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What kind of penis would women rather have?

Q.   What is it that women prefer when having sex with a man? A long penis is or a thick one (in diameter)?...

A.   9 June 2006: lol i can remember my best mate askin me this years ago 'long n thin or short n fat' end of day it doesnt matter you can either n still be crap in bed ;) its not what you've got its how you use it x x... (read in full...)

What is emo?

Q.   Im sorry if this offends people like it did when i asked this girl. I asked her 'what is an emo'... and she was saying she didn't want to tell me because everyone called it her when she kept on saying that she wasn't. So can any one else here tell ...

A.   9 June 2006: lmao sum funny answers i didnt know what an emo was either at firsy yhere prettynew *i think * just another way of categorisng people you get goths chavs thrashers retro's and now emos there strange if you ask me but what do i know. you get l... (read in full...)

My folks won't hear his name spoken, but I want to be with him. How do I proceed?

Q.   My boyfriend and I speak every day and we are not allowed to see each other, so we don't. He is 21 and I am almost 18. He has a perminant job and I'm almost finished at business college. Our past relationship didn't work coz I was young and he w...

A.   9 June 2006: your 18 and what you do is completly up to you not your parents, they must have pretty strong reasons for not even wanting to hear his name and without knowing why they feel like this its hard to give you much advice they may just be trying to ... (read in full...)

I've never had an orgasm!

Q.   I have never had an orgasm! Guys have gone down on me and I'v had sex in all different positions but still nothing! Please help!...

A.   9 June 2006: i dont agree with the first answer which said you are to nervous to experiece one we know nothing about you and all the confidence in the world doesnt mean you'l have an orgasm i would agree with the fact that you should findout what you like for ... (read in full...)

Hair on my nose! Will girls think I'm a freak?

Q.   i have hair growing on my face and i dnt think it should grow on their, and also have some on my nose and i dnt wanna be someone that people laugh at and girls think i might be a freak but u cant see the hair, can u plzzz help...

A.   30 May 2006: your question didnt really make sense u said 'but u cant see the hair' can u see it or not? anyway if a girl likes you she will see past phsical looks who wants to be with someone shallow? you didnt say how old you are ive got a feeling your you... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town? My fiancee was furious! Please advice

Q.   Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town. I have 3 children by this man and i took them to stay at a hotel with their grandparents and aunts and cousins. I havent seen these people in 7 years. So i sat with them a ...

A.   30 May 2006: i totally agree with irish you have every right to let your child see his paternal family. your fiancee may have overreacted and felt slightly left out, talk it over with him and if he's still been unreasonable be careful a relationship cant surv... (read in full...)

My friend has organised a blind date with an older girl, How do I act ?

Q.   Help Please! last night my friend told me that he has organised for me and him to go on a date with two other girls. I said ok but im quite worried because im 16 and the girl im seeing is 17 or 18 and i have never seen her before. Does anyone know ...

A.   30 May 2006: dont talk to her any dfferant than you would anyone your own age shes only a couple of years older than you at most as long as your not acting immature you'l be fine, a few of my friends are younger than me and we dont act any differantly around ... (read in full...)

My family are making my life hell and I want to leave

Q.   dear cupid.... My boyfriend and i are both seventeen years old and love each other very much..we are realistic and are taking things one step at a time, ie we don't exactly expect to stay together forever...the problem at hand is that we are both...

A.   30 May 2006: you've said yourself you dont expect it to last forever so why lose your chance of an education and destroy you relationship with your family for something that wont last? if you had strong enough feelings forever you would just leave and not be a... (read in full...)

Still love my cousin... what shall I do?

Q.   i seem to be in love with my second cousin, first i though it was a crush but it wasnt, i mean you do not have a crush on someone for almost 2 years, i want to ask her out but i think i already know the answer as i have asked her out before through ...

A.   30 May 2006: it is legal to marry a first cousin in the uk so second cousin isnt really a problem if you love her go for it if u feel so strongly but she has to feel the same way and dont ask her out through a friend get talking to her directly and see how she ... (read in full...)

What should i expect for my first sexual experience?

Q.   I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19... we have been together for nearly two years and i really think he is "the one!" He's always there when i need him, no matter what time of day/night. When i met him i was 14, and totally not ready for sex. He unde...

A.   27 May 2006: i was the same as you when i was 16 and was scared wether itwas gunna hurt and everything but like you id been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 year and felt i could do anything with him. my first time didnt hurt at all i went on top first this migh... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose him but am scared he will get fed up of waiting...

Q.   im 16 and i havent done anythimk more than kiss at the moment.im with a guy, and we have been going out for about a month or so. i no that he really wants to go futher with the relationship and get more sexual, but i dont think im ready. when we g...

A.   15 May 2006: i had sex for the first time when i was 16 and made my boyfriend wait about 4month even though i was ready i just thought id make him wait bit longer if he wont wait he isnt the one you want to be with anyway. when it right you'l know. if your wit... (read in full...)

How do I make him understand..that he needs a better job to support me and the kids?

Q.   me and my husband are having big financial problems and he often blames me for not having enough money. when i say big i mean big. we're constantly getting eviction notices from our landlord! getting diconnection notices from our utility bills! he ...

A.   15 May 2006: your husband is trying his best to support you all and although it may not seem good enough try to be more positive towards him there isnt much else he can do there are only so many hours in a day. maybe you could consider getting a council ... (read in full...)

I really like her but she has this thing for her ex bf..what should I do?

Q.   I have had a thing going with this one girl for a while now. She has had a lot of relationships in middle school, i did not. i went on a few dates with her, but when i was going to ask her out, she told me about her feelings for her ex (the only ...

A.   14 May 2006: you dont want to rush this girl because if you do your only going to get hurt. stay good friends with her and she might get over her ex in time and be ready to start something new. it takes time to get over an ex and by not jumping into anything ... (read in full...)

She looks at me and flicks her hair in my direction...does she like me?

Q.   please publish as i am desperate for an answer. two years ago a girl and i really liked each other, each night we would talk to each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times ...

A.   13 May 2006: go for it you've got nothing to lose. ask her for her number and see what her respose is and if its a good one ask her to the dance, worst she could is say no, you never know until you ask... (read in full...)

We have sex but my girl keeps getting UTI'S, what can be causing this?

Q.   my girl has never had sex, only with me, she keeps getting utis, she went for ultrasounds bladder tests kidney tests, no result, all she does is take pills and for two weeks we dont have sex,? whats the reason, is it because im uncircumsized, what ...

A.   13 May 2006: i had this problem a few times when i first started having sex without condoms some i was exactly the same as your girlfriend and my boyfriend wa the only one i had ever had sex with. when you have sex you cause bacteria to enter her, this is nothi... (read in full...)

Abortion advice needed!

Q.   Hey people, first post on here. I'm 17, going to university in september to study veterinary medicine. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and having sex for bout 6 months... few weeks ago we had sex in the middle of my cycle, ...

A.   13 May 2006: like you im 17 and recently found out im pregnant. an abortion didnt even cross my mind, my parents are very supportive and i love my babys father very much. i know its going to be far from easy and i will have to make plenty of sacriices to make ... (read in full...)

Been dating for 2.5 months... All she wants to do is hug and hold hands; is it possible girls are not horny!?

Q.   i have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 and a half months now. she says she is innocent and that she is not a horny type of girl. is possible that girls are NOT horny. i don't want to talk to her about it, because i dont want to sound like a ...

A.   13 May 2006: your girlfriend may well be scared of taking things any further especially if our only young, if you really think alot about this girl then wait untill she is ready to do more with you. some people arnt as trusting as others let her become more ... (read in full...)

I love my man and don't want to lose him, but he needs to let me know what's going on!

Q.   I am in college and I have been with a guy for a year and 4 months. He is in the airforce, and we are very in love. However, I am unsure as to what to do about a difference between us. If he makes plans for us, I like to know exactly what they ...

A.   13 May 2006: i know how you feel with this situation for someone who is not in love its easy enough to say walk away and find someone else, but when your in love thats impossible and you'll whatever he does isn't gonna make you stop loving him, but you have to ... (read in full...)

I love my man and don't want to lose him, but he needs to let me know what's going on!

Q.   I am in college and I have been with a guy for a year and 4 months. He is in the airforce, and we are very in love. However, I am unsure as to what to do about a difference between us. If he makes plans for us, I like to know exactly what they ...

A.   13 May 2006: i know how you feel with this situation for someone who is not in love its easy enough to say walk away and find someone else, but when your in love thats impossible and you'll whatever he does isn't gonna make you stop loving him, but you have to ... (read in full...)

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