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male
age
36-40,
*onik
writes:Hello everyone, I don't know if Im being paranoid by asking this question. Well, is it wrong for a guy to have slept with only one girl? Because when my friends talk or having conversations, they boast or brag about having sex with four or more different girls. And I just say only one girl and they laugh at me, telling what kind of a man I am. Its just that its very hard for me to cheat to my girlfriend whom I love so much.We're both virgins when we had sex for the first time and it has been really hard for me to sleep with another girl. I can only sleep with another girl if we happen to break up with my girlfriend, am I normal? Because its like I'm weird to my peers.Thank you.
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reader, tonik +, writes (27 June 2012):
tonik is verified as being by the original poster of the question Wow i'm overwhelmed by your responses. I respect and appreciate the time you took to share the love, thank you a lot for your advice. Im glad that Im in the right direction. Love you all.
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reader, mpumie +, writes (27 June 2012):
 I'm from your country and its hard to be a man who knows what he what. You are what women are looking for in a guy. Honestly guys like that are the cause of divorces, hiv aids and std's. You are on the right track, so keep it that way and you will be happy forever." You go boy" cause that's the spirit. GOD will guide an protect. I'm so proud of you an never thought we have such guys in south africa.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 NOT cheating is normal and right.
you sound like a good guy with his act together. your friends sound like players and jerks to be honest.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (27 June 2012):
 No, it's QUITE alright. Stick to your morals and values.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Some guys do tend to exaggerate the number of women they've been with and the things they've done, so take it with a grain of salt. Next time this comes up, you can always brag about how awesome it is to have a girlfriend and have regular sex whenever. They may have had numerous one night stands, but so what? In sheer number of times they've had sex you certainly have them beaten AND both men and women almost always report better sex with a partner than with a hook up. I once had a guy friend tell me that the only reason he bothers with wild sex or hook ups is to brag to his friends but that in reality it pales in comparison to sex with a girlfriend he cares about.
You cannot throw away something wonderful with your girlfriend just to cave to dude pressure, that would be unbelievably cowardly and weak. They're probably jealous of the fact that you have something great.
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reader, Phenom  +, writes (27 June 2012):
Actually having a steady relationship is the manliest you'll ever do. You're making a girl feel good about herself, and not only that, she's the girl, with an emphasis on 'the'.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Yes.... any guy who hasn't had s*x with AT LEAST four (4) girls is sadly deficient in the "nik-nik" department.
He MUST guard/protect that detail of his life, lest women treat him as people behaved towards lepers, in the past!!!
This is a cute question.... but begs for a big, fat NO!!!!!
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 yes your normal and its totally fine what your doing.
Dont listen to your peers; they do whats right for them; and you do whats right for you; its obvious they have different priorities ;)
Goodluck
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