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How do I make it the least painful for her?

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Question - (2 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok,

so me and my girlfriend have been going out since may, and we've always had this problem where we want to wait till her birthday before we sleep together, but no matter how hard we try, we always end up in a possition were if we didnt stop there and then, we wouldnt stop at all.

thing is, we're meant to meet up tomorrow and she's already said that she really wants to go for it, and to top things all off, she's on her period, and a virgin.

the qeustion i want to ask is:

if we do go for it tomorrow, is there anything i can do to make it less painfull for her, and does her being on her period complicate things more?

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A female reader, sarahrose20 Canada +, writes (12 September 2010):

its going to be messy and smelly because shes on her perod which would be a turnoff to any guy. since its her first time normally you would have to get her really wet because it hurts your first time but i dont see how your going to accomplish this without being put off...

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A female reader, youngmum89 Ireland +, writes (2 September 2010):

youngmum89 agony aunthello,

when it was my first time i was on my period it wasn't sore at all, my second time doing it was when i really lost my virginity it hurt just a little bit not that much i think if you's really want to do it go for it, but her first proper time wont be till her period is gone. make sure to use a condom

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

TimmD agony auntI would recommend waiting till she is finished her period. I'm not saying it'll be really painful or anything for her, but girls just don't feel themselves while on their period many times. Each girl will describe something different, but the bottom line is she's waited this long, why not wait just a few more days until it's over? It'll feel better for both of you.

The first time for a girl can be uncomfortable anyway. It's not often that a girl finds enjoyment on the initial intercourse. Just relax and wait till her period is over, then when the time comes just be slow and steady with it.

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