My boyfriends sister depends on him so much its causing problems in our relationship
Q. What can I do about this problem with my boyfriend? My boyfriend's sister is 22. She doesn't drive and relies 99% on him to get her places, take her to work, out with her friends, here there and everywhere. The one night I stayed over she texted him ...
A. 6 September 2010: if youve never said anything i would dont keep it bottled up inside but be nice, also consider maybe his sister doesnt like you. the front seat shows a position of power to her thats why she efuses to sit in the back shes showing you that hes HER ... (read in full...)
He won't let me say sorry...
Q. So I have problem and no one really seems to understands my situation.... So over the summer I got into a fight with someone special to me. My whole summer has been stress and painful, many things have happened including getting into a lot of fights ...
A. 6 September 2010: i would do something drammatic to show how much you care about him n if that doesnt work whenever you bump into him get his attention even for two min it will be a constant reminder and let him know you still want him as a friend... (read in full...)
What is it is he trying to say?
Q. I am 18 years old. I babysit and tutor arounnd the neighbourhood. There's this one family that I usually babysit. I would usually take care of their five year old daughter and tutor their 15 year old son. After some time, I got to know them better ...
A. 6 September 2010: he is into you that much is certain. Maybe it is the age diference or the long distance thing but neither one of those seem to make sense cuz why would he kiss you if that were the case its more likely that he doesnt want his parents to find out he ... (read in full...)
Was breaking up the biggest mistake of my life?
Q. Dear Cupid, I had been in a relationship (on and off) now for 6 yrs until 2days ago. The relationship started off well although I had just gotten out of the longest relationship of my life at the time so explained that I wouldn't be able to get t...
A. 6 September 2010: it sounds like you two are very close n in fact are meant to be each others companions nothing more of course youre going to miss after her being such a big part of your life 6 years but that doesnt maen you should be together as a couple my advice ... (read in full...)
Evidence that he's looked at escort sites and had a Craiglist ad
Q. Hi everyone. Have been reading the site because I'm just so lost right now. I ended things with my boyfriend of 10 months earlier this week. There have been some trust issues in the past which I guess is what led up to this. This past Tues...
A. 5 September 2010: you have a very level head and are completely right one of the main causes in mental abuse is guilt because of unfaithfullness wat hes doing is a classic example of that you are very smart most women believe their boyfriends and doubt themselves had ... (read in full...)
I plan to tell my b/f about my drunken indescretion
Q. So a couple nights ago I had way too much to drink and I made out with a guy. He seemed gay to me...he was wearing blue eyeshadow and was grinding with other dudes, but he claimed to like girls. I have no idea what came over me, I wasn't even ...
A. 5 September 2010: dont blame it on the boose n stress the part that you thought he was gay n nothing else happened even tell him thaat he kissed you n you just reacted but you came to n stopped him i say this cuz the exact same thing happened to me were still 2gether ... (read in full...)
He just can't stay off the social networking sites!!!
Q. I am a female who never had any trust issues before. Now i am in a relationship with a man who a week after we had sex sent a female an invite on a site telling her she is the kind of woman he is looking for and sent her his phone number and emai...
A. 5 September 2010: wow i am srry o tell you this but theres just too many red flaggs i would get solid proof to use against him then leave him dont let him tell you if you love him you would trust him n you shouldnt have done it YOU HAVE ALL RIGHTS he is just using ... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy deserves me?
Q. Hello guys, I am dating a guy who's at university and I am still in high school. We have been in this relationship gor about 1 year now. I am a virgin and he's not. The thing is that I don't think he deserves me because if we have sex I'll be ...
A. 5 September 2010: i think you should think about how often he asks you for sex the fact that its been a year thats a real commitment he obviously loves you but if you do decide tell him you want it to be special n for him to take his time planning the setting and ... (read in full...)
How can I stop him becoming too overprotective?
Q. hello everyone! I've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with a wonderful person, but unfortunately quite recently hes been too overprotective and really insecure. An example would be for example: if i moved out of my seat in a restaura...
A. 5 September 2010: i can help you on the fight9ng cuz i go through this everday BEFORE it gets turned into any go up n give him a hug n a big smile n say i love you. Im going to go sit in the room for a couple minutes for some alone time then come out when your ready ... (read in full...)
Wife/ girlfriend sharing. Experiences, thoughts, where does the idea stem from, is the after experience worth it
Q. Guten tag! I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years. She's an open minded person, and we love each other very deeply. From time to time we discuss our fantasies, and hers tend to be very genital, which is surprising to me. For e...
A. 5 September 2010: my advice is not to do it it will ruin your relationship you might think your okay with it but youll never be able to get the images out of your head or the thought that she enjoyed him more ive been through this personally... (read in full...)
Am I being mean?
Q. Thanks in advance for alll help. So we do everything as we married, thats a plan for down the pike. However in the last three months My Granny, and Step Grandad and my boyfriends Dad past away. So were both under all the stress. I have looked at...
A. 5 September 2010: i see your point loud and clear and it makes sense but you also need to have compassion shes going to cling to her son now more than ever cuz she needs him n obviously he loves her too much he cant say no you might have to talk to her directly... (read in full...)
Please help, I cheated on my wife with a prostitute
Q. I've been married for a year and a half, I cheated on my wife with a prostitute and got caught. I love my wife and was seeing the prostitute just because I was so damn horny and wanted to do things with the prostitute that my wife doesn't do. Since ...
A. 5 September 2010: i agree with aunty bim bim 100 percent ifshe loved you whihch im sure she i cant even imagine how shes living right now i dont think i wold be able to if my bf ever did that to me not to mention my self esteem would be shattered n i would probably ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I let him know that I care so that he will understand?
Q. My boyfriend has brought up some complaints a few times over the course of our relationship, and though I feel like I have been making an effort, he still complains about the same things. (I think it is justified, however). I am not demonstrativ...
A. 5 September 2010: he cant expect you to change all of who you are for him but i would suggest writting him a letter n include everything you just said especially how much you love him n you havent ever loved anyone else wats happening is cuz your so suttle n scared ... (read in full...)
Are they too close?
Q. My girlfriend has a brother (14) and he is totally obsessed with her. He lives in a group home as her parents are alcoholics/drug addicts but she sees him every weekend. He acts really weird around her, he follows anything she says slavishly and he ...
A. 5 September 2010: considering that thir parents are achoholics it makes perfect sence shes his mother the one who always loved him n gave him everything he needed n now is the timme he really needs her my bro n are have actually been accused of being insest cuz of ... (read in full...)
I don't feel the same any more... terrified to leave her in case she hurts herself.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, and suddenly I don't feel the same anymore. I don't love her in that way any more, but she absolutely adores me. I'm the only decent thing in her life, she made suicide attempts in the past, an...
A. 5 September 2010: i completely agree with kirra07 but i also know that proffessional care is supposed to be scary its not i used to be suicidal n i got help i still have the odd thought but its immediately followed by me think why? if she cut her wrists as a form of ... (read in full...)
Was this a date?
Q. So I'm not sure if I've just been on a date or not, and I really like this guy and need some advice, please:) First ?date after 9 months of being single, after splitting with ex-bf of 8 years after he cheated on me. Guy at work who's been texti...
A. 5 September 2010: sounds like hes interest unless hes just goes around kissing everyone i know it was only on the cheek but maybe he was too nervous to try anything else as for monday agh unless its monday nite at least n its less then 4 days away that means he ... (read in full...)
I can't get her to text me back!!!
Q. I don't understand what's going on. I can't get this girl that I really like to text me back. This time last week I was asked her out but she couldn't because of previously planned family matters, but she made me promise to take her out when she was ...
A. 5 September 2010: all i can tell you is that some girls are evil ive actually done that b4 i didnt want to hurt the guys feeling but then he started msg me 5 times a day n i decided he needed to much attetion n ignored him then i ran into him n said my cell was dont ... (read in full...)
I really want to be with someone again, someone to care for and who will care about me.
Q. I'm a little bit of a confused soul at the moment so I hope someone can help me out. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years over a year ago. He was cheating and I now find that I have trust issues in all areas of my life, where there weren't any ...
A. 5 September 2010: i wold suggest go out more to bars n clubs and not neccasaril drink but just relax n see wat happens theres also lots of facebook love connecters and in some cases they do work my friend dawn met a guy threw there 2 yrs ago n theyre stll happily ... (read in full...)
Do masturbations make men cum faster than the sexual intercourse?
Q. Do masturbations make men cum faster than the sexual intercourse? How long can men last for each type ( approximately) I have not idea about this problem. So pls help out. ...
A. 5 September 2010: i think its probably about the same my bf does it everday n he takes about 1/2 hrs its same for sex for us most days but at night sometime a couple hrs i noticed you didnt really specify the problem though... (read in full...)
It's like he wants me then he doesn't!
Q. So heres the deal, I have been hanging out with this guy for a little over a month. When we met we were both instantly attracted. Then of course I face booked him and I saw that he was in a relationship. I called him right up and asked him about ...
A. 5 September 2010: im srry to say this but it sounds like hes a player n hes trying to hide you but dont take my word on that wat i would do is next time you meet someone new with him say hi im... his girlfriend and watch how he reacts carefully if he seems scared at ... (read in full...)
After our breakup he wants to remain bestfriends...but I'm scared I won't be able to handle any new girlfriends of his...
Q. i want my ex to be happy. my ex wants to be my bestfriend still which i think is great because most guys will just cut you out of their lives when they dump you. i'm still in love with him though and i know eventually he'll date a girl.when he dates ...
A. 4 September 2010: if you do love him then i would suggsr staying away for a month or so ive had the same problem n i just stayed away gave myself time to start getting over him then it wasnt soo bad but i still had feelings for hhm just not as strong beforre i left i ... (read in full...)
I think about cheating... a lot
Q. I'm in my first relationship. This is my boyfriend's second serious relationship and he's hooked up with a few girls. He says he loves me more than anything and wants to marry me. I do love him but I don't know if I love him as much as he lo...
A. 4 September 2010: if you cheat on him it will ruin him your better off breaking up with him n waiting at least 3 months so you dont hgrt his pride then be with someone else maybe after youve had other experiences you might decide that you do love n want to be with ... (read in full...)
A guy attracted to his 2 guy cousins!
Q. im attraced to my two guy cousins who are 27 and 30 while im 16 and a guy what should i do?...
A. 4 September 2010: well obviously your gay n their is absolutely nothing wrong with that i mean how can you help it if someone is attractive then they just are the fact that these guys are your cousins means nothing to your hormons but obviously them being your ... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't want to live with me any more! Help!
Q. me and m boyfriend have been dating for about two years and a half and now we lived togther for a year and a half. Now he doesnt want to live with me what should i do ? I scared that at the end he wont change his mind....
A. 4 September 2010: well maybe it was just a way of him venting his anger if you fight a lot then back off hes just really stressed i know if this is the case then you prob wanna strangle him half the time n when you feel like that you guys bicker which turns into an ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so hung up on this guy?
Q. I had a summer fling with this guy that had turned into a summer relationship (2 months), that he ended because i was heading off to school 3 hours away and he doesnt like doing long distance relationships. WE ended our relationship on good grounds ...
A. 4 September 2010: i have had this problem many times b4 n i can tell you that there is only one cure n thats fall for another guy then youll forget about him try to find someone who is sweet n caring n treats you like gold im srry to say but if he had strong enough ... (read in full...)
I don't like when the guy I have been seeing for 4 months just shows up at my door!
Q. I am dating a guy for the last 4 months. I feel like he is already trying to mark his territory. Gave me two teddy bears with his colone sent.. three pictures of him on a frame. He left his toothbrush with his name labled. Now he is starting to ...
A. 4 September 2010: if your still iffy after 4 months than i would wonder if maybe hes more into you than you are to him think about that maybe hes just testing the waters if hes given you teddy bears with his scent on them its supposed to give you comfort n remind you ... (read in full...)
Wow! Does my ex want me back?
Q. Woo I just got called for a job then my ex wrote me back! here is what she said does she still care for me???? Hi. I am fine. My car is going to get fixed next week. I'm fine. Just a minor accident. I will survive. Just another day in my life. ...
A. 4 September 2010: ya it deffinetaly sounds like she might be a little lonely n wanting some love and effection it even sounds kinda like shes trying to impress you by letting you know shes losing wheight she must have a low self esteem n think shes not skinny or ... (read in full...)
During sex, when a guy goes too deep it really hurts. Is this normal?
Q. Does anyone know what if this is normal or not? When i have sex its fine but if they push too hard or especially too deep inside me it really really hurts! i have recently had a full STI/STD screening and everything come back negative....so i dont ...
A. 4 September 2010: hey girlz i know wat ya's mean. Ive been with the same guy for 3 1/2 years, he never used to be this big but he grew cuz hes 20 now, So am I. I used to love doggy style n legs over my head... but now it hurts almost everytime. I actually just had it ... (read in full...)
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