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Love/hate relationships

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Question - (18 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

i need help :( im a teen and i had a boyfriend but we split up and after it he asked me to snog him n i did and 4 weeks after i did that he was with another girl.

When he was with her i also snogged him again when he was with her and he let me put my hand in places on him. He became single and i gave him oral sex and 2 or 3 weeks later he was dating another girl and i give him oral sex again and we snogged. before that he told me he still liked me but i didnt understand why we wasnt together why he hadnt asked us to be.

That day i asked him if he wanted to do it again and he said yes and i asked him 2 weeks later and he started saying ''i dont want a baby'' and started saying im the sort of person who wud put the sperm up me and try and get pregnant from the oral sex and he was saying about someone in his family his girlfriend did . I mean come on! i woudn't do that what an excuse to get out of it. Then when i asked him if he did want to do it again he said no i dont wanna baby.

We fell out after that but made friends about 2 weeks later and he came to my house n he let me put my hand on his penis but the next day when he came to my house he wanted me to do him a cd on the computer and it woudnt work and when i went to put my hand there he kept saying ''do u mind'' and moving it away then he said i want to fone my mum to pick me up and i said why but he wouldnt answer the question . He walked home instead and told everybody at school i sexually harrased him!.

He is sending mixed signals one minute he wants oral sex off me the next he moves my hand from me just puttin it on his gender area.

Soon after we made friends again and then fell out because his best friend was accusing me of taking him off her and he said he isn't going to let that happen. He said to his best friend that its better without me in their lives.

Then he sent her our chat log from the computer messenger because she asked for it so he sent it and written in it it said i had gave him a handjob and she was furious she started saying WHEN DID U DO IT!! and he kept saying just say it was when i sucked him off so i lied for him because i have gave him oral 2 times and handjob 5 times and he started being nice after that ( probably so i didnt tell his best mate ).

Anyway .. i asked him if he still fancied me and he said he didn't. We had to still pretend we wasnt friends infront of her and then she went on his computer messenger account pretending to be him to catch us out. and she did.. she went completeley mad at me and then said ok u can be his mate but dont ever ever ever take him away from me and i said i woudn't.

The next day she told him she knew about us being friends and he told her he didn't like me in the first place.

I still love him because we have alot of memories but he treats me horrible and bullys me when were not friends. what sould i do ! help me please

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A female reader, uonlyliveonce United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2006):

uonlyliveonce agony auntyou both sound very young and immature to be honest.

but he's using you for sex and you get absolutly nothing in return. you need to stop seeing him he doesnt care about you at all. x x

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A female reader, llocket21 +, writes (18 August 2006):

Oh my god!! you are seriously being used!! Get rid of him and do it quick, find some one who wants you for you not just your oral sex skills please.

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