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Is it possible that the condom broke and we didn't notice?

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Question - (3 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. We are both 18 and in college and we had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago. We did use protection.

My period was supposed to come a week after, but it still hasn't and my breasts have been very tender/swollen/sore. I'm a little scared. Is it possible that the condom broke, and we didn't noticed and I could be pregnant?

Are pregnancy tests accurate this early on? Advice please! I know I shouldn't be, but I've been stressing about this ever since I missed my period!

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (3 January 2010):

Honest Answer agony auntThere is no way in the world you would not notice a broken condom. When the man pulls out, the condom will be around the base of his penis. There is no mistaking this. When a condom fails, it fails.

It is possible that stress could delay your period. The only way to be for sure is to do see a doctor. If you pregnant, delaying the visit won't make things go away. Go see a doctor, and remove this stressor from your shoulders.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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A male reader, weparley United States +, writes (3 January 2010):

Why don't you ask the simple question to him "Did the condom break when we were having sex?"

Why are you asking us? We wasn't the one that had sex with you.

By the way, It's TOTAL Bullshi* when I hear the question of "The condom broke and (WE) didn't notice."

"Thats's the OLDEST trick in the book."

A man knows when the condom breaks, How can a man not know?

It's like wearing a baseball cap on your head, It Comes off and he says ..."I didn't know it was missing"

BULLSHI*!!!!! A man just wants to cum freely inside or you. and that's the only way of doing it. without disagreeing. "UUuuuumm....I didn't know it broke"

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A female reader, meg2989 United States +, writes (3 January 2010):

meg2989 agony auntI 110% agree with Satindesire. Follow those exact instructions. Hopefully your period is just late. Good luck and best of wishes to you both.

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