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smile718
writes:Okay.This is my first time doing this sort of thing so here i go.A guy i really like is going to ask me to a dance.(at least, thats what he is telling everyone)The dance is in two weeks. my school does alot of grinding and i just don't know how to what so ever. im new to this school. does anyone have any advice on how to "grind" dance. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): what do the guys do?...... how dothey dance and what if he gets an erection
them what
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): Don't grind just because people around you do it and he wants you to do it. Do it only if you want to. Trying to appease others is the worse way to live your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): The easiest way to grind is butt to crotch. Just press your butt against where you think his penis is and move your body to the rhythm of the music. Think of it as massaging his crotch with your butt. Make sure you move with the music. If you have trouble finding the beat, then try just moving your body with his. If you are going to do this, then make sure you press up pretty hard against him, so that yor movements still feel good for him. If you're good at moving to the beat and you really like the guy, then try dancing with just one of your buttcheeks pressed very firmly on his crotch. He will probably use his hands to guide your body to exactly where he wants it when he realizes what you're doing. Let him. Guys get really confused if you start doing really sexual dancing, but won't let them touch you with their hands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): I was scared to do it too at first but you get the hang of it. It's easy. Like everyone before me pretty much, just like stand in front of him and just move your hips in a figure 8 position. Or, just do what I did the first time I did it, and follow what he's doing and let your bodies flow together. If you get advanced you can do whatever, move up and down on him and shake your butt violently in his area. It's just a crazy dance about fun and that's what us teens do. =]
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (31 December 2007):
 like everyone said, you stand with your back to him, he'll probably have his hands on your hips (cos it'd look a bit weird if he was just standing there) and you press your bum into him and kind of move your hips slowly side to side in a figure of 8 kind of movement.
not gonna lie though, theres something eerie and weird about the thought of a load of 13-15 year olds all doing this at a school dance. your teachers will be slightly horrified.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): ooo grind dancin, yh that can be very popular...
guys usualy like to do this to get close to a girl;
grind dancing may involve him holding your waist or touching you in some way(just round the stomach or bum!) so be ready for that.
but really it's pretty easy to do..
basically it's just like ripeling your body, like you were writing an S with you torso?..the sort of action your torso area does ina worm? sorry its hard to explain
but to warn you, dancing like this can get a little out of hand, just make sure you dont let him get carried away or to touch you more then you want!
but just have fun, im sure u'l have a great time.
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reader, x-Happy-Feet-x +, writes (31 December 2007):
 oh i was in that position just try on a wall move your hips and move your bumm and that what i did my boy loved it i kind of went down and came up agen he liked that alot as you can probably think but go on youtube and watch belly dancing.. hip rolling and grinding trust me it will help i learnt how to do it by that xx hope this helps
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reader, loops +, writes (30 December 2007):
I may be completely off course here but by grinding im presuming you mean hip grinding, where you get really close to someone and you pretty much move like you are almost having sex. However. due to the power of google, it is what i thought but backwards, you grind your bum into a blokes groin when dancing, so are really close, you face your back to him and basically wiggle your bum into him- but obviously in a more sexy way than ive just put it.
Best way to do something is to learn by example so watch what people around you are doing- or stick your question into google, it brings up videos of couples grind dancing in clubs, which shows you exactly what I was badly trying to explain
Good luck
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