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How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 9 March 2012: This slightly comes down to how long you have been together? If you've only been together for less than six months then it's definitely natural to feel slightly annoyed and even more insecure. I'm not entirely sure approachable he will be on it if ... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 8 March 2012: Are you feeling insecure about him liking her or about having sex with him? If it's the first, I wouldn't worry as he's with you and only has eyes for you. As for the second thing. Sex needs be communicated about. You both will enjoy it more wh... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 6 March 2012: That's the problem with so many things in life. You just can't know, but you must trust. It's frustrating that you can't know what's going to happen sometimes but you have hope and trust and that is what must make you believe in him.
He has said... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 6 March 2012: Well there's two ways you can look at it. There's the way of, oh my god I can't believe he didn't tell me that and get really annoyed about it. Or you can be thankful that he is now being totally honest with you which allows you to know what's b... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 6 March 2012: You're very welcome, I'm glad things are working out for you. I wish you all the luck in the future. ... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 5 March 2012: Your welcome, any-time.It definitely shows who he wants in his life then and it certainly isn't her. That happened a long time ago now and he probably didn't have as stronger feelings as he does now for you. It's understandable that you were upset ... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 4 March 2012: At least he has told her at the moment how he feels about her and told her about you. It shows where his priorities are and they are definitely in the right place, you.
A troublesome ex is always going to troublesome. But there isn't a lot you ... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 3 March 2012: I know you want your relationship to be more jokey like their relationship was. But to me it sounds like you two are more intimate which sounds like you are more serious than those two were. Which is obviously a very good thing. I think the lo... (read in full...)
Was it alright to turn him down saying "I'm not interested in relationships"?
Q. Just a quick question, someone who I suspected liked me tried to give me flowers and chocolates today. So all I said was "I'm sorry but I'm not interested in relationships" (which for my own reasons is true). He then tried to make out like it was ...
A. 3 March 2012: If you do have to interact with him quite often then yes it would probably be better if you did just act normal around him. Although you may feel a little awkward around him seeing as you now know how he feels about you.
If the reason you gave for... (read in full...)
I like him but don't want my heart broken. What do I do?
Q. I have a crush on this boy who has been my friend for over 3 years now. I started like him about a year ago, and although it was only a crush at first I think I may be in love now. Even though he maybe just another boy to others to me he is the most ...
A. 3 March 2012: Sometimes to get something in life, you have to put your body or heart on the line. If you don't buy a ticket then you can't win the raffle. The only way you're going to know how he feels or if you can get into a relationship with him is by telling ... (read in full...)
How to become my boyfriend's best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love, and we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. We are extremely close and get on very well. However, I recall him saying that a girl that he used to date last year became his best friend (they stopped ...
A. 3 March 2012: Being in competition with an ex is never a healthy mentality. It would be advisable to not compare yourself to his ex as you are probably very different and are having different relationships.
If they were together for longer than you have bee... (read in full...)
Should I stick with him or let him go and sort my head out?
Q. I don't know what to do.. I think my ex has messed up my head. I can't feel feelings and sometimes they're the opposite feeling I am supposed to have. I've had 3 family members die in 3 months and I've hardly cried and when I told friends they've ...
A. 2 March 2012: Well you've kinda done the right thing with leaving him alone. A lot things are happening in his and your lives and telling him that it's over will have added to it.
It would seem he his the type to grieve alone and for those sort of people y... (read in full...)
Its been so long since I've been involved I'm afraid I'll screw up!
Q. its been so long since i last actually had sex i worry i might mess it up some how and i`ve never had the confidence to talk to girls when i go out and most of the websites where you can meet people are scams what should i do?...
A. 2 March 2012: In terms of sex, what will probably cause you to mess it up is if you think about it too much. During the activity you must concentrate solely on her reactions and act on them. If you're too busy thinking about your own performance, it will cause ... (read in full...)
Do you answer questions honestly even if you think it maybe about YOU or YOUR situation?
Q. Me again...I have an over active mind! Lol! Here goes... Have you ever read a Dear Cupid question and thought either:- A)OMG its about you and your situation? Or ... B)You know the person who asked it? AND...if either...did it affe...
A. 1 March 2012: You're very much welcome. If you have any other queries I'll be more than happy to try and help you. Luckily you don't have any problems which is a good thing. But if you do ever have any, don't hesitate to come to me or anyone else on here. I'll be ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to the guy I'm dating but I do like talking to him. Do I end it?
Q. My lab partner and I recently started seeing each other. After 3 years of being with a person whose emotional and conversational skills could probably be surpassed by a hunk of wood's, the guy seemed like a nice change of pace. We talked quite a ...
A. 1 March 2012: Unfortunately there isn't a way in which you can break it off without hurting him. It is clear that he thinks the world of you and unfortunately you don't feel the same. But you cannot continue this relationship, the longer you keep it going the ... (read in full...)
I met a girl I really like. But by the time I was able to accept being bi, we had both gotten in relationships with guys! What should I do?
Q. I am in a weird situation. I was in a good relationship with a guy before I did a play this summer. While in the play, my boyfriend and I stopped going out and I met this girl that I flirted with nonstop. (I didn't know/accept I was bi until months ...
A. 1 March 2012: This isn't going to be an easy decision but unfortunately you will have to make that call. If you do seriously want to try and have relationship with the other girl. I would advise you talk to her and say that if you were to break up with your ... (read in full...)
How shall I kiss my Boyfriend?
Q. Hi,I've been going out with my boyfriend for a while now and I'm scared about kissing him. The guy I was with before,we ended up clashing teeth a few times,because i have big lips for a mixed race girl,and he had small thin lips. Now with kissi...
A. 1 March 2012: Do not go straight for the tongue. It's extremely forward, especially if you haven't properly kissed him yet. The reason you probably clashed teeth a couple of times is because you both thought about it too much and then acted too quickly.
You n... (read in full...)
He doesn't get upset when I don't want sex, is this normal?
Q. I have been dating this man for four years but we have never had sex,each time we try to do it i always back down i feel am not ready and he understands me,I am worried because he dosent get upset everytime i back down is it normal?...
A. 1 March 2012: As long as he is understanding and not getting it from elsewhere, which I'm sure he isn't, then take it as a compliment. There are far too many guys to interested in rushing girls into sex when they may not be ready.
You should be thankful... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a prostitute!
Q. hi people sorry first for my english grammar. right now im in big emotional problems please the people that don't take that serious or only want two offend me please better dont write nothing. i really dont know how two start im young 27 i had most ...
A. 1 March 2012: Okay, you have a lot of interior problems and possibly some self-confidence/self-worth issues. Your dependency on alcohol and prostitutes is never the way to get over your problems.
I understand that you have had a lot of hardship in your life. I ... (read in full...)
Are we official boyfriend and girlfriend? Or will it only be official when I get back?
Q. hello again! :) so me and my crush got together a week ago. we went out for a drink and then went to the movies. i think he did try to make a move but i was too scared and looked tense. i didn't even give him a kiss goodbye...just said: 'thanks!...
A. 1 March 2012: It was sounding really nice and rosy until you mentioned he's a teacher. I appreciate that you're of legal age and may not be taught by him any more but you must be extremely careful of this situation.
I wouldn't wholly put your heart into it ... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to start sleeping together again! What is he playing at? Does he not care how this will affect the kids?
Q. Is my ex partner trying to play mind games? 2 months ago i broke up with my partner of 8 yrs as he can been verbally and physically abusive towards me. He accused me of giving him children he didnt want and ruining his life, i was also accused of ...
A. 1 March 2012: Maybe when he told you that you gave kids he doesn't want, he was telling the truth. It is an awful thing to say and feel and if he didn't want them in the first place, he shouldn't have done the deed.
But he has now and I'm sure they are beautifu... (read in full...)
Do you answer questions honestly even if you think it maybe about YOU or YOUR situation?
Q. Me again...I have an over active mind! Lol! Here goes... Have you ever read a Dear Cupid question and thought either:- A)OMG its about you and your situation? Or ... B)You know the person who asked it? AND...if either...did it affe...
A. 1 March 2012: I can assure you it will be very much guessing if you believed you know the person. As this is a confidential site, there is no way of knowing for sure you can know who the person is or who they are even talking about.
There can be times where yo... (read in full...)
I've developed a strong hate for gay men because of a failed legal dispute, how do I change this?
Q. Ive been involved in a legal dispute with a major airline the last two years over a discrimination claim. Ive now lost the case and the man I accused of discriminating me is gay. Since the incident (and a few bar happenings), Ive overall developed a ...
A. 1 March 2012: I'm assuming that you yourself are straight? What it seems you have done is blame the man you lost your legal case to because he was gay.
This obviously can't have been the case. But now that you have done it, you tarred all gay men with the same... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so upset about this?
Q. Me and this guy friend (at least i thought he was) were FWB for a while, which ended badly for me. I really did like him and i've never been into the whole FWB thing but i just went along with it. After a while i realised who he really was, which ...
A. 1 March 2012: Were you FWB while he was with his girlfriend? If you were then it's an even clearer sign of how bad he actually his and his motive for getting into bed with you.
You must completely forget about him and try and have a really happy relation... (read in full...)
How can I manage my feelings?
Q. alright, long question here: ok so about a year or so ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone ...
A. 1 March 2012: It's a tough thing to do. But because you feel for her this much you already know that you won't do anything that could spoil the friendship because you still very much want her in your life. Although it doesn't feel like it, she mustn't be the g... (read in full...)
Can you explain how a guy dates many girls at one? Are there any feelings involved?
Q. I guess this is a question for guys. Why do some guys like to date many girls? I just don't understand how and why they do it. How about the feelings? Do you like one girl better than the other one and so forth? or how do you manage this? Do ...
A. 1 March 2012: The simple answer is Mr. Downstairs. Some guys have a lot of male pride which gets boosted by attention. The more attention they get, the better they feel about themselves and the more sex they think they can get. In brutal honesty, guys wh... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so upset about this?
Q. Me and this guy friend (at least i thought he was) were FWB for a while, which ended badly for me. I really did like him and i've never been into the whole FWB thing but i just went along with it. After a while i realised who he really was, which ...
A. 1 March 2012: You should never have agreed to FWB in the first place. It never ends well as at least one of the parties will develop feelings out of it and unfortunately it was you. The idea of FWB is to have meaningless sex and for people like you and many oth... (read in full...)
Should I stick with him or let him go and sort my head out?
Q. I don't know what to do.. I think my ex has messed up my head. I can't feel feelings and sometimes they're the opposite feeling I am supposed to have. I've had 3 family members die in 3 months and I've hardly cried and when I told friends they've ...
A. 1 March 2012: There are many things going on in your life currently and it definitely could get on top of you if you're not careful. As for the grief thing, many people react to grief in different ways. Some can't take it and just breakdown for weeks or months. ... (read in full...)
I feel love for my dad's cousin!
Q. What do i should if I feel love for my dad`s cousin and she is eight years older than me?...
A. 1 March 2012: There's not a lot you should do. I'm not from Ecuador so I don't know how legal it is. But if it's just a crush on her and it's not reciprocated in any way then try to forget about it. It may be a phase because you've been around her a lot recently ... (read in full...)
I'm so shy, I don't think that I will be able to start talking to him and I also have a feeling like he is also too shy.
Q. It a very long story but I'll try to make it as short as I can. There is this guy in my college that I really like. He already knows it because my friend asked him on facebook what he thinks of me and he said he thinks i'm nice but he doesn't know ...
A. 1 March 2012: It does sound like there's a mutual likeness between you and this guy. But you shouldn't throw yourself at him, although I'm not thinking you would. What kind of weird things does he do? That awkward feeling does tend to happen when the two of ... (read in full...)
Do you shave your "part" before you have sex?
Q. I asked my friend if you should shave your "part" before you have sex and she didn't know. So Im asking this site,do men like it unsaved, or shaved? I got a boyfriend and I need some advice here before we get more intense....
A. 1 March 2012: This depends on two things. The first is, are you comfortable with shaving it or are just as content with leaving it as it is. The second is whether your boyfriend would like you to, if he would then he should be willing to shave as well so you ... (read in full...)
I feel like damaged goods because I won't be able to have children and haven't talked with him about it!
Q. well i do love my boyfriend just a few things on my mind and i need some advice. Firstly, christmas time i bought him a ear ring and hes only worn it a handful of times do i ask if he liked it? its niggling at me a bit More importantly on numer...
A. 1 March 2012: I understand that this must be a shock to find out and it's never a nice thing to hear. You are still young so there is plenty of time to think about the child thing. There are other ways that you can have children. You could always try a surrogate ... (read in full...)
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