Do I fancy my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. Hiya, I think i fancy my best friends boyfriend. I know nothing will happen as im not that type of person to do anything about it or even tell him or her how i feel. We are really good friends and he seems to flirt back with me, touching my bum, ...
A. 23 February 2010: "So you THINK you won't do any thing w/ him?"
Please... It's clear he's all you're thinking about
So don't come off to say You're not like that, I will never touch him. "Not true" Let him make a move when his gf is not around and see how craz... (read in full...)
I enjoyed our day of sex at the hotel despite both of us being in relationships, but now he has become distant. Was it just the thrill of the chase or did I not live up to his expectations?
Q. I am soooo confused! After a lot of flirting, sexting, and finally making out, I slept with my co-worker. He pursued me for a long time, I was supposedly this dream of something he could never attain. We spent an entire day together at a hotel. ...
A. 23 February 2010: It was just the thrill of WANTING to have sex w/ you.
Now that he got it.
"It all went out the window."
I would shop at this grocery store every week, there was this women that I was sexually attracted to that worked there(she was married), I ... (read in full...)
Who is my baby's father?
Q. Hello.. I feel awful however I made a big mistake and I am wondering if someone can help. I am 16 weeks pregnant and I am unsure who the father of my child is. Me and my fiance have been together for 5 years and broke up on oct 2nd... I met a guy ...
A. 22 February 2010: Well for starters, You need to come foward on what you did.
Because it VERY WELL COULD be the other guys baby.
Honestly you're asking a question none of us an truthfully an answer. You just need to have a dna test.
It's going to break your h... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for his non-commitment?
Q. i been dating this guy for a few months and we get along great he is a Libra and i am a Gemini, the problem is he claims he been hurt very bad in the past so he wants to take things slow, but he says he wants to be with me and calls me his ...
A. 22 February 2010: It's not science... "The man has a gf."
"Wake up!" . . .
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My girlfriend thinks she doesn't deserve me. How can I convince her that she does?
Q. my girlfriend and i love each other alot.but she always says that she doen't deserve me.how do i convince her that she does deserve me....
A. 22 February 2010: Has it dawned on you bro. That maybe that she is slepping w/ someone else?
Don't you watch TV?
A women isn't just going to say this UNLESS she is doing wrong. "WAKE UP MY MAN" ..."SHE'S CHEATING"... (read in full...)
The married man I love pretends to be busy and wont talk to me
Q. Im in love with a married man who is 10 years elder than i do. I had recently broke up with a guy.. soon after my break up this man came in my life ( we knew each other even before my break up but we got close to each other after my break up) This ...
A. 20 February 2010: Is this seriously a question?
"I mean... Get real!"
Both of you sound very unstable.
Keep in mind... "You reap what you sow"
Don't think for a minute anything (good) will
come from this senseless relationship... (read in full...)
I read my boyfriends texts and now my world has come crashing down
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend now for neally 6 months, and I've trusted him untill now. Yesterday I was bored and I know it was wrong of me but I had the urge to see his texts. In saved messages I saw a text saying 'well you can see...
A. 20 February 2010: Is that the only text you saw?
You need to chill out?
'well you can see them for real if you want:p'
Doesn't mean anything. Seriously... I would break up with you for being so nosy and creepy... You sound like you're very unstable
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My boyfriend and his girlfriend and child are moving to another state, and he has asked me to move too
Q. I have been with this guy for 1 year and 3 months now, we are both from the same country, he has a chinese gf that he's been with for a little over 3 years now, they live together and they have a daughter, he spends all his time with me, helping me ...
A. 20 February 2010: This man is a black widow. "This man sounds like he lost his marbles." I feel sorry for you, Because he has you in a spider web that you can't escape from. I saw how you actually ran to his defense on the material things he does for you. which do... (read in full...)
My boyfriend complains and accuses me of cheating
Q. My boyfriend is STILL complaining about me being too loose down there and accusing me of cheating. I have tried desperately to no end to tighten my vaginal muscles; ben wa balls, smart balls, china shrink cream, tighten her uo sure grip gel, ...
A. 20 February 2010: Why don't you just leave if you feel this way? I don't understand women sometimes. "Just walk away from the relationship"...why stay if you're depressed.... (read in full...)
My wife has admitted having an affair and wants to save our marriage, but all my trust for her is ruined
Q. I recently learned that my wife was seeing someone else through people that I work with. She admitted to having an affair, and I have been on a roller coaster of emotions for about a week now. We've been married for almost 5 years, we have 2 young ...
A. 16 February 2010: Your last sentence was the most powerful,..."Your words"...
I figure that this affair would have still gone on if others wouldn't have told me about it. Any thoughts?
Kick the bitch to the curb
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I told his fiancee we had an affair out of anger!
Q. I had an affair with a man who was in engaged. He is from Italy and is here for work and his fiance is and has been in Italy which I'm sad to say made it easier. When we started hanging out he didn't tell me but after I found out it was so hard to ...
A. 16 February 2010: Honestly!... You sound like Tiger Woods mistresses.
'I didn't want to ruin his life,. . . I swear!"
But you wasn't saying any of that when you had your ass in the air and face down in the pillow.... (read in full...)
I could accept that she just doesn't like me but why was she so interested in me the night before?
Q. hey guys, i met a girl that i really liked at a bar the other night, and we just had a great conversation. i wasnt drinking, she wasnt drinking, i was just being myself and the reason i didnt ask for her number is that i dont really pick up girls at ...
A. 15 February 2010: I do believe that as a women in a bar. She thought you was going to be a typical guy, ask for her number or try to take her home to have sex with her.
You blew her mind seeing that you wasn't the average Joe looking for pu**y in a bar.
I would co... (read in full...)
Did my fiancee cheat on me? And how can I tell if she has been around a bit before she met me?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] So I'm going to try to break down a lot of facts into short statements: Dated a girl for 4 months and moved in together. Lived together for 5 months and got en...
A. 4 January 2010: Dude why are you even talking marriage right now in the first place?
I promise you, you and her or not going to be happy after.(marriage)
LOL! Why the rush though? Don't be a douche bag and marry just because it sounds cool.
Answer to your questio... (read in full...)
Is it possible that the condom broke and we didn't notice?
Q. Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. We are both 18 and in college and we had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago. We did use protection. My period was supposed to come a week after, but it still hasn't and my breasts have bee...
A. 3 January 2010: Why don't you ask the simple question to him "Did the condom break when we were having sex?" Why are you asking us? We wasn't the one that had sex with you. By the way, It's TOTAL Bullshi* when I hear the question of "The condom broke and (W... (read in full...)
Men and Rejection
Q. I once heard that once a man has rejected by a woman he will never pursue or respect her again. I am very curious to know how bad does rejection hurt the male ego. Is it really that hard for a male to get over the rejection and just be friends with ...
A. 2 January 2010: Dude you have to be kidding me -right-?
Who cares if you get rejected, "It's going to happen in your life sometimes weather if you like it or not.
It doesn't hurt the male ego at all. Unless your a lil bitc* and been raised like a puss all your lif... (read in full...)
I'm depressed about what I've done!
Q. My husband and I have been together since I was 14. I'm now 21. Please don't judge and call me a horrible person. I know the mistakes I've made. I've been paying for them everyday. Anyway, back to the problem. When I was 17 I told my husband I ...
A. 2 January 2010: "Same oh Song and dance from you." You know it's really hard to hear what you have to say, (as far as apologizing) Only UNTIL another guy comes along and you do it again. (Cheat) If you really loooved your husband like you say you do, You'll g... (read in full...)
Being blackmailed! Husband cousin taping me having an affair
Q. Hi, I am a pretty and sexy 25yr old girl, married for 3years. It was an arranged marriage and my husband was not able to satisfy me sexually. This forced me to have an affair. Whenever my husband is away(he travels a lot, sometimes for weeks) my ...
A. 2 January 2010: You don't want to be his puppet?
"TO LATE TO BE SAYING THAT"
Reading what I just read, You might as well be a prostitute
because that's what you belittled yourself to be in this case.
If you had any type of self dignity, you would not ALLOW ... (read in full...)
5 months later we find out she's pregnant after cheating
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant.......she didn't know she was pregnant until five months later..........if u were in my shoes would u forgive her or leave. We tryn to work it out going to counseling and all. Am I'm a bigger man by tryn ...
A. 29 December 2009: I can't believe this is even a question.
Dude! I would have been out the door months ago.
It has nothing to do with being a BIGGER MAN. (If that's what you want to call it)
"More like a Big Sucker to me."
Where's the guy she cheated with? (I... (read in full...)
I never had any problems making friends at college. What's wrong now?
Q. INTRO: I live with my parents because of chronic unemployment. They spent Christmas Eve and Christmas at a distanced city with our extended family and I refused to go as usual. I'm the only Christian in the family, and I'm in my thirties and still ...
A. 28 December 2009: I totally understand where you're coming from, You have been called (chosen) for ministry, so your life and walk of life is changing for your good. Don't compare you life to others. That's worldly
write me back we'll talk
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Is my wife trying to break my attachment to her by being unemotional?
Q. Hi everyone whats all this about can you help me, im going mad. Over the last 12 months my marriage has broken up, we were together for 7 years. Myself and my wife have had affairs, She moved out some months ago. Two weeks ago we both admitted...
A. 28 December 2009: Have you heard the song by R-Kelly ("When a womens fed up")?
You'll find your answer.
Youtube it
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I lost my gf to a drunk driver 3 years ago..and it still haunts me! How do I cope?
Q. im having a bit of a problem here. About two years, gonna be three Jan 5th, my ex was murdered by a drunk driver. Last year wasn't as bad but this year I keep seeing her everywhere and each time it happens I feel like someone punched me in the ...
A. 28 December 2009: How old were you, when this happened, seeing that you're in your ealier teens?... (read in full...)
Our affair was exposed and my reputation is at stake!
Q. I had an affair with a married man. About a year ago we started hanging out and a kiss led to touching, and touching led to sex. We had sex 3 different times and hung out from time to time after that. I have not seen him in about 9 months and then ...
A. 28 December 2009: "You made your bed, now lay in it"
No pity over on this side of town... (read in full...)
Taking a chance with a coworker?
Q. Thanks for your help in advance. My boyfriend lives with me (6m) we are happy. Now at work before I dated him I had this connection w a coworker(female). I really like her- I am very attracted to her. However she has never been straight forward...
A. 28 December 2009: So the question you're saying is what?
You're 35-40 years old and what you said made no sense what so ever?
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Did he mean to call me his girlfriend?
Q. I am confused about a guy I've been seeing for a few months. Our relationship is very casual, more like friends with benefits than dating, as it's based mostly on sex. I like him more than I can admit to him, because he is very distant and often ...
A. 28 December 2009: I fell kind of bad for you, Because it sounds like a spit image of me at one point in my life. I have to give him credit, You have no clue what so ever that you're the female on the side.(fact) That would explain his flakly behaviour ... If I rea... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong when the man is no longer interested in sex?
Q. i just want to know if something is wrong in a relationship when the man youve been with no longer is interested in having sex.he no longer holds me or even looks at me as a woman,yet he checks out other women he sees when we're out somewhere.i lie ...
A. 26 December 2009: He's getting it else where.... "Simple" ...It's not rocket science
the women above is trying to it make more than what it is.
"If your husband is still getting it up. But it's not with you, "Again I say, ...He's getting it else where.
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Myspace is killing my relationship...
Q. my question has to do with myspace. my boyfriend can be a very sweet bf at times and then sometimes i feel as if i dont mean anything to him. myspace is my biggest issue. he wont put me on his top friends and his number one is a porn star. every ...
A. 14 December 2009: Are you serious?... I can't beleive your even telling us this, You're crying because your bf won't make you number 1 on myspace... "Grow up"
If you don't like it then delete your profile and don't go on it.
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Fiance cheated on me and I can't cope...
Q. Hi everyone, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and we got engaged last year. we had been very happy and everyone said we were good for each other. I am 33 and she is 23 but the age issue never even came into it, it really didnt, she was ...
A. 9 December 2009: Kick her to the curb, Keep in mind the only reason she came forward was because you went through her phone and saw Model boy texting her, Otherwise bro, I did think she was going to mention anything. kick this trash to the curb asap. Being drunk is... (read in full...)
Is this guy worth a second date?
Q. pls help me, im a virgin n never been in relatnshps..nw my bf is askin fr a second date....on d first he lockd hs car n grabd my breast n kissed forcibly n tried 2 remove my top.i cried n he left me. he cld n said sry but continues wid horny mesages ...
A. 9 December 2009: Let's try spelling correctly next time. Keep in mind you're not on a cell phone, so there's no need to format a TEXT STYLE message... (read in full...)
My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!
Q. My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his wa...
A. 18 November 2009: My question to you is why are you even with him? Why would you jepodize your life with this waste of time? It's not your battle to help this guy (clown) when he doesn't want to help HIMSELF. If you claim to be intelligent, professiona... (read in full...)
Why wont he make love to me?
Q. why wont he make love to me? my partner of 3 months wont or cant make love to me. he is 36, im 23 and without sounding pig headed im a good looking slim girl. I never turn him away. when we first met it was every night and day, now when i try to ...
A. 30 October 2009: "Sound's Like you have a serious problem on your hands" Seriously" It's time to turn Into Sherlock Homes. "The Man is Cheating" with another women or he's secretly gay" I say what I'm saying with no takebacks. NO MAN!!...I mean NO MAN is... (read in full...)
What am I going to do all weekend while he's having a bachelor party?
Q. hello all i dont know what to do well you see getting married in 2weeks and hubby us having a weekend getaway batchelors party. and i dont like the idea of having strippers ect.. dancing naked and entertaining him. i dont know if i want party and...
A. 26 October 2009: "Seriously"... You'll be back on here in 6 months telling us that you want OUT of this marriage.
Based upon what you wrote, the guy doesn't seem like marriage material @ ALL... "NOT IN MY OPINION" He just seems like a guy that will keeps secr... (read in full...)
Why am I the abused in this relationship?
Q. I am very confused. Currently sleeping on the bathroom floor after being called a liar, being spit on, having multiple small objects thrown at me, and I was the one called the abuser. When I heard him say this, I stepped out of the washroom and...
A. 24 October 2009: My first thought and question to you is?....."How can someone sit there and take what I just read? You gotta be kidding me right? I almost believe some thing is wrong with you by sticking around..."Seriously" "You sticking around doesn't speak mu... (read in full...)
Don't have money to get out and I'm getting depressed
Q. I'm very unhappy I just graduated from college, have no significant other, and a part-time job that pays little. Since I don't have a full-time job I'm at home alone alot and don't get the opportunity to interact with others much and because my job ...
A. 24 October 2009: I'm not in the same boat. But I feel your pain I can understand what you're going through. I really believe that what you're going through is all mental. At lease you have a job. I mean keep in mind, People are killing themselves and t... (read in full...)
Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?
Q. Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a ...
A. 9 September 2009: Are you kidding me? ...Did I just read what I thought I read?
Your wife was at another mans house. Left you with the soon to be 1 year old. And you mean to tell me. You're not upset?
"Dude what planet are you from?" What man knows that his wife... (read in full...)
I don't feel like an important part of his life!
Q. Hi everyone, I'm feeling so confused and lost right now. I am 19 and my boyfriend is 36. I'll be going to uni soon and he is a tutor. Recently we have not been spending much time together as he says he needs to do work. Fine, I'm trying to be ...
A. 29 July 2009: Have it ever dawned on you, By any chance that maybe he's married(or)another relationship of some kind? and can only see you when it's convenient for him?
I read your story and immediately saw red flags. You're young so it's hard for you to just... (read in full...)
Losing love but stuck living with him.
Q. He started beating into me when we were living at my dads mainly when dad wasnt home, because things just weren't going his way. My dads rule and only rule was its his house what ever he says goes. I understood that and respected that but he didnt. ...
A. 23 June 2009: Who said your obligated to stay???? I don't see why you just can't get up and go? For you to still be around after what I just read doesn't speak much volume about you either. It almost makes me wonder... maybe it's you that's a lil off.... (read in full...)
He feels different down there...where's his other ball?
Q. Okay so this is a weird one, hang in there with me... I just started seeing this great guy a few weeks ago, he's such a sweet and goofy guy, I feel really comfortable with him (not to mention he's smoking hot). Well we were cuddling and mes...
A. 18 June 2009: It's actually something that happens to some guys. There born like that. Actually my cousin had that condition. He said the Dr. told him that it's just something that happens.
The other Testicle just didn't form.
But it's nothing spooky. It's jus... (read in full...)
Signs of masturbation?
Q. what type of mark will be found on the bed after men masturbate.whether the mark will be round in shape and the fluid is thick and sticky?Do men masturbate on bed? ...
A. 14 June 2009: Yeah there would be some type of spot either round or spots.
depends on how he decided to shoot his load and how.
But of course men beat it on there bed..." why would they not?"
He probably always has, but this time around got lazy w/ the clean... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my girlfriend want to add me on her facebook?
Q. I invited my girlfriend to my facebook 3 days ago she still hasn't added me. I noticed after inviting her that her ex is on there. I asked her why she said its nothing. Well she still hasn't accepted me and I told her I'm going to delete ...
A. 8 June 2009: "Worry!" ...It's clear to any reader that she doesn't want you to see something on her page.
Facebook and Myspace have caused a lot of relationships to go sore. Personally I hate both of them.
But you need to AND SHOULD worry. Because you have... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 4 June 2009: You're Pathetic .... "Did that strike a nerve? I hope so"... (read in full...)
I'm having a terrible time getting over an affair...
Q. I am a married woman who until 6 months ago had been having an affair for 10 years with a male colleague, also married. He ended it because he said he had felt increasingly unhappy for the last year or so. He felt that we were arguing too much, that ...
A. 4 June 2009: You mean to tell me, That were never caught? What about diseases? ...STD or any other form of something passed? "Wow" you're Pathectic... (read in full...)
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