waste the day. If he's got nothing important to do, and no plans made, I don't see ... (read in full...)
Is it true that girls my age are more attracted to guys who know how to drive and own a car?
Q. Recently I've felt pressured into learning to drive. Here in the UK you can learn at 17 and im currently 19. Quite a few of my friends can drive but I've never got round to learning, most of the places I go to in my spare time are local or I can ...
A. 8 July 2012: I honestly don't care and i'm 19 in the UK. My boyfriend doesn't drive, and I don't think any less of him. My ex didn't drive either and him not having a car really didn't bother me :) If you don't see any point in driving then don't force yourself ... (read in full...)
'X' in a text message, is it just for people close to you or for anyone and everyone?
Q. Ok, so this may sound strange to some but agreed upon by others - I just want to know weather I'm being unnecessarily stupid and to get others views. I've been with my girlfriend for just over a year and we moved in with each other two weeks ...
A. 15 June 2012: I guess everyone views this differently, but for me i put 1 'x' for female friends, and depending on the conversation 1 to 5 'x' for my boyfriend~ though for some reason i never put 2. I used to put 1 'x' for guy friends but not anymore. I never put ... (read in full...)
Friend's dad has the HOTS for me! SOS!
Q. Hey everyone so I think my friend's dad has the hots for me. I know he's really friendly and that's what i thought at first. I spend a Saturday evening with my friend and then we went to her house to watch the game. When I went her dad didn't k...
A. 11 June 2012: I'd say avoid going round your friends house for a while, or while you know he's going to be in. Invite her round yours instead or something. If he carries on, have a firm word with him about his behaviour, and tell him it makes you feel ... (read in full...)
Who should come first? my best girlfriend of 6 years wants to spend time with me when I'm with my new boyfriend.
Q. Who should come first, your Best Friend or your boyfriend? I love them both, but who should I dedicate most of my time to? My best friend and I have been friends for about 6 years. My boyfriend and I have only been together for about 6 months (Its ...
A. 11 June 2012: For me,it depends on the case of who asked first. To me, it feels wrong if i was hanging out with one of them, and the other wanted to see me~ i would make them wait/organise another date. Same if they both wanted to do something on the same date~ ... (read in full...)
How do you cope moving far away from family to go to University?
Q. How do you cope moving far away from family to go to University? First off, I'm not the 'traditional' student. I'm 23, have a great relationship with my mom, not really into the whole being alone, living it up partying phase, I feel like I've ...
A. 9 June 2012: I know how you feel~ In september last year, i moved out from home into university halls. My parents literally did everything for me~ i never did chores or housework as i never really got asked to.
I missed my family and friends a lot when i star... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says a condom is enough, I don't agree
Q. Me and my girlfriend are wanting to have sex, is a condom safe enough on it's own. She doesn't want to go on the pill, she says a condom is safe enough but I am a little concerned....
A. 3 June 2012: Me and my boyfriend only use condoms, so it's perfectly safe :) No method is 100% effective anyways, and condoms are the only way to protect you against both pregnancy and STI's :)
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Where is the best placet to look for the type of women I want to meet?
Q. I'm currently at uni but feel held back by my lack of experience. I want to meet fun, attractive and intelligent women that are outside of my course. I have no idea where to look for women to start a relationship with... Any ideas or help would be...
A. 1 June 2012: Join societies or clubs that interest you maybe? :)... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and want to have a baby even though I'm not ready
Q. I'm 15 and I feel like I want to have a baby even though I know I'm not ready financially. Why do I feel like this? How can I push the thought away? I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now and we have talked about having kids but not ...
A. 31 May 2012: Has someone around you just had a baby or has got pregnant? If so this could maybe trigger your desires for having one now. I kinda get where you're coming from as until i met my current boyfriend (who i believe is the one) i hated the idea of ... (read in full...)
She said she didn't have a Facebook page and lo and behold, I find pictures of her with another guy! What do I do?
Q. Ok so I dont have a huge problem persay with this,more rather I want some opinions on the matter. Ive been seeing this girl for about a week now,weve been talking for over a month now and things seem to be going well. Last Saturday we went...
A. 30 May 2012: when was it taken? it could be an old photo of an ex, when she used facebook, but has the stopped using it completely? It would be best to ask her otherwise you'd never know. ... (read in full...)
Someone help me with talking dirty?
Q. Someone help me with talking dirty? Me and my boyfriend were in an intense makeout session before and he wanted me to talk dirty to him. I didn't know what to say so I panicked an pretended that I had to go. I don't know what to say and he's a year ...
A. 29 May 2012: This kinda happened with me too~ I was making out with my boyfriend and he asked me to talk dirty to him; something which i'd never done before to anyone. I just went along with it and acted confident/like i knew what i was doing. I said stuff like ... (read in full...)
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