My friend made an excuse that he couldn't meet me. Was he genuine or is he trying to let me down gently?
Q. About 4 weeks ago, my friend set me up on a blind date with a guy from her work who is 20 years old (i just turned 18). We went out on a 'date' as a group, with my friend, her bf, and another friend of ours and her bf too. It was kind of awkward ...
A. 11 February 2007: Well, my pessimist-senses tell me that he's dropping you gently, while my optimist says that perhaps he's just really busy this week and doesn't want to give you hollow promises when he knows he doesn't have the time.
I'd give him the benefit ... (read in full...)
My teacher is getting too close for comfort! I think he fancies me and it's freaking me out!
Q. Ok well... I am 16, and I am in my last year at school. I will be leaving school this summer. Basically my problem is that I think my teacher and I have some kind of weird relationship that neither of us really understand but it's kind of just ...
A. 10 February 2007: what kind of close relationship are you talking about? i would love to say yes there's nothing wrong w/ ur relationship if u were both going to be chums, but if u feel like there's a possibility for romance then u have to remember that he's ... (read in full...)
Should I send him a rose to tell him how I feel? If so, what colour?
Q. I have just joined a new school and have made friends with a boy but I really fancy him and he knows, him and his other friends that are girls have a really strange relationship where he pokes and touches them in alkinds of places and there is a ...
A. 10 February 2007: What do you mean pokes and touches them in all kinds of places? Sounds like he's trying to cop a feel but disguise it as friendship - just because the other girls are letting him do it, don't let your guard down and let him do it. (I know I might be ... (read in full...)
I can't wear tampons and don't want my new boyfriend to notice I am wearing pads... help!!!
Q. Well i come on my period today and i am out with my new boyfriend sunday night and i don't know what to do as i have tried and tried and tried to wear tampons and just cant seem to get it right! and i dont want to wear a pad so im really stuck! any ...
A. 10 February 2007: As for tampons, TasteofIndia's advice is good. If you're doubly afraid of leakage, you can just wear a panty liner with a tampon.
I noticed wearing fitted (DARK) pants, fitted panties with ultra slim pads made me feel confident. The tight pa... (read in full...)
I want to trust my boyfriend so much, I just don't know how?
Q. I met my boyfriend in my class freshman year of college we have only been together for maybe three months. we hung out and were friends before. I dont know his friends he knows some of my friends and i tell him about them all the time. I try to ...
A. 10 February 2007: Before we tackle your trust/karma issues, I think we need to take a step back and examine your relationship first. I know there's a Cosmopolitan magazine out there that rates how serious your relationship is by his actions towards you ie. ... (read in full...)
My wife has never been interested in sex, even on our wedding night she said she was tired!!!
Q. We've have been married five years and it's all going the opposite way for me. The thing is I can - literally- count the number of times we've made love. according to her the very first night we did she was tired and would rather not have- and that ...
A. 10 February 2007: The key to persuade somebody is to appeal to their senses. Have you been to a sex counselor/therapist? What does your wife like? What kind of lover are you?
What was your courtship like? Was it romantic? What did she like? WHat made her say YES ... (read in full...)
Is he really busy with work or does he not want to be with me any more? I'm so confused.
Q. I have been with the same guy for 9 months and he has a very busy life. I have told him since the beginning that i was fine with how much he works and that we can still have a good relationship even when theres times when we hardly see each other. ...
A. 10 February 2007: Well, if he really is busy at work all the time, it's giong to be hard to sit him down and have a serious discussion about this without him groaning and getting upset.
Ask him if there's a good time/weekend when the both of you can just get away... (read in full...)
We agreed to a break but would stay mates! So why is he so cold whenever he sees me?
Q. my ex and i broke up because we both realise we rushed it, he was confused when telling me that he aint ready, but says he still have feeling for me n that im his ideal, i asked him not to avoid me and he says he won't and that we'll stay mates.. he ...
A. 10 February 2007: I wouldn't get too frantic over it, I've had the same problem before - my boyfriend and I broke up amiably but suddenly he looks at me like I just ran over his dog.
The more I tried to be friends with him, the more he pushed me away. We still ar... (read in full...)
He left me at the party to go talk to his ex...and now he stopped contact with me! What's happening?
Q. Here's my problem: I don't like the way my boyfriend gets on so well with his ex. Example: Last week we were at a mutual friends party, and for the first few hours everything was fine, until my bfs ex decided that she needed to talk to him. The...
A. 10 February 2007: I'm sorry to say, but I think you were the rebound girlfriend. He and his ex are probably still into each other, and you got caught in the middle.
Even if he HAD contacted you recently, how long do you plan on letting him go off with his ex and l... (read in full...)
How do I get over my boyfriend? I got on so well with his family too and find it hard to move on.
Q. hi there... my boyfriend broke up with me nearly three weeks ago and i still cant get over him. He is all i think about and its effecting everything i do. I cant concentrate in school and i have no motivation to do anything socially... I was onl...
A. 10 February 2007: Eve has EVERYTHING down pat, mourn and grieve as you need to but don't dwell on it and don't let your self-esteem or your life wither and die because your relationship with him has ended.
There was this book I read a long time ago, it's a comedi... (read in full...)
Are many women into abstaining from sex till they are married?
Q. Abstaining from sex till marriage advice. I’m a guy, who’s still a virgin at 24 years old. I have always had this idea in my head, that I would like to wait till marriage to have sex. The thing that worries me is, do you think that many women ...
A. 10 February 2007: Well, it's really up to you! Of course ppl are going to say you're missing out, especially since you're a guy. But then again you're also missing out on STDs, VDs and HIV.
Alot of ppl say sex is essential to growing up and being in a relation... (read in full...)
how can I deal with a boyfriend and his negative comments?
Q. how can i deal with a boyfriend and his negative comments? ok i have this boyfriend who is so mean to mean i try to be so nice to him but but then he turns right around and then just say something so mean. i mean like so hurtful and i wanted to ...
A. 10 February 2007: Assuming that he is a mean guy,
Would you let your friends treat you the same way? If your friends say mean things to you without any clear reason or any justification would you stay with them or write them off as ppl you just don't want arou... (read in full...)
He's with her but says he wants to be with me! I am hurting, so what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 17 years now and I have been happy with him up until the last year and and half don't get me wrong I love him, But we spend all our time at his place in his bedroom that's the way it has always been I go every where ...
A. 4 February 2007: Have you talked with your boyfriend about the issues you just brought up? If you DO love him, you should give him a chance to change his spots/habits. Is he such a serious drunk that he should go for counselling?
If you believe that there is... (read in full...)
He said I had got him down as he felt I was always negative and depressed... then he sent flowers to another woman!
Q. Hi Me and My partner of 4 years recently went through a rough patch. He said I had got him down as he felt I was always negative and depressed. Anyway, he started something with another woman (alot younger than me) who flirted with him when he...
A. 4 February 2007: I'm glad to hear that you're independent enough that you'd rather be loved then entangled in a secretive partnership.
As for help? When your partner said you were bringing him down with your negativity and your depression, do you think he was c... (read in full...)
I want to see her as an innocent princess again... but can't get the explicit stuff she told me about her past out of my head!
Q. How can I get over the details my girlfriend has told me about her previous sex life? I've been living with my girlfriend for around 9 months now, there is very strong love and co dependency going on both ways. We have had a rocky relationship to ...
A. 4 February 2007: Country woman has a point, I HAVE been harsher than I intended, and for that, I apologize. ... (read in full...)
Worried now that my 8 year old child might be by another man to who I've thought all along! Should I tell all now?
Q. I was with S for 4 years when we spilt up. I met someone new, T, and after a few months I slept with him. I was taking the contraceptive pill. I slept with him once, I felt really bad after because I still loved my ex and I didn't see him again. ...
A. 4 February 2007: i'd wait for concrete evidence if i were you! Does S know about T? how long have u and S reunited for? why did u and s split up? And why are you guys on and off?
I'm sorry for all the questions, I don't think the truth will utterly destroy ... (read in full...)
My heart and body say "H*** yes" but my God-fearing part is reminding me that I can't...
Q. I am 34 years old and almost 12 years married to a man I thought I could love when he was loving, but he has become manipulative, rude, crass, emotionally abusive to myself to his son and stepson. I basically married him because I was a single mom ...
A. 4 February 2007: Okay, I think you use men and relationships to solve your problems. You're married to this man because you were a single mom. And now that you're facing problems with him and don't know whether you should divorce, you're trying to get it on with ... (read in full...)
I want to see her as an innocent princess again... but can't get the explicit stuff she told me about her past out of my head!
Q. How can I get over the details my girlfriend has told me about her previous sex life? I've been living with my girlfriend for around 9 months now, there is very strong love and co dependency going on both ways. We have had a rocky relationship to ...
A. 4 February 2007: DUDE!!!! We're not characters from a Jane Austen NOVEL! And even THEN Jane Austen HATED the kind of lives women were forced to lead!!
You want to see her as an innocent princess again? You can't unring a bell. All these things happened BEFORE s... (read in full...)
He wants to "eat me out" but I'm scared that I smell bad!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and he wants to finally "eat me out". I also want him too, but I am really scared that my vagina smells to bad. I wash and clean like every other woman, but I don't understand why it does! Please ...
A. 4 February 2007: It's okay, EVERY woman goes through that anxiety! Here's a site that may help answer why to all your anxieties about vaginal odor:
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Sexuality/1015.html
If you are worried about vaginal odor, consult a female... (read in full...)
I dumped her for lying... but when we got back together she put us "on a break"!
Q. On a break or what? Iv been going out with my girlfriend for two years it has been the best relationship both of us have ever had until recently when I found out she had lied to me about something which I didn’t expect from her as I have always be...
A. 4 February 2007: Since I wasn't there when you guys fought, you'll have to think about these questions and answer them yourself:
how big was the lie she told you?
Do you think your reaction was warranted?
Do you think you overreacted?
After you let her... (read in full...)
My mom blew up when I told her the guy I'm seeing has kids!
Q. Hi I need some advice although i feel very stupid having to do this. I'm 24 years old, with a great job, nice car good friends, good education the works. I've never done anything to dissapoint my parents to my knowledge. My mum and dad are...
A. 4 February 2007: I'm afraid this problem needs time, and you need a lot of courage and thick skin. The worst thing that can happen in your conversation with your mom is to antagonize her or make her the enemy. YOu have to really keep your cool.
I went through ... (read in full...)
It hurt that my friend is dating a guy I told her I liked! What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I really fancied this guy at my disco, my best friend knew as well, Anyway, we were kissing And dancing and holding hands But then my best friend started getting too cosy with him, dirty dancing and kissing and now they are...
A. 4 February 2007: I don't blame you for hurting! Your BEST friend dates the guy you like, and that guy is greedy enough to play around with the both of you.
Frankly, neither of them are worth it. He's a player, and she has no respect for your feelings.
IGNORE ... (read in full...)
What was the wet... and could I have gotten pregnant through his boxers and my panties?
Q. ok i hope this questions isn't dumb, but i'm genuinly confused..... the other night i was at my boyfriends house and i had my legs wrapped around his waist and i was kissing his neck and everything (it's his "special spot") anyway i noticed he start...
A. 3 February 2007: There's no harm in asking him if he just orgasmed in his pants, it's a natural part of a sexual relationship. If you think he'll be embarrassed, don't make too much of it and don't joke about it. Just ask a simple question, then that'll clear up ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my lack of sex drive?
Q. I don't feel i have a sex drive. I've seen all sorts and people and thought, oh yeah he's hot but when I'm with someone I care about, I hate hugging them, i hate kissing them, i hate anything and everything. This has been like this my entire l...
A. 3 February 2007: OKay, you can be HONEST here. Did you really like ANY of the people that you've been with? Do you even like the boyfriend that you have now? Do you just like him as a friend? You have to be HONEST with yourself about your feelings for him before you ... (read in full...)
Any tips for phone conversations?
Q. Can anyone tell me how to keep a conversation on the phone?...
A. 3 February 2007: it depends on Why you're on the phone and Who with? Making conversations is basically Being interested in the other person. you have to learn how to be a good listener, you have to participate in the conversation... By all means, DON"T stay on the ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with boys not wanting to date fat girls?
Q. I have never ever had a boyfriend. I say it is because I am fat and ugly, but all my other friends say it is because nobody is interested in my yet. Is there somethng wrong with me? Is there something wrong with boys not wanting to date fat girls?...
A. 3 February 2007: Judging by your post, You are harder on yourself than anybody else. WHY?
My best friend is Fat. She's not ugly, but she's not hella beautiful either. She has a keg for a stomach, she has told me her breasts would probably reach her knees if she d... (read in full...)
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