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writes:He started beating into me when we were living at my dads mainly when dad wasnt home, because things just weren't going his way. My dads rule and only rule was its his house what ever he says goes. I understood that and respected that but he didnt. I thought us getting a house together would change that. The first couple of nights were great. Then time went on, i was doing everything the cooking cleaning ect... He was leaving bags of blood from meat on the sink and cigarette butts on the floor sink and on the tv cabnet. I said to him that im not his maid or mother and he needs to pull his weight, hes like yelling in my face saying you fkn dog retarded b!tch skank and stuff when all i did was told him to clean up. He wont give me a smoke if he thinks im not asking nice enough he will leave me home with no lighters we will have about six of them hell take them all and leave me with a dead one. His parents cant control him so they have dumped him on other people his whole life. He wont take any responsibility for anything he will bribe and break stuff then say that wouldnt be broken if it wasnt for you. He has adhd and learning difficultys so he cant do anything for him self or thats his 'excuse' today he said i fkn hate you you stupid dog you fkd in the head im sick atm so he added i hope u do end up in hospital tonight we are over, so i walked away. And hows this he comes home trying to hug and kiss me with all the baby do you want me to make you a coffee or something to eat ect. Hes doing my head in, and even worse im stuck living with him atm... I wish i was told this is what id b up for before i said yes to dating him. Im losing love for him but he keeps trying to kiss me and apologize but i just can not accept it right now he always says hes sorry. :..( Reply to this Question
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reader, weparley  +, writes (23 June 2009):
Who said your obligated to stay???? I don't see why you just can't get up and go? For you to still be around after what I just read doesn't speak much volume about you either. It almost makes me wonder... maybe it's you that's a lil off.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (23 June 2009):
 sorry is not something that people say after doing something bad to get away with it to do it again. it seems this is his tactic
he doesn't respect you or anyone else. this is a bad sign longterm if you think he will change. he acts like a naughty child from the description you gave and even behave in a deliberately nasty way towards you.
i would leave, if it were me. you can move back with your dad and prepare to move on to your own place which may be smaller but you can have it clean and relax. it sounds like he isn't trying to change and has little regard for others.
where is the love-actions speak louder than words.
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