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... Send *amohir a private message | | | *amohir's profile: Well, Im 24,Have had many Ups&Downs regarding relationships not only with intimate partners but with friends and people.
In the course of this turbulent period, have seen many people, many things, many relationships, heard many stories, nice and disgusting, but that I concluded is part of life and humanity.
Have been hurt and probably hurt also dear people.That is simply like a vivacious circle.
I would just say, that Far to many people are Trying to Find the Right Person, instead Of Being That One. Thats problem with our commuinication, relation and silly alienation. |
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I think I messed up on the second date. Tell me what you think?
Q. Just wondering here... If I were to really screw up our second date so she no longer talks to me (not sure what I did exactly, but I know I did something wrong) do you think there is anything I could say to get a fresh start? Our last date was 3 ...
A. 10 September 2007: Well, seems you screw up! But it isnt exclusively about calling her a wrong name, that i can presume was a season to other things! You havent detaled ur date, and i have no clua what was going actualy. But ignoring can mean 2 things:1.She is simply ... (read in full...)
They love me when I am invincible, but as soon as I crack they don't support me. Do guys only like women who are strong?
Q. I know this sounds weird but guys only like me because they think that I am strong and don't put up with their crap. All my bf's always tell me how I am different from other girls (I hate when they say this). How I don't care about the same things ...
A. 10 September 2007: have this problem too.If you find the right answer, dear please share with me.Inthe course of my life and experiances, i can tell you, that once a man get it into his head, he takes it for granted. Guess they dont bother much about. Well, i have ... (read in full...)
Should I end this though we have wonderful times? He's showed me no signs on wanting a future together and is looking for his soulmate online.
Q. I have been dating a guy for the past eight months. I am a very attractive female. My boyfriend is the average joe. He is a part-time musician. A while back he had to perform and I accompanied him. During one of the half hour breaks that he had a ...
A. 10 September 2007: Honest and straighforward communication can solve the problem. I dont know how long have you been together, but id doesnt matter.The time is always right to do or ask what is right. If i were in your shoes , i would ask him, to avoid any further ... (read in full...)
Was it a date or just a friend thing? Any advice?
Q. I need help. I've been friends with this guy for a while now. I always had kind of a crush on him. I finished a 4 year relationship 3 months ago and he used to advise me all the time. Lately we've been hanging out a lot and we usually don't hang out ...
A. 10 September 2007: How long you know him? I think you ve got already symptoms of More than a friend thing. I ve got some male friends, but none of them rubs my back and legs9underneath my clothes)Only if got some skin problems(fortunately had none)...
he will call... (read in full...)
Why is he acting this way?
Q. Ok, this is going to be complicated. I went out with this boy for 3 months, and I broke up with him because he wasnt putting any effort into the relationship, at all. It was always me phoning and seeing him etc. Anyway, we were good mates for w...
A. 10 September 2007: Just tell him... If you want to be with him, say it straighforwardly.. and see how will he react. holding or pulling the shirt is not a clear sigh, maybe he got immpression that u just want to play games with him...yup i broke up and now i ... (read in full...)
Should I just let things progress naturally??
Q. I am hopelessly crushing on this girl V who I "met" on the internet through an online writing/art community. We bonded through our common interests and really hit it off, and she's the only person I've wanted for the past year now. I know she ...
A. 4 September 2007: Do you have any real chance to meet her? Somehow, anyhow? I think that would help... Dont let this to stay only in ur mind.. It difficult after some time, you ll be asking urself WHat if , If would I??? Had this before, was on distance, but i wanted ... (read in full...)
I would like him to make gestures to prove his love...any advice??
Q. Hi Everyone, I been divorced for 7 yrs.I have a LDR with a man from US for 10 months now I live in Asia. I am kinda getting impatient for not meeting him yet though we constant communicates. He calls me twice everyday when am at work or even at ...
A. 2 September 2007: Dont want to let you down ut to me it seems that This man is perfect Smooth Operator! just my perspective , doesnt need or have to be true.I can see ur not a child nor presumably he is. You re woman in age and need stabile companion. Okei, he call ... (read in full...)
What can I wear that would make me seem older?
Q. Whats the best thing to wear when you are trying to look older? I dont want to look seven anymore. Any tips? ...
A. 2 September 2007: Why you need to loook older? You llget at that point anyway... You ll get old -er one day, but never young... Dont cl;ear about this...
When I was about 15 i looked much older than my age, i always did. I was about 1.79 tall and had that damn... (read in full...)
Loved but abused?
Q. Hi. Please can someone help? I have been with my partner for nearly a year now. I am his first love and his first proper girlfriend. I also live with him and his mum. (She is hardly ever there though) He is a friend of my younger brother (my b.fd...
A. 2 September 2007: Maybe you should live apart from his family... I think that would be a god start. If possible. Ask him to get a flat or something apart,u ll find both way up after. And if you love him, honestly u must speak to him. tell him how do u feel and that ... (read in full...)
I need to lose weight. How can I get motivated?
Q. I'm having trouble getting motivated to exercise. I've set myself a target of Christmas to lose about 20lbs. Does everyone think this is acheivable? I eat fairly healthy already, but do little to none exercise, so I'm hoping that doing swimming, ...
A. 1 September 2007: apple vinegar helps a lot and also diyretics(pills that make you urinate). You can use this as supplement, just for a couple of weeks. Use the pills carefully and ocassionaly, only when u eat a solted food, That prevents a calulit.
I get fat very... (read in full...)
If he brings me a present I'll feel bad as I told him I'm a material girl, if he doesn't I'll feel worse...
Q. Difficult situation, I'm damn escort, material girl, think I fell in love with a guy that does not treat me like that... I like him in some ways, but hate myself or at least don't feel well if don't get any profit from him... What the hell i ...
A. 31 August 2007: You have right Oblivia.. The starting point u make is on its place completely.But, the point is , that he HAs means,he is well situated if i may say so.
I wouldnt looked at him if he wasnt,at least not on that way. Thats the main issue.
My confu... (read in full...)
I've moved from germany to USA when i was 12. Why do people here not feel its right for teenagers to have sex under 18?
Q. I was born in Germany, and I moved to the USA at the age of 12, since I've moved here I have always been curious as to why having sexual intercourse is such a bad act and disrespect to the parents for Teenagers under 18. In my town, it was ...
A. 31 August 2007: Because most Americans,at least ordinary ones, have their brains washed my media and comercials... damn , im born in Macedonia, which is one of the most conservative countries... when i was in USA and staying in a family i said i must have headed in ... (read in full...)
Does a man that loves a woman normally want her to be beautiful, well dressed etc, or doesn't care at all?
Q. My question to everybody here is, What do you think, the man that Loves you wants you to be beautiful, well dressed, shining or He doesn't care at all? Yes, i'm quite disturbed by this guy, he seems not to care of how i do look... I can go to hi...
A. 31 August 2007: Thank you for answering.Your conclusion is totally on place. I told him to go away, simply , that im a kind of person that takes great pleasure in dressing and looking good. Maybe sounds like superficial but it is important for me. It s just make me ... (read in full...)
How can the man I love truely of done this to me?
Q. Am so down and hurting. How can the man I have love truely do this to me. And for my stupidity and low self esteem, I couldn't break up with him. It hurts my somuch. I have tried to forgive him but I always remember and that is . I remember going...
A. 29 August 2007: Oh, dear, Im sure there would be enough space in ur hearth to embrace the love again,sure u re not one of those stiffing people that close their hearts and minds all live,ending desperate and unhappy as result! the point is u must give ur sweet lo... (read in full...)
I'm still in a fairly new relationship but he doesn't txt or call much anymore?
Q. Got to the point when must ask this. Im dating the guy for one month(from the previous question)and started well,going out, nice evenings spent together and so on... And now im more than confused. He used to send me a heap of SMS, phoning ...
A. 28 August 2007: Well dont think that gaus like to be answered all the time..what is the point.. Somethimes we need to be alone with ourselves.. But speaking to him might make thing clear...
Anyway i will wait him to SMS me again, if not i will do.. Think is clev... (read in full...)
After he climaxed, he wasn't in the mood anymore - what can I do about this?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend were going to have sex last night and I thought I would jack him off and then we would have some fun and then f*ck. Well after I jacked him off about 5 minutes later he wasnt in the mood anymore. Does that mean he isnt into ...
A. 28 August 2007: If i were in your place i would be lazy one next time, leaving him to "lead" the game next time. See what will happen. If he s making effort to make you hot than its ok if not means he is just pure chauvinist pleasure seeker.
Thats my opin... (read in full...)
She's w/ someone, but likes me back - what should I do?
Q. There is a girl i like who has started seeing someone recently. Turns out she actually likes me back. What can i do seeing she has started seeing someone else? I dont want to chase her away from this other guy as i wouldnt like that happenin...
A. 28 August 2007: I think the big question should be Does she realy likes you Back? If she does and you like also, i dont see any reason why not would it happen. Somethimes people do not know what they want till some point,and than they usualy make a decision... (read in full...)
How can i build my confidence and stop letting men use me for sex?
Q. Whenever I meet men and we ended up fooling around. I ruin the whole mood and moment. I continue doing this to whomever I meet. I ruin it by talking to much in bed because I am insecure about my body. I turn men off by saying sorry for my body ...
A. 26 August 2007: If somebody took advantage of you being week at the moment just Buzz Him Off, He is not worth! The self esteem is something inside you, i think. Weight loss can help it, but its not the real problem. I was where you were,the line between being tr... (read in full...)
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