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reader, Beerbuzz  +, writes (23 March 2012):
Get him to his doctor.
Sex is too important to a relationship to "just not" have it.
He could have low T or maybe prostrate problems.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (23 March 2012):
 Chances are hes embarrassed to state. Reassure him u want to communicate so u can know whats wrong n possibly help him. Communication is key.
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reader, tonik  +, writes (23 March 2012):
 I think he might be having erection problems and that can be the reason why he is acting like that. I think you should let him know that you will support him no matter what problem he is having. Try to go with him for counselling, but I really do not how you could trick him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 March 2012):
 “i have asked him if it is me and he says no he just says it is him”
You are asking the wrong questions. You have to ask him what the problem is…. Has he been to the doctor and had a medical work up? My dad at about 60 developed LOW-T (testosterone) and a patch fixed him right up….
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (23 March 2012):
 Maybe he has developed erectile dysfunction and he is too embarrassed to tell you. It's quite common in men of his age and not something they are going to naturally feel comfortable talking about but there is lots of medical help available.
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