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writes: My ex-husband got re-married a couple days ago. That hit me like a ton of bricks. We haven't been together for 2 and a half years and he has been with her since we seperated. I don't want to be with him, I want to be able to move on from him. I've dated several guys, even guys that would be a good catch. But I can't commit and when they do even the tiniest thing hurtful, I'm done with them. I have to see him everyday because we have a 5 year old daughter and we both get a great deal of time with her, which is good for her. How do I find the strength in myself and how do people move on from such hurt?
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (24 December 2005):
Time is how you move on. Give yourself some time to get over this guy. He has moved on and now you have to do the same.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (24 December 2005):
 Hi dear, i am sorry you are sad. will have to be very open with you cause this will help you move on.
Your ex have practically moved on with his life you should too. why should you be bothered about him when he isnt even thinking about you. i mean your marriage ended 2 and half years ago and he didnt try to get you back instead he chose to move on and marry someone else.
I know you still have some attachment for him, he is the father of your child and will always be in her life. but he is your ex for a reason because the two of you couldnt get along and stay married. if you want to move on with your life then you should realise that the marriage wasnt meant to be.
You say you have previously relationship with others but was too afraid to commint. Maybe its because you havent found the right person who would sweep you off your feet again.
Please cheer up and be happy. go out with friends and occupy yourself with activities to make you forget.
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