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kittykat
writes: i really need help on this one if any one can help, my relationship kind of depends on it. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and we have only had sex a few times but he doesnt seem pleased. i dont know if my vagina is too big for him or if his penis is too small for me. I have orgasm and so does he, but he also says that he does not hit the walls of my vagina. I was wondering if any one could tell me how to make my vagina fell tighter and better at the same time as getting pleasured myself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Don't Listen To Him!His D*ck Is Too Small If He's Complaining, Besides If Ya'll Both Had An Orgasm N He's Still Not Satisfied Than He's Feelin Insecure Bout Himself. Love Urself For Who U R! My Fiancee Has Told Me I Was Loose A Couple Of Times But That's Cuz I Masturbated B4 He Came Over N I Like It Rough. But Otherwise I'm Pretty Small N He's Far From Small.
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reader, chummy  +, writes (7 September 2007):
there are machines you can buy to do the exercise for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Hii had the same problem then i started holding on to my wee and releasing it several time when i go to the toilet and it worked also i bought some product which i now sell that makes you really tight and it is safe, it also helps with thrush and things like that, you can use as much as possible as it it all herbs and the effect last for about a week, then use again. thanks.
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reader, TyRhonda  +, writes (8 August 2007):
Well I have used the vaginal tightening cream from Adam and Eve and that works. Its in a blue bottle and it costs about $15 for 2 ounces. You put it on about 3-5 min before sex and it makes you very hot and it also tightens you up. I've also tried the vinegar and water and it worked most of the time but the last time it actually made me kinda looser. I advise you call Adam and Eve at 1-800-365-ADAM and order that cream.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): ok this sounds funny I know but I was told vinger/water. You 50/50 the two can get s bottle and pour it inside you.I never done it kind of scared to b-cuz it might hurt or burn but thats what i was told.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): why don't you go to a sex shop and buy liquid virgin you can go to sex novelties and they tell you all the cream they have they work so good he think you are a virgin e-mail me and let me know did this help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2006): Try kegal exercises. If you aren't familiar, search it online. It's excercising the muscles in your vagina, and yes, makes it tighter. It will also enhance your sexual stimulation. You can even practice when he's in you. He'll like it too.
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reader, lorel +, writes (22 December 2005):
Hi, Dont believe him for a minute. Ive had 4 kids and mine is still very tight. He is just trying to hurt you..Best wishes..
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (22 December 2005):
This is such an old chestnut that men use against so many women, please don't fall for it. Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you! You are not TOO BIG! You say you do have an orgasm and so does he. So what is the problem? Kick him out of bed, get a man who really appreciates you OR tell your boyfriend that he should learn to be a better lover in bed to get you back into his! Good luck!
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reader, shania +, writes (22 December 2005):
 Women who have given birth are told to do pelvic floor exercises,which tighten the vagina muscles.What you do is squeeze your muscles down the vagina region for a count of 10 then release.The beauty of this,is you can do it anywhere,at the bus stop,the supermarket at work,no one has to know.Do that as much as you can and i guarantee,your vagina muscles will be alot tighter.Another thing is your boyfriend might not be hard enough when you begin intercourse,more foreplay might be needed and try different sexual positions,where you get better penetration.Sex books are good to read and give you excellent advice,good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2005): Hi kittykat, there are certain exercises that allow one to contract the muscles there. i will tell u one of them here. when u go to the bathroom to urinate do it slowly, then hold it up and slowly again until u finish. dont just rush all out.this relaxes your muscles around that area and contracts them in.
Also when u do have intercourse with your boyfriend try to contract and release your virgina wall around his penis. The above should help u with how this is done. This requires practise and with time u will be able to contractthe muscles there.
I hope this helps a little. Have fun.
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