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Can I work through him falling out of love with his wife and turning our friendship into something more?

Q.   I would like to repost my question to get more feedback. Is this possible? Thanks. How do I deal with him wanting more and 'casual time'? Tagged as: Faded love, Marriage problems, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships Previous ...

A.   14 March 2007: I am in almost the exact situation, except my guy has a child with her. We stopped hanging out together because our relationship was getting intense and he got caught texting me. That was a wake up call for us both. I am staying out of the whole ... (read in full...)

Am I sacrificing far too much for him, without him even noticing or caring? Any Advice?

Q.   I'm really in love with my boyfriend (Ex-boyfriend?) but we argue all the time. Right now, we've broken up, but when this happens before, we get back together within 48 hours. The problem is that he doesn't give me the choice. I mean, I chose to...

A.   9 March 2007: It is not healthy for you to give up your friends and your life to make anyone happy. It is not fair to you or your friends. Do you really want to be a prisoner in your relationship. This man is being selfish and fearful. you can try to talk to him ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a married man and I am sick of living with the lies! Advice appreciated!

Q.   I'm 24 and I've been dating a 36 yr old married man for two years. He has three small kids. I love him so much and I know he loves me, but the more I love him the more it hurts every time he leaves me for the night. I know this is wrong, but I ...

A.   7 March 2007: my goodness love is tricky. a year ago I would have given you a hard time on the loving a married man thing, but it happened to me too. its hard when there are children involved. for me it was a dreamy affair. i found myself confused when i found ... (read in full...)

Is it normal that I mis "her" more than my girlfriend?

Q.   is it normal that i miss 'her' more than my gf, i talk to 'her' more than my gf, i want to have sex with 'her' more than my gf? i think i'm falling in love with her. help!!...

A.   6 March 2007: I think we need more information about your current relationship. She is a girlfriend that you date? The mother of your child? You live with her? From the info I do have I would say; You are not married yet, so you are free to have new feel... (read in full...)

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My guy is going into the military, and he is thinking of marriage. Don't you all think he's rushing it?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. Its the first "real" relationship I've been in. I realy love my boyfriend and he's a great guy, though he lives in Illinois while I live in Ohio. We hardly get to see each other, though we talk ...

A.   5 March 2007: Yes he is rushing it. At least he is honest about his motivation, which is fear. fear is not a good reason to get married. you already know that it is not a good idea and it sounds like it is not what you want. good luck, artlover... (read in full...)

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