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hi im 15 yr old girl who lives in essex, i have a boyfriend who ive been with 2 years, i am not a doctor but would like to be a nurse in the future i am quite smart and have a good mind for helping people i like to help people and discuss things i am online quite alot and im good to talk to people my age if its to do with periods sex relationships and things because of my own experiences i am a good friend and im very loyal so you can always trust me i have had a rough time at home and dont get along with my parents i use this site for communiation my own worries and to help teenagers my age and give a good opinion.. xxxx

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I'm going through puberty but I can't ejaculate, why??

Q.   I can't ejaculate yet im already growing pubes though And I'm 15 How much longer will it take do y'all think?...

A.   1 January 2008: maybe nothing turns you on or something have you tried masturbating for longer maybe you should talk to your dad or an older brother about this xx... (read in full...)

How can we tell if my gf is starting to orgasm??

Q.   Me and my girl had 1st time sex about 2 months ago[we're both 19]. Since then we've been having regular intercourse. Just recently ,during sex,my girl has started to "call out" and grasp the bedding. She says it's pleasure and just has to let go b...

A.   1 January 2008: yes this is a orgasm she obviously dont no what it is but yes thats an orgasm and no age and everythingg has nothing to do with it once youve gone through puberty x... (read in full...)

My pregnant girlfriend dumped me and blame it on her hormones, is this normal?

Q.   my girlfriend is 20 weeks pregnant and she has dumped me , she says its her hormones and that she has done it so that she can sort her head out but she has wanted to see more of me ever since she dumped me is this normal....

A.   1 January 2008: well i seriously think you need to talk to her because yout talking about a baby here that is your baby too you need to get back with her maybe take her out or somethign and get back with her because im sure she will need you for her and need you to ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and in love with a 30 year old and don't know what to do

Q.   I'm in love with a guy who is 30 im 14 I really love him he isnt married but he has a girlfriend with a 5 yr old son I loveee his son to death his girl I wish she would drop dead hes my cuzins friend I'm always at my cousins house seeing him he ...

A.   1 January 2008: yes i agree this is selfish think of the boy and think of the man you may love him but dont make death threats and things like that your really young and it would be so wrong so dont i mean it but seriously girl you need some sence... (read in full...)

He slept with THREE different women while on a road trip. His excuse was "He had needs". I'm very hurt. What should I do?

Q.   this past summer my boyfriend went on a month long road trip with his buddies. i stayed home to work for tuition money, so i couldnt go along. he called me everyday and we talked for a while. i never suspected anything bad was going on. but just a ...

A.   1 January 2008: well this is hard because youve been with him along time and you see if hes done this he will do it again have a talk wit him and get stern and say things like i cant believe you would do this to me bla bla bla and just make him realise that losing ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   1 January 2008: i would give it to him but the thing is he might get angry with you and hate you and even abuse you in anyway sexually verbally and by getting beaten up soo i would think about this but instead i think i would give it to my mum hope this helps... (read in full...)

Are these extreme yoyo moods normal or is there something wrong with me?

Q.   hi. this is quite an odd question i suppose and i dont know how many people will be able to answer it but her goes: im 13 years old and this really weird thing happens. one second im feeling so happy, like im on top of the world and nothing can ...

A.   1 January 2008: yes this is fine just mail me if you wish hun x... (read in full...)

Help me..does it sound like he really likes me or is he playing/using me once again?

Q.   Dear cupid, When I was 18 I really liked this boy a lot and we ended up having sex but then after we did have sex he ignored me and I noticed he flirted with another girl. Then some time after I found out I was pregnant I tried te...

A.   1 January 2008: well tell him that ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to hate my skin colour?

Q.   Alot of people think i'm pretty but i can't see what there talking about, i look in the mirror and see a girl that is over weight (116lbs) to short (5'0) and just very ugly. i have small boobs a ghetto booty (not proud of) and i think the rest of me ...

A.   31 December 2007: everyone is beautiful in there own way and you sound beautiful just like mother nature we are all pretty in diffrent ways you are who you are so you should be ashamed someone out there loves you for who you are so dont be ashamed about your ... (read in full...)

What makes a good relationship?

Q.   I am kinda curious of what makes a good relationship? We all know Trust and communication but there has to be more layers than this? does anyone Know ...

A.   31 December 2007: a good relationship has to have : trust understanding love forgiveing (if its nothing to serious) loyalty and security you both have to look after eachover hope this helps xx ... (read in full...)

Does this sound like an orgasm??

Q.   I'm 18 Years old. Recently started rubbing and tickling my clit. After a few minutes i get a strong urge to pee and my body tenses up. I can also feel and see my vagina beating. Is all this normal ? Does it sound like an orgasm ?...

A.   31 December 2007: does sound like it yes... (read in full...)

How do you 'grind' dance?

Q.   Okay.This is my first time doing this sort of thing so here i go. A guy i really like is going to ask me to a dance.(at least, thats what he is telling everyone) The dance is in two weeks. my school does alot of grinding and i just don't know h...

A.   31 December 2007: oh i was in that position just try on a wall move your hips and move your bumm and that what i did my boy loved it i kind of went down and came up agen he liked that alot as you can probably think but go on youtube and watch belly dancing.. hip ... (read in full...)

I am 15 and pregnant I need advice how to tell my mom

Q.   i am 15 years old and 15 weeks pregnant i dont know how to tell my mom and i told a lady that has been helping me through all this i would tell her within my winter break which will end on the 7th i am scared my mom will hate my boyfiend and there ...

A.   31 December 2007: well you need to tell you rmum i fink you should just ask to talk to her but try to not to talk fast talk slowly to her and she will be very shocked but say you need her help adn thats what mothers are for have you got any older brothers or sisters ... (read in full...)

Help me..does it sound like he really likes me or is he playing/using me once again?

Q.   Dear cupid, When I was 18 I really liked this boy a lot and we ended up having sex but then after we did have sex he ignored me and I noticed he flirted with another girl. Then some time after I found out I was pregnant I tried te...

A.   30 December 2007: right well i think you should think about your answer but i think he has matured and he seems to love you and your baby and i think everyone deserves a second chance he obviosly loves you because lets face it he bought you a ring let u move in he ... (read in full...)

I'm still a virgin wife!

Q.   hi evry body i really feel i am so depressed i keep crying i am married women i love my husband like crazy and he too but the problem is i am still a virgin after 8 moths of narried he scared to hurt me and once he try its just not stand any more i ...

A.   30 December 2007: maybe you should talk to him about that say you want to try for a baby say how you feel you have to tell him what you want he may know wat he wants but does he know what you want so have a talk with him and you may think yourself as large but ur not ... (read in full...)

Are these extreme yoyo moods normal or is there something wrong with me?

Q.   hi. this is quite an odd question i suppose and i dont know how many people will be able to answer it but her goes: im 13 years old and this really weird thing happens. one second im feeling so happy, like im on top of the world and nothing can ...

A.   30 December 2007: yes its perfectly normal its just hormones im like that aswell but its because of my boyfriend i get like that maybe somethings bothering you that your not talking about to anyone and if thats the case then just message me about it and we can talk i ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I hear that it would be wrong if she took my virginity, but I don't think it is. What is your opinion?

Q.   me and my girl friend are both 14, we love echother a lot. even at this age. we have been told it's real, a few time's so we think it is....... but she is not a vergin and i am.......would it be wrong if she took my verginity? i wont do eny...

A.   29 December 2007: well im underage and if you want to know sumfin my boyfiend is 14 i am 13 and weve been together 1 year and i love him so much he takes me out and looks after me buys me presents and hes lovely i wouldnt never leave him we had sex but he had alredy ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and I'm in love with a 19 year old...what should I do?

Q.   ok i'm 13 and i'm in love with this 19 year old guy and he really loves me for me. but he is scared to ask me out because of the age different. but he wants no sex or anything. he doesn't even mind people seeing us together. should we go out or not? ...

A.   29 December 2007: well i think its ok if hes not intrested with having sex with you i think its ok if you love him then stay with him but if he starts getting more serious already then tell someone and move on because it does come to mind that he could be a ... (read in full...)

I'm underage and worried I could be pregnant, please help!

Q.   Hi Ive Been Seeing This Boy For Almost 1 Year Now i love him so much we are underage and decided to go further which wasa big mistake but we tried to move on not taking any risks then i let him go inside me a couple of times then he would come out ...

A.   29 December 2007: i am not pregnant thanks for your help howcomehoney... (read in full...)

We've been trying for a baby for 4 months an nothing...!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 4months now and nothing seems to be happening and i am beginning to get worried....am i over reacting a bit, and is there anything i can do to improve our chances..help please....

A.   27 December 2007: well i think you should both go get some tests done to see if his sperms ok your eggs are ok basically... (read in full...)

His ex came back on scene and he dumped me and now I feel dirty for having given him a blowjob, what shall I do?

Q.   Hi im 14 years old and have been going out with a guy for about 4 months. He used to really like me and i didnt like him that much but grew to love him. we had been going out secretly at school so no one knew about it because of his race. i know it ...

A.   27 December 2007: yes your in the same position as me i got picked on by family and people in school my man is asian and im white dont worry about this because it will blow over but i cant believe he has left you i no you must love him alot i love my man ive been ... (read in full...)

I'm ready to give my bf a handjob but I'm scared I don't know how, please help!

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and i am ready to do stuff. thing is i have never givern a handjob or blowjob - even tho he thinks i have! my friends say its fine, but readin some of the questions and answers on here have really made me ...

A.   27 December 2007: look 3 weeks isnt alot hun im round about the same age as you and i would say im experienced being with him 1 year but im mature with this i think with a decent handjob just go with the flow look at him my boy likes it best wen my hands wett and ... (read in full...)

I've told my bf I'm not ready to have sex yet, but he keeps texting me sex related texts. When I confront him he says he is only joking, what do you think?

Q.   im 14 and i have a boyfriend who is turning 15 in two months yesterday i was text messaging with him and me asked if i had ever had sex, i said no. He asked me if i would like to have sex with him, i was shoked and alarmed, i picked up my phone an...

A.   27 December 2007: just tell him your scared with what hes saying and tell him that your not ready but make it clear make a convo with him and start talking to him about it and then say if you tried to carry on giving me dirty messages and trying to get me to have sex ... (read in full...)

Me and my neice are in love and I don't know what to do, would it be ok to date her?

Q.   me and my neice are in love and i dont know what to do shes alot younger than me. i look after her quite alot and she flirts with me alot and on purpose does things so i get glimpses of her body by bending over infront of me so i can see down her ...

A.   27 December 2007: oh thats odd actually i dont think it would be ok because it will be a shock to her parents and yours shes family and she is younger then you trust me on this one it will be awkward wen the truth breaks out try to resist her acts and just tell her ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions.....

Q.   My boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions..... Approximately how long will it hurt after we've had sex? (I'm a virgin) He's had sex before, and I don't know what position would be most comfortable. Should we stick wit...

A.   27 December 2007: well use a condom definetly he should no how to put one on and most people forget to push the air out the top of it by just squeezing the top while putting it on so thats birth control over but i dont fink it will be comfy for you to do missionary ... (read in full...)

Did this paedophile take my virginity?

Q.   Well i've been with this man for 13 months, he's 22.. i think. im not goin to tell u how old i am but im not younger than 13. i always go to his house. we dont have PROPER sex.. we just like rub against each other, but we're naked.. you might tink ...

A.   27 December 2007: yeh i agree with others ihad sex underage and i was really silly to do that but i was mature about it and so with my man i have been withi him 1 year and were fine look hun your probably older then me but if your guna be seeing him please be ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

Q.   ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

A.   27 December 2007: yes i do feel really sorry its awfull nowing that kind of stuff happens still but i fink u need to tell your mum because at the end of the day she can help you no doubt it will be hard for you i fully understand and it will be awkward with her ... (read in full...)

He wants to stay together, but live apart. Should I let go, or settle for this?

Q.   so confused, I still want to be with my boyfriend of 2 1/2yrs..eventhough, I know he has a bad anger problem. He's always there when I need him. He says that it's best we live apart but still stay together. I could never trust him being apart like ...

A.   18 December 2007: well for me i think he is quite crafty it seems like you really love him but for me if i was you i would try move on because if hes cheated on you before what makes you think he wont do it again? i think you should have a think i think that he might ... (read in full...)

I'm underage and worried I could be pregnant, please help!

Q.   Hi Ive Been Seeing This Boy For Almost 1 Year Now i love him so much we are underage and decided to go further which wasa big mistake but we tried to move on not taking any risks then i let him go inside me a couple of times then he would come out ...

A.   18 December 2007: thanyou so much for your advice no i let him go inside me once then he took it out so like he went in moved once then came out again nd we stopped he checked if there was cum coming out he replied no but now i feel weird i get tired and im always ... (read in full...)

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