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Could it be that my wife was not a virgin when we married 6 months ago?

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Question - (24 July 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2010)
A male India age 36-40, *rem kumar writes:

Hi,

My Name is Premkumar.

I have got married six months before. My wife is 19 years old, she is very healthy, according to her age her weight is more. her weight is approx 65 kg. on my first night with my wife while intercourse blood does not falls from her vagina, so i am afraid that my wife is not a virgin and i thought that she had done sex before marriage with someone, i think so but i am not sure.

Please guide me to the reality. It is my request. please help me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

i doubt very much your wife was a virgin. you need to ask her and not take it for granted that she was one.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (26 July 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntThe best way to find out if she is satisfied is to ask her. If she doesn't appear to have an orgasm as you do, then she probably has not had an orgasm.

Are you doing lots and lots and lots of foreplay with stimulation of her clitoris?

I have some links for you to read:

http://www.malehealth.co.uk/node/18960

http://men.webmd.com/features/6-sex-mistakes-men-make

http://men.webmd.com/guide/sex-fact-fiction

Think of her clitoris as akin to your penis. The inside of her vagina is not the same thing as the exterior of your penis. Yes, I know, it's frustrating not to have it as simple as with your anatomy, but women's anatomy isn't all that different. You just have to remember her clitoris is the same as your penis, and treat it gently and with respect. You should be fine then!

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A male reader, prem kumar India +, writes (26 July 2010):

prem kumar is verified as being by the original poster of the question

How can i know that my wife is satisfied when i complete intercourse.

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A male reader, DCNddb United States +, writes (26 July 2010):

Some do, some don't.

What does it matter?

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A male reader, tonik South Africa +, writes (25 July 2010):

tonik agony auntHey man not all women bleed when having sex for the first time, my gf didn't bleed when we had it for the first time, please don't be stereotyped about the nonsense said to women when they don't bleed, if you want to find out what's happening, you better ask her straight.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010):

Only some women bleed their first time, I didn't. From what I hear only about half of women bleed their first time - usually those that have sex for the first time when they are younger (around 16)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010):

I did not bleed either when i lost my virginity

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (24 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntShe could easily have been a virgin, like the other aunts said, not all virgins bleed.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010):

Sometimes women don't bleed when they loose their virginity. I didn't bleed at all when I lost mine. A lot of the bleeding is caused by the hymen being broken for the first time. But the hymen can also break when doing sports.

The only way you can really find out if your wife was a virgin or not when you married, is to ask her.

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