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writes: Hello everyone, Well I have been on a few dates with this guy, and he recently spent the night at my house and we had sex. He then asked me to officially be his girlfriend, but now it seem like he is ignoring me. I called him to just talk, but he was half asleep so I just let him go to bed. I asked him to call me back but it's been 2 days and he knows am going to travel during the holidays. So I once again called him to just say bye but he wasn't home, and to this moment he has not called me back. I'm leaving in the morning and I feel like he does not care. Am i over reacting? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2005): Maybe he was gone or had other things going on to where he couldn't call u, that doesn't mean he doesn't still care about u.
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (22 December 2005):
Oh boy! You are NOT over-reacting. Dump this creep and enjoy your holiday.
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reader, shania  +, writes (22 December 2005):
 The world is a big wide place,your young,you have youth on your side,enjoy it while you can.Have a brilliant time travelling and forget that loser.If he was keen enough he would of contacted you.He seems to have had a change of heart and he needs to grow up.Let him do the running,you have done enough.One question though, if he does call,do you really want to have a relationship with him,when he was so aloof before? I say he was more driven by sex then getting to know you.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (22 December 2005):
 Dear, i am so sorry. Just leave him alone. You have made all the moves to contact him and he is even aware u r travellng and hasnt called or even tried to see u before u leave.
Go on your trip and have fun. dont worry u head. i pray he realises that he has been a jerk. I agree he should make the next move and if he doesnt go on with your life.
merry xmas and new yr.
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reader, honey_62002 +, writes (22 December 2005):
I think you should go travelling and just have an absolutely brilliant time. This guy seems like a bit of a loser and at the end of the day thats his loss. Sounds like a lucky escape really. Put it down to one of those experiences, learn from it and move on.
I wouldn't contact him again, let him make the next move if he gets off his lazy bum and wants too. But i wouldn't hold back from having fun whilst your away.
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