I'm confused by my new boyfriend's penis because I think it's not hard enough!
Q. Hi, Am confused about my new boyfriend's penis coz I think it's not hard enough. We haven't had any penetration sex yet but have had oral sex and what worries me is that the hardest he's been is far lower than my ex boyfriends. I know that with t...
A. 22 May 2010: I disagree with people here who are saying just one previous partner at 41 is not possible. I know many guys of this type. Often they are more god fearing. Other than that, they are as smart as anyone else, including being the top guys at work.
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Why do I always pull stupid pranks on my boyfriend? I think I just crave attention or want a reaction from him!
Q. Hi Guys I've been dating my bf for almost a year and everything is/was going well. I have a problem of pulling stupid pranks on him. They seem to be compulsive and I realise the implications after playing with him for a while. I started by sayin...
A. 21 May 2010: In your entire post, I see nothing to tell me that you love your gf and that you want him happy. Its all about you.
I guess you are a bit of sadist and your guy is probably a bit weak in the relationship to take all this. After reading your post... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks our problems in the bedroom are her fault, what can I do?
Q. hi im 21 and my gf is 18 and she is very tight but it still takes me forever to cum, like both get to tired and she just jacks me off. i dont jack off for days then have sex and still the same any help will be nice thanks she thinks its her and ...
A. 21 May 2010: Hey, there's nothing to worry. I believe about 5% males can't come with normal sex and need the extra hand at the end. You are probably among them. Tell this to your gf; she will feel better.... (read in full...)
I accused my husband of having affairs for 23 years and now he has left me, but I cannot accept it is finally over!
Q. I am a lunatic. I accused my husband of having affairs for all 23 years of my marriage. Then he filed for a divorce. Now I cannot stop asking him to take me back. I send rude sms everyday and I am either very nice or i swear rant and rave at him ...
A. 21 May 2010: I feel you want him back only to massage your ego, not because you love him. You don't deserve him back. It will be better if you stop troubling/abusing him over sms. ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish for at least wanting him to talk to me occasionally? He has a lot going on with his family but his inability to balance things in his life is getting annoying!
Q. I'm frustrated cos the guy I'm dating doesnt know how to balance career, fam etc. He told me hes either 0 - 100 % about things and once hes 100 - thats all he focuses on..which usually applies to work.Recently hes been tryin to get a job, a car ...
A. 21 May 2010: A slightly different view here:
In your entire post, there is a lot of "I" but hardly any "we". Do you really give importance to your guy? Or are you with him because you don't have a better guy?
Please don't take it negatively. Just... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...
A. 21 May 2010: Hey, she has been using you like a napkin. I am glad you posted here, and just see all the replies from folks worldwide. You need to cut off from her and meet someone who reciprocates your actions and thoughts.
And remember, once you stop com... (read in full...)
I'm confused by my new boyfriend's penis because I think it's not hard enough!
Q. Hi, Am confused about my new boyfriend's penis coz I think it's not hard enough. We haven't had any penetration sex yet but have had oral sex and what worries me is that the hardest he's been is far lower than my ex boyfriends. I know that with t...
A. 20 May 2010: Yes, its a case of weak erection, but today we have medicines for everything. Basically blood flow into the penis is not happening to its full potential. A pill like viagra is aimed to give firmer/harder erections, which is what you want.
Tell him ... (read in full...)
Will this change his mind after a huge argument...?!?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time. He's in the Army and currently training out of the state (AIT). The past two weeks have been extremely hard on him due to the fact that the training just got tougher. So, I'm not surprised ...
A. 20 May 2010: This is the best solution I can offer.
Please MSN/email him, and share the URL of this post.
Send him this message:
"I am sorry and I want be your gf always.
http://www.dearcupid.... (read in full...)
I'm not feeling very secure in my relationship
Q. Hi Cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 4 months and we were close friends for nearly an year. Few weeks before he dumped me out of blue, when i asked him for the reason he said he moved on and never attended any of the calls or replied...
A. 20 May 2010: Important question first: Do you love him? While he is with you, does he make you happy? Does he make you laugh?
If you are saying no to the above, then you deserve a better partner. Don't take him back just because he wants to come back. Ta... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend likes anal does this mean he might be gay?
Q. I have been dating my bf for about 8 months and he is super sweet. A few nights ago while we were just cuddling watching a movie out of new where he ask me if I would try anal sex , he has done it before with his ex gf and said he really liked it. I ...
A. 20 May 2010: Facts:
1. Not all guys like to do it, even it they fancy seeing it on video.
2. Not all girls dislike it. In fact some girls ask for it.
Once you learn all about it, if you want to try, you can try and then decide if you like it. Your bf shou... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list?
Q. Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list? A long time ago I broke up with him and he ended up sleeping with someone shortly after. He says it meant nothing and we've worked through this. I ...
A. 20 May 2010: No. If you can't trust you bf, then you should leave him. The other girl was willing to be with him when he was left by you. In a way, this is a good reminder for you to not take your relationship for granted.
Tell your bf: I trust you.
He... (read in full...)
I don't mind if my husband watches porn but he lies to me about it!
Q. i have a problem,i think.my husband loves porn and so do i but i dont tell him that.my problem is when he watches it he lies to me about it,and i have told him several times that i dont care just dont lie to me about it ya know.and another thing is ...
A. 20 May 2010: Okay, let me give you a reverse example.
My girl talks about how well endowed Rocco is, but I don't feel bad about it. I know I am not competing with Rocco and I am not a porn star who can make it for 60 minutes like they are walking in a park! ... (read in full...)
Disgusted by my boyfriends interest in porn.
Q. dear cupid, i feel so disgusted. this morning i went online to listen to music and as i was typing visited porn sites started appearing in the browser. i love my boyfriend, weve been together for 3 years, recently moved in together. hes always b...
A. 20 May 2010: Hey, all men either watch porn once in while or would love to watch if they got a chance. Women who feel proud that they have managed to cut-off liking for porn from a guy's mind are kidding themselves.
Its okay. Your gentleman also has a live set... (read in full...)
I can't stand my boyfriend any more!
Q. Hi... I live with my boyfriend. and i just cant stand him anymore. He smokes pot and he trys to force me to smoke and i hate that. Also he got mad because i didnt wanna smoke, i was watching t.v and he turned it off because he i didnt want to smoke. ...
A. 20 May 2010: Please leave this guy and find a new bf who cares for you.
Leave him soon because he is insensitive towards you.
You will feel more hurt in future if you stay with him.
Wishing you happiness.... (read in full...)
Ache in my head and I can't move my body after finding out he's been cheating!
Q. i have just discoverd that my hubby hav been cheating with a widow who is far more older than me i am 25.he never sleeps outside,but i started to worry two weeks ago, when he told me he was going to work on a saterday, he went the whole day and came ...
A. 20 May 2010: If you still feel love for your husband, and he is sincere that he will not do anything with this woman, then you can forgive him. Forgiveness takes strength, and it will make you feel better. Tell your husband that you are very hurt and it is for ... (read in full...)
What can I do for my boyfriend on a tight budget to celebrate getting through a tough 6 months?
Q. I want to do something really awesome for my boyfriend but can't think what. We've had a rough 6 months or so and I feel like celebrating the fact that we're finally getting back to the couple we used to be (if not better!). I'm on a tight budge...
A. 20 May 2010: Give something he likes, even if its low cost. The feeling matters not the money. And make sure to really treat him like a king in bed, which again doesn't cost a thing.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he loves me when at times he can be sharing secrets with me and the next he is angry with me!
Q. i am doing job where my sir is very clsoed to me. he talking with me and share his persaonal serct. i am feel he is very closed to me but some time he is very angry to me. i dont know he is love me or not pls help me soon....
A. 20 May 2010: Please do not mix love and work-life. Please keep distance from your office managers. You are young and you are about to make a mistake with this man. Tell him you have a bf (even if you don't have). ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont tell his family about me because I am white, and now he is becoming distant from me. What should I do?
Q. i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have ...
A. 20 May 2010: if you like the guy and he is nice with you, don't bring ego in communication. its not a power struggle. never hesitate to contact and re-contact if needed. cheers!... (read in full...)
Should a girl always breathe in a rythmic way or scream when she orgasms?
Q. when a girl cums does she breathe in a rythimic way or screams?and is it a must for every girl to behave this way?and if she doesnt what should she do?...
A. 20 May 2010: well as i see it, the screaming girl image has been created by porn movies because the move can't duplicate real life breathing and touching that happens. noise is not necessary for great sex.
so you do whatever you feel like but don't make too... (read in full...)
Are we still Virgins?
Q. Ive had sex with my guy, But he was using a condom every time we did it. I never got bleeding. Nor did he. So am I still a Virgin? and is he still a virgin? ...
A. 20 May 2010: no dear, neither of your are virgins anymore.
while you are not a virgin, you can still be glad that you had safe sex with a condom.
now don't stop using the condom anytime soon. ... (read in full...)
Why was he embarrassed by the birthday gift I got him?
Q. i was wondering if anyone out there could help me understand this. Why would a guy you have known for yrs and have a casual relationship with and are also good friends with. say to you that he was embarrassed by the birthday gift you gave him, eve...
A. 20 May 2010: Hey, I think he really liked your gift. He's just trying to say that maybe he never gave you such a good gift like you gave him.
He probably realizes that he should have give you something when it was your b;day or something.
He's a nice g... (read in full...)
I am sexually charged up and have no outlet! What am I supposed to do?
Q. Been married close to 3 years but we been best friends for almost 15 while having sex all throughout. Sex was never a problem before we got married and now it seems to be going south. Been to counseling and try different stuff. Now it now that i'm ...
A. 20 May 2010: Do you know there are guys who stay without sex for months at a time, despite having high libidos, when they are on offshore duty on the ships, rigs etc? And you are complaining about not having sex more than once a week, esp when you and wife have ... (read in full...)
How to mend a broken heart.....
Q. Dear cupids, My partner of 1 1/2 years decided to end our relationship yesterday words cant even begin to express how heartbroken I am. I just don't understand why it ended and when I asked him he said he didn't know either. He keeps saying h...
A. 20 May 2010: There's something in males wanting to take a step back to assess things (am saying this as a male in a long term relationship).
Ask him these Qs:
1. Is he stressed with work or some financial pressure?
2. Has he found someone who he feels more a... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife. Really regret it!
Q. My wife , Ria, is a beautiful caring. Wonderful women. A great wife and mother of our children.but .... Like an idiot , last month I went out to party while ria was here at home taking care of the kids like the great mother she is, I asked if she ...
A. 20 May 2010: Having sex with en ex is the worst feeling for a gf/wife.
Its a direct comprison for her and women just can't take it.
You made a major mistake. It was worse than paying an escort for something fancy.
The only way your wife will even give y... (read in full...)
I could use some encouragement...
Q. I am 23 years old, I'm in grad school working on my doctorate...it's my second year. Outside of school I have no social life. During the school year, I'm distracted by everything so that I don't have time to dwell on the fact that most of the time, ...
A. 20 May 2010: Laura, first things first. You are a great girl and some guy will be lucky to have you as his gf/wife. Love just happens. Don't even worry about it.
Now, if you want to have more friends, that's a very valid question. Please volunteer for some soc... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I'm embarrasing!
Q. I don't dance. I don't drink. But I'm a girly-girl, I love to go out and have fun with my friends and him. Today I asked him how come you never take me clubbing?" we been together 2 years. He had the audacity to say to me "out of all the people I...
A. 20 May 2010: Yes, you have the right to be upset. Very uncaring of him to speak to you like that when you care for him.
It happens with most people, that when something like this is said (in love or in business), you don't know what to reply but you know tha... (read in full...)
Will he completely forget about me if I act like I don't care?
Q. okay so i still think about the guy i had been talking to for awhile every day and every night. i can't get him out of my head. he knows i'm head over heels for him and i'm pretty sure he uses it against me. so here's the thing, how do i act like i ...
A. 20 May 2010: In my teens (many years back) I went through the same thing (it was a reverse in my case as I was a guy).
You can ignore this guy by occupying yourself with other thing you like, like, volunteer at local library/clinic/childcare or learn somethin... (read in full...)
He goes out to clubs a lot -- is he cheating?
Q. ok I asked this ? before I registered then decided to make a s/n si I'm asking again.... I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we DO NOT use condoms.. tonight I was looking in his wallet for a ...
A. 20 May 2010: Sara, your bf has to clarify why he keeps a condom in his wallet when you don't use it. Your question is quite strong, and you need a convincing answer from him, otherwise its not fair towards you.... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with how much time we spend together?
Q. How many times per week should you see your boyfriend/girlfriend when you're in a committed relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We spend weekends together and see each other once in the middle of the week...and sometimes an occ...
A. 20 May 2010: I think you are doing great already -- that's enough contact/time between hard working couples, and I guess it should also build some anticipation of the time spent together. There's nothing called "normal" or "standard" in these things. Don't ask ... (read in full...)
I've lost my sexual appetite at 22.
Q. Okay, here's the thing. I never thought that I will reach this stage, It's not my thing to ask advice from the internet but I'm just confused and uncertain. I've been dating this guy since 3rd year highschool. I'm 22 now. I graduated colleg...
A. 19 May 2010: "I can't imagine having a new guy because it will be big adjustment for everyone in our lives."
Are you sure you love him fully? That looks like a real possibility here.
Increase libido by watching porn, alone or with your guy. It helps in... (read in full...)
I wonder if I should be more open to sex, after my rape experience?
Q. Hi I am 18 and was a virgin until I was raped a few months ago by a man that attacked me on the street. I do not count him as a sexual partner obviously, but it has kind of changed my attitude towards sex and my virginity. I am not desperate to los...
A. 19 May 2010: Hello dear, you are strong, no doubt.
"Ive never been that into the whole petals on the bed, candles, true love kind of thing anyway, I am more of a realist." --- you know when you meet the right guy, you will think of some of these very things, ... (read in full...)
Dreading the upcoming conversation about anal sex!
Q. Hi there, I just read a question where the guy was worried his girlfriend was lying when she said she had never had anal sex before....I'm about to be that girlfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really really love him. We ...
A. 19 May 2010: Do not tell him.
Its a minor detail, and its better you lie on this one.
Anyway there is no biological tracker for it, so let your guy feel he is the first to have it with you. Small pleasure for him.
But if you don't like it even with ... (read in full...)
My wife and I are going through an emotionally difficult time, how do we cope with this?
Q. Hello everyone. I have been with my wife for almost 6 years. We have been married 2 1/2. I have one step child (8) and we have 1 child together (1 1/2). Our relationship has been nothing but successful when it comes to teamwork, communication, ...
A. 19 May 2010: Hi, thanks for sharing. 1. Why is she skeptical if it will work with you? Ask her to explain to you where her doubts originate from. 2. I can feel you want more intimate/emotional connection with your wife, and that's a separate thing from great... (read in full...)
We're like sexual ships that pass in the night....how do we get on the same schedule?
Q. My husband works late and rarely wants sex. When he does it is usually at 2 or 3am, when I am often too tired. I'm in the mood during the day, but then he's at work! How do I figure this out? I don't have a particularly strong sex drive a...
A. 19 May 2010: Work stress can be quite damaging/suppressing for a couple's sexual activities. Mornings are usually the best time from a man's perspective and the sleep removes stress and clears the mind. Try it in the mornings whenever you feel like it; your guy ... (read in full...)
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