Handy Work!!
Q. hi all i was just windering if anyone could tell me how to toss a lad off i don't ave a clue what to do.... plz help xxx...
A. 23 August 2006: if you really have no idea how then you probably shudnt be doing it at all. otherwise ask if you can watch him doing it first then copy him... (read in full...)
What a boy wants
Q. hi im 13 and i am just learning about boys and how basically all they think and care about is sex and women. i am now really upset cos thts all boys want :( so they have no respect for girls tht means :( i hate it! i hate tht that is all they care ...
A. 23 August 2006: not every boy is the same its just that the good ones are really hard to find and some lads are really good at lyin so you dont know wether there genuine or not. they do grow out of it and settle down eventully. there will always be lads who are ... (read in full...)
The person who gave my boyfriend an STD 10 years ago turns out to be someone I know!
Q. My boyfriend has recently informed me that someone I know is the person who gave him an STD 10 years ago. I have to see this girl all the time and it kills me. He doesn't know whether or not she knew she had it at the time but he ended up with it ...
A. 23 August 2006: you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel about it. i can see how its hard to deal with but feeling angry over something that hapened in the past is pointless whats done is done theres nothing you can say to change it. and do you feel insecur... (read in full...)
Top tips for female O?
Q. what are the top ways for a woman to have a solo orgasm?...
A. 23 August 2006: buy a rampant rabbit :)... (read in full...)
What's the secret question?
Q. What is the "Secret Question" to ask a stranger if they are gay?...
A. 23 August 2006: how old are you?? why would you want to do that most of time you can tell just from talking to them for a while but i dont see why t should matter to be honest. theres not a secret question you just have to get talking to someone and they'l tell ... (read in full...)
Not sure if the baby is my guys, or one of the guys I slept with in between!!...
Q. i'm 19 and have a one year old son. I broke up with my partner last year in December as he was violent. Although we were'nt together we continued to have sex. But unknown to him i have slept with other men. Now i have just found out i am ...
A. 18 August 2006: you have two options you either keep playing happy families and let him believe th childs his, what he doesnt no wont hurt him
or you can tell him the truth and get a dna test to be honest if he was violent you may be better off without him anyw... (read in full...)
Love/hate relationships
Q. i need help :( im a teen and i had a boyfriend but we split up and after it he asked me to snog him n i did and 4 weeks after i did that he was with another girl. When he was with her i also snogged him again when he was with her and he let me p...
A. 18 August 2006: you both sound very young and immature to be honest.
but he's using you for sex and you get absolutly nothing in return. you need to stop seeing him he doesnt care about you at all. x x... (read in full...)
We were together 2 months, now I'm pregnant at 17 and he doesn't want to be with my anymore!
Q. I'm 17 and about 2 week ago i found out i was pregnant. I was going to get rid of it but my boyfriend talked me into keeping it. So i got used to it. Then a week later he came home from work and told me he didnt want it. I walked away from him and ...
A. 18 August 2006: at first YOU decided that you wanted to get rid of your baby, then you changed your mind because this lad talked you into keeping it but im guessing that you made that choice because you thought he was going to stay with you and support you.
n... (read in full...)
Im only 19 and really want a baby, is this a wise thing to do ?
Q. i have wanted a baby now for about 3 years and whilst going out with my boyfriend we had been trying for one however i just couldnt get pregnant. I was so into the idea for having a baby because now i feel that i am ready, even though im only 19. I ...
A. 18 August 2006: whats your relationship like with your boyfriend does he want a baby as much as you do?
i'll not patronise you by saying your too young because your not. i had a baby at 17 and although i didnt mean to get pregnant it was the best thing that ever... (read in full...)
She is 13...what to do!
Q. Hi, I need some advise! I'm a 21 year old lad who has fallen in love with a 13 year old girl (14 in December) and not know what to do? I love her more than anything in the world and have never felt this way before, I can’t stop thinking about her ...
A. 15 August 2006: ok so everyone thinks this is wrong. i agree but if im honest its purely because my ex decided he would leave me for a 14year old and i cant seem to understand why older lads want young girls other than the reason their nieve and you can talk them ... (read in full...)
Am I looking at my son with rose tinted glasses? Is he really as naughty as people say?
Q. my 5 yr old son is like any average normal kid, but ppl always have an oppinion on him they say hes out of control and i dont disiplin him, i do. dont get me wrong he dosent listen to me somtimes he does on the important things but everyday normal ...
A. 31 July 2006: your probably not seeing him for what he is really like because you deep down you dont want to admit you've got a bit of a problem with him. my ex boyfriend is 18 and his mother still doesnt see him for what he is she believes anything he tells her ... (read in full...)
I always fall for "bad boys"...How can I get a "good guy"
Q. Heya guyss, I have this really big problem in falling for "bad boys" the more bad the better! My last boyfriend managed to get me into a jail cell when he beat up a chav and i was caught at the scene. I can't help falling for all these guys. Ho...
A. 31 July 2006: i used to have a thing for bad boys myself i think the whole attraction is that you think you can be the one to change and tame them into a good guy but 9 times out of 10 you cant and you'll only get hurt. you'l never find a serious relationship ... (read in full...)
I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant
Q. iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods ...
A. 31 July 2006: yeah maxsteel is wrong its completly true that you can have your periods while your pregnant and if you dont believe just do a search on google and you can also get the pill if your under 18 i had it from being 15. if you dont know what your talking ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant because he came and was fingering me?
Q. Ive never done anything with any guys before and was a complete virgin until me and my boyfriend decided to go further. Anyway the other night I slept round his house and things led to another and I ended up tossing him off and he was fingering me ...
A. 31 July 2006: yeah just coz it didnt happen to other people doesnt mean it cant happen at all i've been in this situation and i didnt get pregnant but that doesnt mean its impossible its unlikely yes but get a test done just to make sure... (read in full...)
Period's different after sex. What does it mean?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex a week and a day ago, we used Durex Extra Safe (thicker and with spermicide so I've heard), we both checked throughout to see that it stayed on, and after, he took it off well away from me. I started my period today (i...
A. 31 July 2006: i doubt that your pregnant if you have your period but get a test if your still worried.
and i dont see how you can seriously be enjoying sex if your checking the condom every five minutes then he has to take it off on the other side of the room... (read in full...)
I need to hide a hickey from my parents, so they don't know where I've been!
Q. hi... I really need help and fast. I spent the weekend with my boyfriend. My parents don't know about it and if they had ever found out that I would be in so much trouble. I got away with them not finding out that I was with him. The only thing th...
A. 31 July 2006: get some concealer and try to hide it with that it might work but depends how bad it is. and if you get caught say one of your friends did it playin around. but you should have just told your boyf not to do it because you would get in trouble with ... (read in full...)
At what age can my older daughter refuse to go on visits with her dad?
Q. I am divorced and have remarried. I have 2 kids from previous marriage who are aged 12 and 10. They are picked up by their father once a month and taken to his home. My eldest who is female is becoming increasing hostile to going with him. She ...
A. 23 July 2006: have you talke to your daughter about why she is so reluctant to go with him?... (read in full...)
Am pregnant again after having an abortion not long ago... I feel so alone... please help
Q. Hi I need help. I have fallen pregnant again after I have just had an abortion not long ago. I dont want to get an abortion but my boyfriend does and i have no one to talk to. I feel so alone. I have tried to convince him that everything will be ok ...
A. 23 July 2006: i got pregnant when i was 16 and my boyfriend pushed me into having an abortion then he left me alone and i was heartbroke i never really got over that abortion and when i got back with the same lad a few months later i did it again intentionally i ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is heartbroken that England are out of the World Cup!
Q. My boyfriend is absolutely, totally and utterly gutted now that England are out of the World Cup. He can barely speak and I can't seem to make him see that it's summer, life is good, and that there's still fun to be had. Anyone got ideas how to lift ...
A. 7 July 2006: jus tell him its just football its not like someones died or anythin and he should stop being a little girl about it
ok maybe that would be a bit insensitive but he'l get over it its not end of world lol... (read in full...)
How do lady lesbians... do it? What goes where?
Q. hi, i dont understand gay and lesbian sex. if two women are having sex then how cos there vaginas go together but how to they get an orgasm? cos wiv a man and a women the mans willy goes into the women and that feels nice but in gay/lesbian sex ...
A. 7 July 2006: theres this amazinggg thing caled the rampant rabbit
better than any man ;)... (read in full...)
I can't help my attraction to my husband's friend... and I have to!
Q. God Help me. I've done it again...I'd been seeing my husband's friend a few times and though there was kissing we never had sex and about a month ago we agreed to stop. however because we all socialise in the same group things were difficult a...
A. 7 July 2006: haha loving the first answer i dont know how to help you im in the same situation with my boyfriends best mate and i dont think god can help me or any1 else for that matter
we are weak woman bein driven by sexual attraction
u cant stop it becoz yo... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone says that they need space?
Q. What does it mean when someone says that they need space?...
A. 5 July 2006: id say it means that someone does genuingly need time on there own or its sumtimes a lame excuse 2 get out of a relationship but u soon no if there goin out with sum1 else a week later... (read in full...)
I have his baby and he won't leave his wife for us. What should I do?
Q. hi everybody im so glad i found this website cause i need advice really bad ok it started in nov of 2004 i started seeing this married man see he told me from the beginning that they were planning on getting divorced so we started seeing each other ...
A. 5 July 2006: right ok lets say this man meant what he said 'her kids really love him so it would take some time'
right aside from the fact thats absolute bullshit and you choose to believe him what exactly are you waiting for? her kids 2 stop loving him? look... (read in full...)
The body English is there, but do you think he likes me?
Q. There is a guy who I Like but I am not sure if he likes me. Last time I saw him, I was surprised he remembered me, last time I saw him it was a while back, and has ignored me before. He made a joke and said "of course I remember you". Someti...
A. 5 July 2006: its hard to say without actually seeing it for myself body language is something that has to be read as a whole not just little bits taken out of context
and he may have been checking out your legs and boobs but that doesnt mean anythin most of t... (read in full...)
Worried about losing my virginity!
Q. Hey im 16 and a virgin and im really worried becuase me and this guy ive been with are ready to take our relationship to the next level and after nearly 3 years im ready but im really worried that its going to hurt or im going to put him off becuase ...
A. 5 July 2006: go on top the first time, sounds scary i know but you'l just know what your doing straight away and thats how i lost my virginity and it didnt hurt at all dont listen to what everyone else has to say everyone is differant.
as for being worried abou... (read in full...)
After a one night stand I think I love him
Q. How do I get him??? We started talking on a dating site and agreed that we would just meet casually because we were both mutually attracted to each other on a physical level. Well, we met and the night was amazing. He turned out to be an even better ...
A. 5 July 2006: its such a shame us woman have to bring emotion in to sex even when we dont mean to, men just dont work the same as us and sex is just that nothing more
id say all you can do is wait and see whhat he has 2 say and if he contacts you dont tell him ... (read in full...)
I think I need to lose my virginity!
Q. Hi I am 14 years old and I feel Im getting to that age where I think I should lose my virginty. I don't have a boyfriend or anything, but I really wanna not be a virgin anymore. Any advice? StIlLaViRgInNY...
A. 5 July 2006: ya know i really cant stand 14 year old girls at minute why do you all think you have to be so grown up so quickly?
lads will use you if your not careful your just an easy shag to put it bluntly you might think your not stupid and you know what your... (read in full...)
Why is she wearing the ring I bought her, given that I've been dumped?
Q. HI, my girlfriend broke up with me, we were going out for 3 months and i bought her a ring whilst we were going out.. she didn't wear it very much, but now because we broke up shes wearing it most of the time... how does this work?...
A. 5 July 2006: i stil wear a ring an ex gave me it doesnt really mean anything to me at all to be honest i dont know why i wear it. maybe she misses you maybe its just something to wear unless you ask her you'l never know... (read in full...)
What's the latest abortion you can have?
Q. How long do you hv untill you can't have an abortion? i have gt untill wednesday if i am pregnant to find out weather or nt i am pregnant and hv an abortion cuz it's bin 3 mnths then and im getttin paranoid about it is it 3 mnths wot if u leave it...
A. 3 July 2006: u can have them up to 5months if you've got a good reason for it but it gets more complicated the longer u leave it... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents hate me!
Q. My bf won't tell his parents we're back together. Last time we were together they bought him off and he broke up with me. Now we're back together after a few years and of course, both of us have changed. His parents, however, have not. They still ...
A. 2 July 2006: join the club i know the feeling well
all you can do is ask your boyfriend to arrange a meeting with his parents so you can go and talk to them together explain how you feel about eachother and try to talk it through with them
saying that i know h... (read in full...)
I'm 16. He's 21. Is he too old?
Q. I am 16- my birthday was in February. My boyfriend is 21- going to be 22 in August. Is he too old? When i tell people they are shocked, i was when he told me but i am over that now. I really have never met anyone like him before......
A. 2 July 2006: dont worry bout it my boyfriends best mate is 22 and his girlfriend is 16 they've been together for ages it shocks some people at first but they get over it if you like him stick with him who cares what other people think
some 16 years old are imma... (read in full...)
Now my girlfriend is pregnant she doesn't want sex anymore
Q. My Girlfiend and i started for a baby 3 month's ago and we did it like bunny's for 3 month's and this past month she gets tummy pain (weird pain)but she kept having sex like mad 4-5 times a week but when her period's came around she didn't cum on we ...
A. 2 July 2006: well im 6month pregnant now and at times i wanted sex all the time and sometimes i just didnt feel like it at all your hormones are all over the place while your pregnant and the first few month can be pretty rough for some people and she may just ... (read in full...)
How can I become a midwife by training as a nurse first?
Q. how to become amidwife by training as nurse first? where can i go? hope u can help timmy ...
A. 2 July 2006: type in on google 'becoming a midwife' it tells you everything you need to know and ways of going about also which universitys do nursing courses and stuff,
good luck x... (read in full...)
Is it possible to spread cold sores and the herpes virus if we perform oral sex on each other, even if a sore isn't present?
Q. Both my partner and I have HSV 1 (cold sores). He gets them frequently and I've only had one bad case. Is it possible to spread cold sores and the herpes virus if we perform oral sex on each other, even if a sore isn't present? Also, what's the ...
A. 2 July 2006: HSV2 is usually on the genitals its rare to find it orally and HSV1 is usually spread orally it can be passed on from kissing or oral sex. and passing on 'cold sores' and herpes are 2 differant things i wouldnt hold it against someone for giving me ... (read in full...)
My Bf can't orgasm through oral sex and a hand job-is there something wrong?
Q. my boyfriend gets an erection really easy, but can't have an orgasm by oral sex or a hand job very easy. most of the time the only way he can have a orgasm is by being inside me. what is wrong?...
A. 2 July 2006: nothings wrong with him he just gets turned on by certain things and not so much by others
think about it im sure your just the same certain things make you orgasm other things take much longer or dont do much at all.
i think your seeing it as a ... (read in full...)
Do boys know when girls have a period
Q. do teenage boys know when teenage girls are on their period?...
A. 2 July 2006: ignore that last post thats the biggest load of crap ive ever heard n sounds like its come from a 13 year old. unless your mates with superman no one can 'smell it' dont worry and it something every woman gets and is perfectly natural i know what ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for some loser like me to date and have a long term relationship with a girl I like who is popular?
Q. I wasn't very popular at school (both primary and secondary) though not in a bad way, just people dind't want me to be their best friend. Even when I got my year book and people wrote stuff about me in it, it made me embarrassed because it was ...
A. 2 July 2006: of course it is there isnt a rule book saying who everyone can and cant date.
lots of people have a hard time at school kids and teenagers are cruel growing up and always will be. once you leave school its a differant ball game your all iin the big ... (read in full...)
I have his baby and he won't leave his wife for us. What should I do?
Q. hi everybody im so glad i found this website cause i need advice really bad ok it started in nov of 2004 i started seeing this married man see he told me from the beginning that they were planning on getting divorced so we started seeing each other ...
A. 2 July 2006: the best thing you can do is walk away you say he has no attachment to this woman yet he married her so obviously there was emotional attachment with her. i know this isnt what you want to hear but at end of the day an affair is based on sex and the ... (read in full...)
Do boys know when girls have a period
Q. do teenage boys know when teenage girls are on their period?...
A. 21 June 2006: unless there immature enough to go rooting through your bag for tampons or you tell them then no they cant tell. they might guess if your a bit emotional or moody butwhat does it matter if they do know? its natural dont worry who know's... (read in full...)
I have some bizarre fetishes-does that mean something is wrong with me?
Q. is it weird to have a fetish for people with no legs? i mean its like sooooo sexy and i get horny just thinking about it. is there something wrong with me? i always have these weird dreams about people like that and i always get wet dreams. i also ...
A. 9 June 2006: its strange yes but many fetishes are some men like to be treated as babies and some like you to pee on them
theres nothing wrong with you, i wouldnt shout it from the rooftops obviously but whatever floats ya boat :)... (read in full...)
What kind of penis would women rather have?
Q. What is it that women prefer when having sex with a man? A long penis is or a thick one (in diameter)?...
A. 9 June 2006: lol i can remember my best mate askin me this years ago 'long n thin or short n fat'
end of day it doesnt matter you can either n still be crap in bed ;)
its not what you've got its how you use it
x x... (read in full...)
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