Is having lasting pain from losing my virginity normal?
Q. Me and a guy i know were messing around earlier yesterday and ending up "doing things". I was a virgin until he put his penis inside me. I told him to stop so he did but then he put it back in and we had sex but it was only about a minute ...
A. 12 September 2010: the pain is probably from him hitting your cervix because youwerent aroused. when you are aroused your uterus will move out of the way (i know wierd eh) but because you werent he hit your cervix. wether your a virgin or not when this happens ... (read in full...)
How do I make it the least painful for her?
Q. ok, so me and my girlfriend have been going out since may, and we've always had this problem where we want to wait till her birthday before we sleep together, but no matter how hard we try, we always end up in a possition were if we didnt stop the...
A. 12 September 2010: its going to be messy and smelly because shes on her perod which would be a turnoff to any guy. since its her first time normally you would have to get her really wet because it hurts your first time but i dont see how your going to accomplish this ... (read in full...)
If I don't have sex with him soon will he leave me?
Q. Dearcupid i have been with this guy for a year and couple of months,he now want to have sex with me and iam confused.my mind want to leave him but my heart still loves him,i love him so much,he always tells me that he loves me but it is hard to ...
A. 12 September 2010: i agree with ray attack the if he loves you hell wait only goes soo far especially if hes already sexually active, a year is a long time to wait i would think that that means he loves you enough to deprive himself of something so pleaserable for ... (read in full...)
19 Nearly 20 and still a virgin
Q. Im going to be 20 in 6 months or so and im still a virgin. And the thought of it (and still being a virgin at 19 for that matter) is absolutely killing me. I hate myself so much and i cant stop with feeling negative, even though i know thats just ...
A. 12 September 2010: i think its really awsome your still a virgin and if you do meet a girl she will be very pleased to find that out. in regards to losing your virginity if all your looking for is a one night stand use a dating or chat site to find local girls thats ... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period for almost a year
Q. hey i'm a 14 year old virgin and it has been 2 years since i had my first period. The last time i remember having it was in october or november or 2009. i don't have any money or health insurance to go see a gyneacologist but i wonder if my symptons ...
A. 12 September 2010: hey i live in canada which has free health care. the first time i got my period i was 15 and long overdue it was regular or semi regular anyways until i was 17 at which point it just stopped. i waited about 3 months before i took a pregnancy test ... (read in full...)
Girlfriends first relationship, Not sure if I'm the one.
Q. This is about my girlfriend thinking of cheating on me. Now it sounds strange but hear me out. We have been dating for a while and I realize that she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. I know this because from past ...
A. 12 September 2010: i have been in the exact same situation before my boyfriend and i were together for just over 2 years when he broke up with me. he was a virgin and i wasnt while we were seporated he got with two other girls and 9 months passed we got back together ... (read in full...)
I want my past lover my husband cannot fulfill my needs
Q. HELP!!! I am a 38 yr old wife for 13 years and mother of 4. I have a good guy for a husband that loves me to death. We have had several sex issues and I have had several affairs. We are now on a good path for working our marriage out, but we are ...
A. 12 September 2010: i can see that you have tried a lot but have you tried masterbating during sex or using a vibrator at the same time hes penatrating you both are very effective... (read in full...)
The sex is great but that's not all I want
Q. hi again i have a question about bondage sex the thing is my boyfriend loves to tie me up and stuff and i love it as well but sometimes i am scared that this is what he wants from me and nothing else hes loveing kind and since moveing out here as ...
A. 12 September 2010: it sounds like he needs to have power and control thats why he ties you up and treats you like a slave. part of it could have to do with his guilty concience too as hes cheated before he believes your cabable as well and he needs to make sure you ... (read in full...)
Does this sound like a friction burn?
Q. Can someone help me i have a sore penis the side and under the head is red and sore. I had unprotected sex with my gf. In the middle I of the session I could keep her stubble rub against my penis it kind of hurt but I didnt think anything of it at ...
A. 12 September 2010: it definetaly sounds like friction burn to me i would suggest to her to keep it smooth or let it grow and explain to her what happened so it doesnt happen again cuz that does sound really painful... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm EVER! help!
Q. I just turned 40 this year and have never had an orgasim. Nope, not a virgin and have had two children but I don't want to go on without having ever had had one. Please help! ...
A. 12 September 2010: i would suggest to your partner that you want to make things more interesting. i had the same problem until my boyfriend and i started experimenting more with touching and not just sex. if he masterbates you at the same hes penatrating you its very ... (read in full...)
My sex drive is a lot higher than my husband's
Q. I am 28 year old women. I have been married for 5 years and my sex drive is A LOT higher than my husbands. I think about sex all day everyday. I stay so horny that my lower stomach cramps because i want to have sex with my husband so bad. I could ...
A. 12 September 2010: if your not satisfied by your partner i would suggest otner alternatives to spice things up a bit. my boyfriend of 4 years now and i use toys. at first he was really insecure and didnt like me even owning them until he found out how much fun using ... (read in full...)
Just had unprotected sex, and got my period today. Could I still get pregnant?
Q. Ok, well this is a common teen sex question but im looking for an answer but i dont see any that fit my question so here it is. plus a little 2 it. My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex last night, and he used the pull out method. ( i hadn...
A. 12 September 2010: i dont know wether this is an actual fact but i have had my period brought on by rough sex on more than one occasion or its just coincidence idk. as for you getting preganant no you cant be see what your period is is an unfertile egg and your sack ... (read in full...)
It irks me that I have to initiate sex now!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am way too horny. I shouldn't be this way. I don't orgasm and I only started having sex three months ago. But every time I see my boyfriend, I want him. Tonight we went fishing, he dropped me home and I groped and kissed him like mad ...
A. 12 September 2010: being lusty isnt the problem its finding a place where you can be together, as for you not being satisfied i find using toys is great even though i have a boyfriend and we have a healthy sexual relationship he also uses the toys on me and enjoys ... (read in full...)
He can't take my virginity until he breaks up with his girlfriend!
Q. Me and this boy ive known for years likes eachother problem is that he has a girl,see im a virgin and i wana lose my virginty to him. i really like him. we have fun and everything. i told him he cant take it til he breaks up with her but its ...
A. 12 September 2010: yos is right you may want to lose your virginity but its not something you can ever get back once its done it cant be undone. also i deff would not go for the guy with a gf wether he leaves her or not hes not going to be faithful to you if hes nor ... (read in full...)
Is it true that a guy won't ever turn down sex?
Q. Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. we r very happy together. i have a problem though, i have been influenced by people so much in the past that you cannot trust any man ever. an i have been told this so many times that i dont t...
A. 12 September 2010: no it is def not true ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and i trust him completely he has actually told me of a time he turned down sex from a hot chick while he was with me. i conronted her because she was supposed to be my friend and she ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend lasts for hours in bed!
Q. I love my boyfriend loads, but there is one problem, he lasts ages in bed. Anything up to 2 hours! The sex itself should be great; we vary positions and really do enjoy ourselves. Its not like I just lie there or anything :P But, I'm no athelete!...
A. 12 September 2010: because he was a virgin im guessing he masterbated a lot this affects a guys sex life. guys who masterbate a lot last longer because masterbation allows them to go really fast. hes too used to superspeed thats why he likes it hard and fast because ... (read in full...)
Will she be satisfied with my size after having a baby?
Q. Hey everybody, thnx for spendin some time to read my question, i ve been with my girlfriend for ages and our sex life seems to be great. im average size around 6 inches , and so far im really satisfied with my size and so is my partner since sh...
A. 12 September 2010: yes you do stretch when your having a baby but it goes back to normal size afterwards dont be put out if she doesnt want to have sex for a while it can take up to a year sometimes before she feels ready again mentally and emotionally.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is misinformed about birth control!
Q. I am having a slight problem right now. My boyfriend is a little bit miss informed about how easy it is to get pregnant. I am on birth control, soo because of this he thinks we don;t need to use condom's since we both know there's no STD's or ...
A. 12 September 2010: i would pick up a pamphlet or find a site with questions and awnsers and stories of people getting pregnat it happens all the time. my uncle has 5 kids and 4 out of 5 were concieved while my aunt(s) were on birth control... (read in full...)
Love hate relationship, we fight all day then go to bed loving each other?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 years off and on we live together n we have love hate relationship we fight all day about who does more, leaving messes, people comming over, dishes, money, and groceries. he also thinks that i pick on him ...
A. 12 September 2010: i dint know where you guys live but ive never heard of testing before for any job where i live. ... (read in full...)
How much bigger than average is my vagina? serious help please!
Q. My husband says I have a large vagina. There are humongous jealousy issues on his end that threaten to end our marriage, because of this. (But, despite what he thinks, I've never been with another man - actually ever - he's the only one I've been ...
A. 11 September 2010: i want you to think how long you two have been married and how often you have sex. everytime you have sex your vaginas size is effected thats why hes accusing you because girls who have a lot of sex experience the effects quicker. there is two ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble having an orgasm!
Q. Okay I really need some help with this because quite frankly its driving me nuts :( i have been having sex for a good number of years, and never really bothered much to consider my own pleasure. Sex has always been pretty standard for me, have had ...
A. 11 September 2010: i did have a similar problem with my boyfriend and our solution was a vibrator when i feel that intense feeling i tell him im about to orgasm and he starts using the vibrator as a dildo if he does it right i will orgasm almost immediately but ... (read in full...)
Love hate relationship, we fight all day then go to bed loving each other?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 years off and on we live together n we have love hate relationship we fight all day about who does more, leaving messes, people comming over, dishes, money, and groceries. he also thinks that i pick on him ...
A. 11 September 2010: thank you all of you your advice is helpfull but no matter wether he steps up or not i know i cant leave him but i have givin him that ultimatum before he tried for a while then slowly started to give up thats what he always does then i try to get ... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 11 September 2010: thnx for all your input guys but i wont leave him not yet anyways its been 4 years already and aside from a few problems he is the guy for me i guess i just have to take the bad with the good even though the bad often outweighs the good hes already ... (read in full...)
He said he didn't love me and I was just a "sex thing"
Q. i have a big promblem ive been seeing a guy im in love with he's been treating me me very very poorly he used me for sex he wanted his friends to make out with me. ive told him lately that i love him he said he doesnt love me and he doesnt have ...
A. 9 September 2010: honestly your better off without him he treated you bady and crushed you in the process ... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: miamine thanks for the advice you seem to really know whats been going on except the part about about him having to support his family or buying nice things all the money he makes goes to himself all he sells is pot nothing else n whatever he makes ... (read in full...)
I wanna have fun and see my friends and my girlfriend.
Q. Hi everyone, I'm a girl and I'm dating my first girlfriend. She lives one hour away by train but I really love her. I didn't come out,my mom thinks i'm with a boy right now. This is one of my problems actually. I'm 17 and my mom says i'm not mat...
A. 9 September 2010: i used to have a similar problem with my dad when i was 14 he wouldnt let me go anywhere or do anything so i started going against his rules we fought a lot and i just kept rebelling it got to the point where i was constantly grounded and he would ... (read in full...)
Could they really be "just friends"?
Q. i have been married one year and we just had twins 3 months ago my husband has a woman friend that i dislike so much. one time my husband get a phone call from her and they were on the phone for hours.but my question to you guys is that any time i ...
A. 9 September 2010: of course they could just be friends if they were cheating i would think he would seem more guilty about it and try to hidde her better but him being abusive in any way is not a good sgn no matter wether hes cheating or not thats not right and what ... (read in full...)
How should I get this guy to see me in a romantic way?
Q. Ok, so first I want to begin with saying that I'm in high school and though I haven't had a BF yet, I have been seriously emotionally hurt by a guy I cared deeply about and have since had a series of "guys who screw me over." Anyways, there's ...
A. 9 September 2010: part of it could be the way you act you might be sending out the wrong signals you never know maybe he is attracted to you try changing your body language to portray how you feel about him and see if he seems interested... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: option 2 is whats been happening for about a year now were only 20 n have both agreed having a kid is not in the picture until were 26 or older and married that will be our ten year mark but i understand completely what your saying and ive thought ... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 9 September 2010: caring guy i apreciate that your trying to help but i cant believe any of those things i guess maybe i want to be blind to it. i know he would never spike my drinks like i said he wouldnt and hasnt ever done anything to intentionally hurt me. but i ... (read in full...)
It takes him soooo long to climax! Does he not fancy me any more?
Q. Hi, I've been seeing a this guy for a few months now and about 5 weeks ago we starting having sex. The first time we had sex it was great - he is very confident and totally unselfish in bed. The first night we had sex a few times with no problems...
A. 8 September 2010: thats why they make viagra it just happens when you get older it has nothing to do with you also i notice if guys wack off too much it effects how they climax he can move his hand faster than you can move your body also if hes masterbated that day ... (read in full...)
don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...
A. 8 September 2010: i agree with all you guys ive had these thoughts myself but aside from him being a dealer n us arguing hes never hurt me intentionally never raised a hand and he doesnt put me down hes also 100% faithful i just dont know how to overcome all our ... (read in full...)
Trying to look older
Q. How to make myself look older? I'm 19 and I guess I look my age or less. I probably look 20 or 21 if I wear make up or maybe even my age some people say. However, I would like to look older maybe 23 or something. My boyfriend is 34 and its weird...
A. 8 September 2010: i agree with the clothes idea that can really change your age when i was 16 i dressed up as my aunt for a high school event and people thought i was 30 or more although the proffessional look might not be right just dont wear tanks or flashy shirts ... (read in full...)
How do I get the girl back and make my ex know its done?
Q. ok this is confusing but plz help.. so me and my ex where trying to work things out and after all the cheating she did and lies she did i dont want her back but its so hard to let her go when i say its over and she starts crying and begging and ...
A. 8 September 2010: you need to tell her its over shes holding you down and you will never be able to have a life until shes gone she will make sure of it. about the other girl i would buy really expensive flowers not red roses though thats comming on a bit too strong ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and he's very controlling!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i'm about 9 months pregnant with our daughter. He doesn't trust me at all, although I have done nothing for him not to trust me. I have not had a very good past because I partied too much ...
A. 8 September 2010: wat hes doing is not right hes mentally and emotionally abusing you to control you and now hes made sure you have no one to help you he felt threatened by your family so now he wont let you see them. it will only get worse once his child is born and ... (read in full...)
Should I start things up with him again or leave it and move on?
Q. I have a bit of a problem and I would like your advice. When I was in high school, I had a crush with a guy that I was in the same class with. I confronted him about this and he did not show interest in me. At tht time I was 13 yrs and he was 14. ...
A. 8 September 2010: i agree if he truly loved you he wouldnt be able to wait till he got to talk to you again and he would find a way to do it no matter how good/bad his finances were.... (read in full...)
I have a strong feeling he's lying but I didn't tell him that...
Q. me and my bf are in a relaition ship of 7 months, i'm christian and he's muslim, he always calls me stupid, he says that all his friends tell him that i'm ugly and he deserves better, he controls what i should say and do. he hate all my friends and ...
A. 8 September 2010: you should leave him dont be scared thats what he wants he might even threaten harm to himself if you but please understand that he is mentally and emotionally abusing you it is not a good relationship and you will be the one whose battered and ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend if we can have sex?
Q. I am only 20, yet I've not had sex with my girlfriend before. I want to but I need to know how to say it in order not to be turned down. How do I go about this? I need help....
A. 8 September 2010: if shes not a virgin and you crea a romantic setting you shouldnt have to ask youll either get lucky or not but you can at least make an effort... (read in full...)
Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?
Q. I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a ...
A. 7 September 2010: your right not to trust him it sounds like he wants to keep you as his girl but theres no way hes not cheating on you or was about to cheat on you the most famous thing for guys is to blame it on the girl and promis better things hes guilty of ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is drinking everyday and I am lost here..what can I do?
Q. my boyfriend drinks every day first thing he does is has a beer when he wakes up....just there this evening he vomited for no reason he says it his nose being blocked up making him sick which i don't believe...i have a 2 year old son who dotes on ...
A. 7 September 2010: no its not a good relationship and i know your worried about breaking the bond between your son but this is a bond that has to be broken unless you want your son to think being an alcholic is okay hes still young enough that he wont remember who ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends sister depends on him so much its causing problems in our relationship
Q. What can I do about this problem with my boyfriend? My boyfriend's sister is 22. She doesn't drive and relies 99% on him to get her places, take her to work, out with her friends, here there and everywhere. The one night I stayed over she texted him ...
A. 6 September 2010: if youve never said anything i would dont keep it bottled up inside but be nice, also consider maybe his sister doesnt like you. the front seat shows a position of power to her thats why she efuses to sit in the back shes showing you that hes HER ... (read in full...)
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