Long distances relationships, can they really work?
Q. So do they really work? I mean think about it. To have a good relationship where you might see each other once a week, or maybe once a month, can it work? Depends on how faithful each of the people are. But if you have two people leading s...
A. 9 December 2008: Thanks, I always like success stories, they brighten my questions.
Frankly I just moved to a new city and Im a bit lonely here. I met someone online, and I like the fact that they are there. But I am having issues thinking about how it can a... (read in full...)
How long is TOO LONG to be lonely?
Q. Yeah like the Question says, how long is too long. Ive been alone for like 4 years now. Ive dated off and on since then and meet a few diffrent women, but nothing seems to stick for me. My first major relationship left me all fouled up and alone, ...
A. 18 March 2008: Yeah thanks again for all the feedback. As for my last relationship, I walked out of that oneand really hadnt looked back much at all. It was probally the smartest desicion I could of made at the time. All I wanted at that time was to really be ... (read in full...)
How long is TOO LONG to be lonely?
Q. Yeah like the Question says, how long is too long. Ive been alone for like 4 years now. Ive dated off and on since then and meet a few diffrent women, but nothing seems to stick for me. My first major relationship left me all fouled up and alone, ...
A. 17 March 2008: Thanks for the Replies. Yeah last night was one of the few nights alone that I feel saddened and distance, from most. I am however part of a few clubs, and do go to the gym. And the uber cool thing, yeah that sounds like me.
But once again th... (read in full...)
How can I approach the guy I like when he is so popular and I am not??
Q. Hi. Theres a boy I really like that ive liked for years. Hes very popular and im so... hmmmm, not. I want to tell him without anyone knowing. I haven't seen him for a while. But i really need to tell him. How could I say it? How could I approach ...
A. 2 March 2008: YOu two are not meant to be together. Stick to your own kind of people. If he's popular and your not, than you should look somewhere else.... (read in full...)
The guy I like is 3 years older and has a girlfriend. I cant just sit back and do nothing, can I?
Q. we were on a school trip and me and my friends met up with these guys, some three years older than us, i really really liked one of them and he was so nice and funny... but he is three years older ad he has a girlfriend i cant just sit back...
A. 1 March 2008: He was looking at you. My god I remember when love was as simple as someone giving you a look. HA, go talk to him on your own accord, and dont worry about the other girl if its ment to be it will. ... (read in full...)
What does his text mean?
Q. i got this text from this boy that i think likes me i donno what it means. "i love you can it be our little secret u dont have a bf right can u come to our beach party fri night i wanna prove it to u love u xxxxx" what does this mean does it mea...
A. 1 March 2008: Yeah all in all he wants to be alone with you. I want to say watch out, but the dude wants sex, Its up to your consent if you want sex too, so on that note te descion is ultamitly yours I dont care.... (read in full...)
What does his text mean?
Q. i got this text from this boy that i think likes me i donno what it means. "i love you can it be our little secret u dont have a bf right can u come to our beach party fri night i wanna prove it to u love u xxxxx" what does this mean does it mea...
A. 28 February 2008: It means that he probally wants to have sex with you.... (read in full...)
How do you convince your partner to give you a blow job without actually asking?
Q. Do most women enjoy giving a blow job or do they do it because their mate pushed them to? How do you convince your mate to do it without you asking and many times giving you the ultimate rejection?...
A. 22 February 2008: Just ask. Its kinda vulgar but it will get it out there... (read in full...)
I would love a FFM 3-some with my boyfriend, he says he will but I don't think he's keen.
Q. I am a 19 year old female with a 21 year old boyfriend. We are in a very solid relationship and talk openly about sex. We have been talking and I brought up one of my fantasies of having a FFM threesome. I am all for it, I just feel the he isn't. ...
A. 22 February 2008: Yeah a threesome will most defientaly ruin a solid relationship. Better off not.... (read in full...)
I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy.
Q. Hi, I never seem to find anyone that meets or is even close enough to what am looking for in a guy. My present boyfriend is unemployed and I feel he isn't making any attempt to get out of his present situation. My ex was opposite, hard w...
A. 22 February 2008: I think that you may be one of those people who has trouble finding the right relationships to be in. All people are diffrent, and finding the perfect person in your own life is a cliche. The key is finding the perfect person for you. No one ... (read in full...)
I've hurt 2 great people... should I try to contact them and try to make it up again and be friends?
Q. I was with this one girl *Jen* for 2.5 years. Things were good when we were away at school, but after moving home the first summer she got back into her old routine and really put me in the backseat. That was a big change for me because of how ...
A. 22 February 2008: Its too late to try and salvage a friendship that has had no contact in over 6 months. Not to be rude but you need to learn to move on. Dwelling on the subject is the worst thing you can do to yourself. People are diffrent in diffrent setting... (read in full...)
I'm torn between two guys that I like. Help!!
Q. I need some help. I'm stuck between two guys I like. One guy is nice and very smart, but only average. I know he likes me. But the other boy is smart and attractive and has a fabulous sense of humor and appreciation of cartoons like I do. The thing ...
A. 22 February 2008: Find someone else. Sounds like its a 3 way that is going nowhere. Guy A likes you, Guy B doesnt like you, you like Guy B, but feel bad for Guy A.... (read in full...)
I have never been able to open up to anyone like I can my friend but don't think I am gay. What can I do??
Q. I am 24 and mormon.......I never have been attracted to women in any way. Over the past couple months I have begun hanging out with this girl who is also mormon. We had been casual friends for about a year but then found out we had tons in commo...
A. 21 February 2008: Its called you found a good friend. They usally end up drinking together.... (read in full...)
How can I make my guy see that it is time for us to break up and move on?
Q. Hi I've just ended my relationship after almost 5 years. We split up early last year and somehow got back together around August time. We didn't live together or anything. During that time apart though my feelings changed and after getting ba...
A. 19 February 2008: Just take the tough approach. Tell him face to face its time to move on. Its been fun, but you need to move on. Its that simple, and he probally wont let you leave right away, but what are you going to do.... (read in full...)
I can't shake the feeling of wanting to split up with him...should I stay or should I go??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and have a 2 year old son but over the past few months have become very unhappy. I don't think i want to be with him anymore; i have told him how i feel and he says he loves me and doesnt want it to end but ...
A. 12 February 2008: Well if your not happy in relationship, than its not worth it for th kid to grow up around unhappy people. DO whatever makes you happy.... (read in full...)
My best friend is driving me crazy by putting me down and hurting me.
Q. I had a bad traumatic relationship that just screwed me up and I've turned into someone that I no longer recognizes. I hit rock bottom and was in deep depression but now I am healing and trying to move on. The thing is while I was 'hiding' my best ...
A. 10 February 2008: I too am recovering from a damaged relationship, and finding out who and what I was is great again. As for you, having someone like that around is not best for you. When you were you before would you have someone tailing you around pretendin... (read in full...)
How do I convince my husband that his best friend is no angel??
Q. My husband nearly had an affair with his best friend. We've been married for a year now.I believe this girl who is a divorcee very smartly and cunningly influence my husband. He used to confide in her and she took advantage of it. She played w...
A. 10 February 2008: Dont even bother. He cheated once and didnt see the error of his ways the first time, what makes you think hes going to change a second time. I never understood why people in relationships give people who cheat on them a second chance. Never m... (read in full...)
Could my big breasts turn my bf off??
Q. Whenever it comes to the bedroom, my boyfriend never touches my boobs like he used to. He used to lick them, and feel me up etc but now, they've grown and he just doesn't seem interested. Just because I have large breasts for my age, could this tur...
A. 10 February 2008: Id tell you what a 16 year old with 36E on a thin frame sounds yummy. You are probably going to run into problems with back pain down the road.... (read in full...)
Should photographers and models mix?
Q. Hi, I'm a photographer and recently got into fashion and nude art photography. I've had models who are very sexy and easy going. I'm wondering if it is right if I have sex with them and how I should figure out if they are into it without the risk...
A. 10 February 2008: Business and Sex dont mix well. You won't be a photographer much longer if you keep having sex with the help. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend addicted to World of Warcraft!!!
Q. hi all, My boyfriend and I have had a pretty good relationship for the last two years, and we both lead independent seperate lives even though we live together (I mean, we each have our own friends/jobs/social lives). He has always been really i...
A. 4 February 2008: Lol, ha ha. The world of war craft is more important than your relationship. Thats a little cazy. It may be his fun, but you are just going to have to except it.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is complaining of pelvic pains after great sex; is it my fault?
Q. The other night my girlfriend and I had just about the perfect sexual encounter, and I'm sorry this is so long, but I just have to tell you about it, before I explain the problem. Also, I need to say that I am on enzyte, a sexual enhancer for ED, ...
A. 4 February 2008: sounds like this poster is selling that enzye stuff... (read in full...)
What did he mean in his text when he said I need someone on my own level?
Q. hi, this is a long one so sorry if it takes time. I recently found an old text on my old sim from my one and only boyfreind of about 4 weeks, we split December last year, (this is not all of the text he sent). I never really read it properly ...
A. 4 February 2008: Yeah your post doesnt make much sense. In one part it reads that you were sleeping around with his friends, and in the other post it says that your still a virgin
Let it go, the guy isnt intrested. Its time to move on. There are more people o... (read in full...)
Why am I so embarrassed to bring a boy home?
Q. hey i just turned 16 ive never dated before but all my friends have boyfriends and take them round their houses all the time i dont know why but i cant admit to either of my parents that i know boys or am interested in boys or anything like th...
A. 4 February 2008: Nothing, you probally know how your parents will act. Just cause you have a mate doesnt mean that you have to do what your friends do with their mates.... (read in full...)
What is the difference?
Q. What is the difference of loving someone and being "in" love?...
A. 4 February 2008: Loving someone is like loving WHat they are. Like ''I love Jerry Sienfeld, hes so funny''
Being in love with someone is like ''I love you,I hope you are hear forever''... (read in full...)
No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?
Q. I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him ...
A. 4 February 2008: Sadly to say, that whatever you guys had, can not happen again. It is a memory thats it. IF it was meant to be it would be. Sounds like this guy doesnt know what to do wt himself.... (read in full...)
I'm feeling lonely but I'm having a hard time moving on.
Q. I broke up with my bf of almost a year back in October. He broke up with me over the phone and it was pretty hurtful. It was right out of the blue. The ngiht before we had been discussing where we were going to go for a weekend away for our 1 ...
A. 31 January 2008: Your just letting out repressed memories now. Its actally a sign that you are getting better. Its probally best to let out how you really feel to someone you know and trust and or a shrink.
Destructive relationships are the worst and most hor... (read in full...)
I'd like to find that special person, but paradoxically... I'm scared, after my last relationship.
Q. This is the third question I've posted. I was in a four year relationship which ended nearly 2 years ago. I'm basically over it...but it's taken me THAT long. I believe I've really grown. The only thing is, I've noticed something really strange ...
A. 31 January 2008: Yeah I can say Im in the same boat. I got out of a horrid relationship a few years ago. It took me tons of time to get out of that relationship. It has left me pretty damaged, but through time I have healed. I have found myself slowly but surely ... (read in full...)
What should I do? I kept my part of the bragin but he never kept his...
Q. I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, he was the best thing in my life i did everything for him. This year our relationshiop I feel is falling apart because what people say about us really hurts our feelings. On the first day of the second term ...
A. 27 January 2008: FIrst of all your what 12? And your going after your newphew? How old is this person that your talking about?
It sounds like there is alotta wrongs going on here. Its best you move on.... (read in full...)
Your points on the happiness spectrum
Q. What were the most happy moments in your life so far? And what were the most unhappy ones? ...
A. 27 January 2008: Happiness is an illusion of the mind. You can manipulate your own thought process to always be a happy person. ... (read in full...)
Life's Great Mysteries
Q. If we are so Smart and Great why there is Pain Hunger and wars on Earth ?AND WHERE IS THE GREAT LOVE THAT WE ALLWAS TALK ABOUT ?THANK YOU...
A. 27 January 2008: This is one of those mysteries to life.
Unfortantly not all people are good people, which leads to wars, hunger, and depression... (read in full...)
Love as a friend?
Q. Who ever sed guys were simple was soooo wrong. On messenger he says he loves me, then after says as a friend. What is up with that??? Are guys just afraid to show their true feelings???...
A. 27 January 2008: Sorry to say, that when a dude says I love you as a friend, its just like when a girl goes ''I love you like a brother''... (read in full...)
Confusion regarding anal sex
Q. dose anal sex hurt? i kno people that say it dose! and that say it dosent? i wanna try it but in scared.... someone help plz...
A. 27 January 2008: I had this one girl, I would get to orgasim when I gave her anal sex. She loved it.... (read in full...)
Arranged marriage ruining my life
Q. i am very sad crying all the tears in my body, didnt realise i could cry that much.. they just keep flooding my cheeks.. i am in love with my boyfriend, in 6months i am leaving him and going back to my own country to get married, arranged...
A. 27 January 2008: You do know that(assuming you have a visa in america) that if youi marry your boyfriend in america you dont need a visa to stay in the country.... (read in full...)
My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcohole and sex. How can I help him?
Q. My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcahole, and sex. I;m verry worried about him. I love him like a brother and he used to be a good kid. I want to interfere but I don't know how to without ruining our freindship. Please someone help ...
A. 27 January 2008: Yeah this is one of those things in life youu cant stop. If your friend is using drugs, its his problem. He will most likly end up using drugs the rest of his life.
Sad to say its best to let him go as a friend, and take this oppurtun... (read in full...)
When we are close, my teacher gets physically hesitant and somewhat nervous. Is it a sign he likes me?
Q. I go to a private coed boarding school. Teachers and students are encouraged to become close, and we will often visit each other at each other's homes to say hi and whatnot. I'm close with a lot of my teachers, but I find myself attracted to one...
A. 27 January 2008: It's possible. I would be going over a students house. You sound more like a good friend of the teacher more than anything else. If you really are a bright person, well then that's why you can get away with stuff normal people can't. Myself b... (read in full...)
He asks for the girl's number but does not call in the following week. What strategy is this?
Q. if a guy asks u for ur phone number and you give it to him but he doesn't call you in over a week is there something wrong?...
A. 27 January 2008: Yeah doesnt mean anything really. I do it all the time. Although most woman take it as something else more than it really it is.
For the most part it just means Im patient, and I want to see how patient the other one is.... (read in full...)
Have been engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. Would a relationship between us be legal/moral?
Q. OK, here is my situation…I am a college student, with a loving family. Recently I have found myself engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. He is not married, and we have so much in common, we started out as close ...
A. 27 January 2008: Its not right and would cause issues with-in the family... (read in full...)
Found inappropriate conversations between them on the computer...I'm afraid my husband is cheating on me!
Q. My husband and I have been married for nearly a year now and so far everything has been great between us. I've never thought him to be one to do things behind my back or anything like that. But throughout our entire relationship, even before we were ...
A. 26 January 2008: It would be very niave of you if you listen what he consitiantly says to you.
Its obvoiusly a lie.... (read in full...)
My newly sober husband and a clueless boyfriend! Help!
Q. I'm at a crossroad here..My situation is tearing my heart apart and I need some advice from anyone who is willing to read this. Well I've been married for 3 years and my husband suffered a major car accident 7 years ago (before we met)ever since ...
A. 26 January 2008: Hmmm. What you want to do is best for you. Leave the drugged out husband is probally best. He has addiction issues, and thats his problem. You can't let him drag you down.
Move on with your life. He wont cause he uses drugs, and probally will... (read in full...)
I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?
Q. Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...
A. 26 January 2008: Yes for real. She is just using you for what sounds like being both parents in one. You dont need to have her in your life either. The children will know the reason that you guys are still together are for the kids. That is a horrible excuse for ... (read in full...)
No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?
Q. I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him ...
A. 26 December 2007: Its probally a message to let you know that he still cares for you as a friend. Nothing more.... (read in full...)
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