Is my boyfriend, who prefers to masturbate rather than have sex, going to marry me or is he waiting for a "better deal"?

My bf of 4 years prefers masturbation than sex and is not committing in our relationship. He tells me that masturbation is easier, and that we don't have to have sex everytime we see each other, and that he gets tired when having sex. We only have sex about once or twice a month. He masturbates almost every other day though. Also, I don't see any future that he wants to settle down, and all his plans only involves him. It also annoys me when he says that if a not good lucking guy can get a gorgeous woman, then he could do it too. A lot of guys tells me I'm hot and he knows that too, but I just ignore those guys because of him. I'm getting tired of all these. However, there was a time about two months ago when he said that he will have to make a decision in about a couple of months because he also wants to get married. That couple of months is pretty much up, but I never mentioned anything to him since he said that to me. He always brings me to nice dinner but I'm also thinking that he is still hoping for a "better deal" somewhere. Any experience or advice please?

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