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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with this guy for 1 year and 3 months now, we are both from the same country, he has a chinese gf that he's been with for a little over 3 years now, they live together and they have a daughter, he spends all his time with me, helping me and my daughter. Although I know he has a gf, I fell in love with him and everything he does show me that he loves me too(and I don't think any man would go out of their way to help you find a job, an apartment and planning to fix your car etc...) he even bring me his paychecks every week. On top of it when we're out he tells everyone that I'm his wife. But when I ask him if he is going to marry the her, he always tells me eventually he will have to, and that she is not ready for that now. He is moving with her and their daughter to another state, he asked me to move to that state too. What does all that mean? I am getting confused and I need some advice.
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reader, weparley +, writes (20 February 2010):
This man is a black widow. "This man sounds like he lost his marbles."I feel sorry for you, Because he has you in a spider web that you can't escape from. I saw how you actually ran to his defense on the material things he does for you. which doesn't speak much volume about you either.Honesly... let nature take his course and have him leave the country. It's going to be the best thing that happen to you. How long will you play being the second women?Stop reducing youself.
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