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writes:I need some help. I'm stuck between two guys I like. One guy is nice and very smart, but only average. I know he likes me. But the other boy is smart and attractive and has a fabulous sense of humor and appreciation of cartoons like I do. The thing is, I don't think he likes me. Now I feel bad for the one guy that does like me, because I don't really think I want to go out with him. What should I do? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (23 February 2008):
 The guy that likes you will treat you better. Thats the guy you want. So what if the other guy likes power-puff girls and looks good....he doesnt like you.
What you probably should do is sleep with the cute guy and marry the average guy. The average guy is the better investment because as you say, he is VERY smart, not just smart. The cute guy will just look at you as a one night stand and he will probably rock your world, but leave you to the curb. Cute guy will be good in bed. Average guy will buy you a diamond ring and a house.
Of you could just marry average guy, and still keep cute guy as an affair. Best of both worlds. Well, then do just that..keep em both!
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reader, jace_mr.muffles  +, writes (23 February 2008):
i think you should ask the guy who you think doesnt like you if he say yes then i think you should pick him since you guys have a lot in common and say no to the guy who likes you dont keep he's hopes uptoo long cuz he'll crash and it would be really painful if he's hoping for too long and you said no if the guy doesnt like you then i think you should pick the guy who likes u since you already know he adores and cherries you alot
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reader, jabey  +, writes (22 February 2008):
the one you like, why dont you think he likes you/ can you be sure ? Dont lead on the one you dont like make it clear you are not interested, then somehow find out that the one you like is really not interested, if he really is not then yes time to get back to the drawing board, new blood will be needed.
Who knows maybe he does like you xxx
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reader, Somethingeasy +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Find someone else. Sounds like its a 3 way that is going nowhere. Guy A likes you, Guy B doesnt like you, you like Guy B, but feel bad for Guy A.
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