Another girl says she's pregnant with my bf's baby. He says it's not true. Trust him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for one and half years. In beginning it wasn't very good. He cheated on me and all we did is fight. I was away for a while and he said that's when he fell in love with and has been faithful since. That's w...
A. 21 October 2005: RUMORS!!!
RUMORS ARE RUMORS. YOU CANT BELIEVE EVERYTHING THAT YOU HEAR. I WOULD TRUST UR B/F. IF HE HAS BEEN FAITHFUL FOR YOU IN A WHILE, THEN I WOULD BELIEVE HIM. HE DOES" LOVE" YOU AND YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM EVERYONCE IN A WHILE. IF H... (read in full...)
We've been out a few times, but I don't know if I like him yet!
Q. I have just started dating this guy and I'm not sure if I like him? We have only been on 2 dates but everyone keeps saying to me you should know by the 2nd date and I don't. I\ve never had a proper relationship before and this is the first time i...
A. 21 October 2005: I think that you should go out with that guy one more time. try to make a move. but not a big one. just hold hands or cuddle together. if your heart starts beating really fast, and you just want to stay there forever, then you obviously like him. ... (read in full...)
What kind of a Christmas present can I get my boyfriend?
Q. Heya, I know this may be a silly question but I was wondering what sort of Christmas present do you get a guy? I mean, me and my boyfriend are both 14 yrs old, and we love each other very much (yes I know, its only young love but this is for real) ...
A. 21 October 2005: i would get him something that represents what he is interested in. if he like napoleon dynamite, then get his a freakin idiot or a tine, you fat lard come get some dinner shirt. he will really enjoy something that you give him that comes from the ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of his goatee, but he wants to keep it. Am I insane for missing his smooth face?
Q. Tell me if I'm insane. My husband has a goatee and I'm sick of it...I really miss his smooth face. I've asked him to shave but he becomes mad and refuses. It's been 9 months and now every time I look at him I just see this mean person who doesn't ...
A. 25 June 2005: you should support on any decision that he shall make. you should not care what he looks like on the outside dude. you are hurting him when you dont appreciate what he believes in him. good luck ~Robin~ aka... (read in full...)
I've been scared that things will go bad between us, and now I find out he's gotten someone else pregnant!
Q. Hello. I have been dating this guy for the past year and 2 months. Even though it has not been that long, we have been through a lot. He is the only guy that I have ever taken to meet my grandmother because I really feel like he is the one. Th...
A. 25 June 2005: ok he got another chick pregnant!!!! does that mean anything to you? he cheated on you man. i would break it off with him now. once a cheater, always a freakin cheater. and he didnt bother to tell you untill later on. and how do you know this is the ... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about getting married to my fiance! Help!
Q. I am engaged and I am having second thoughts. I love him with all of my heart but I dont know if he is the one. How do I tell him?...
A. 25 June 2005: I think that you should tell him that you are ready just yet and to wait a couple of years. If he truly loved you, he would understand. He is most likely going to ask you for an explanation, and if he does, then just tell him the truth. Ask ... (read in full...)
Ditch my friends? Or ditch my boyfriend?
Q. I have this boyfriend and I really like him. He makes me happy all the time, but my friends like him too. They were the ones who set me up with him. They said they were over him. Now they say they aren't. I don't wanna break up with him but I want ...
A. 24 June 2005: alright, it seems to me as if you are even friends with your boyfriend. with ur bf, you get a guy that you like that likes you and friend that you can talk to and everything. with ur friends, you just get people that get jealous. dont ditch ur ... (read in full...)
My bf tells his mates that he loves me more than anything... but then he slept with someone else!
Q. My boyfriend of a year and a half suddenly sleeps with a girl who's in town for a couple of weeks. We live together snd in the past have become very close and have had the best of times. Since January things got rough. I became preganant and lost...
A. 21 June 2005: he may just be experimenting with someone else is like. he has been with you for so long that he doesnt know what any other girls are like.but that is considered cheating and should should not accept that, i would break it off with him. think about ... (read in full...)
Does the 7-year itch cover visits to prostitutes?
Q. My partner of 7 years recently visited a prostitute. They didn't have full sex and he admitted to me what he had done the day after. He said that his reason for going was that as I had been the only woman he had ever been with he had got curious ...
A. 21 June 2005: he basically cheated on you when he did that. i would not trust him. once a cheater, always a cheater. he might be telling the truth though when he said that he wanted to see what another chick was like. he is so used to you, he wanted to try ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, wanting us to remain "friends", but I don't think I can deal with that. Should I?
Q. My boyfriend , of six weeks, called me a little over 2 weeks ago and said that he thought "maybe we should break up." So, I said okay fine we're broken up and left it like that. The next day he came by my house, apologized profusely and wanted t...
A. 21 June 2005: ok, if it didnt work out with going out, then being just friends id what you should try. it disnt work out, so being friends is a good thing. i know that it is hard to look at him as a friend when you love him but trust me, it will get better trust ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I have met, and we feel like we're ready to date, but our families say Wait...
Q. Hello everyone. My girlfriend and I met online almost a year ago. We already got to meet in person last March when I flew to her home state to visit her and again last week when she flew to see me. We get along very well and we love each other even ...
A. 21 June 2005: if you really love each other then go ahead, but i would consider listening to ur parents opinion, that wont hurt anything. if you love him, then move in together. but he may not be what he said he waz on the internet. so watch out for that ... (read in full...)
My family will freak about a 12-years age gap, but it doesn't really matter to us...
Q. I am 19 years old (female) and am dating a 31 year old male. We really hit it off well and have a lot in common and he's a really nice guy. I was just wondering if 12 years is a big deal of a difference. I don't want to tell my family about him or ...
A. 21 June 2005: i think that you should tell them, they should be able to understand, ur dad will be the one freaking out most but he will learn to respect ur desision on who u date. age really does not mean ne thing. but he is a mature man, and mature men wants ... (read in full...)
My fiance's a changed man: he went from dream guy to dope-smoking drinker!
Q. Hello all, this question is for Bev, but of course all others are welcome to comment. Bev, I have been with a man I love for four and a half yrs. We have a child together a precious daughter of 3 yrs. My fiancee and I have argued about 4 hours ...
A. 21 June 2005: You married a man that you never knew of down inside. you should stay with him for your daughters sake, but he may even pressure you doing the drugs as well. you dont want that. i would break it off, or tell him to stop doing what he is doing or you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend spends too much time flirting with other guys!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and recently things havent seemed right. She spends a lot of time with a 'friend' but I have met the guy and don't trust him. A few days ago my girlfriend swapped sim cards in to my phone an...
A. 21 June 2005: i am not trying to be mean at all, but i think that this chick is trying to give you hint that she wants to break it off with you but she is scared so she is trying to give you the message that she wants you to break up with her, because she thinks ... (read in full...)
He didn't return my call, even after he gave me his phone number. But then he gave me a meal for free...
Q. Dear Cupid, I go to this restaurant all the time and noticed a very attractive waiter there. I decided after seeing him there a few times to tell him that he is very attractive on one of my visits there and I also asked if he had a girlfrie...
A. 21 June 2005: i dont think that you look desperate in this situation. you really like this guy, and calling him is no big deal. he may of changed his #, or forgot to check his phone for a voicemail. dont get upset. there are many things that could of happened. ... (read in full...)
We haven't even dated yet... Has he broken up with me already?
Q. Dear Cupid, Last month I met this great guy on match.com, he was everything I wanted and I was everything that he wanted in return. We talked over instant messenger and talked over the phone for hours. We both knew how each other looked liked, so...
A. 21 June 2005: it sounds to me as if he thinks that you were thinking that you two were serious. it is hard to explain butlisten... ok, everything that he said to you made you feel like you two were getting pretty serious, right? right. ok, he finally realized ... (read in full...)
We've been attracted for 12 years & he lives in another country. What next?
Q. I have a very difficult problem. Twelve years ago I met a man who was a tourist in my country. We liked each other very much but didn't have a relationship. When he left for his country we spoke on the phone and corresponded regularly. Two year...
A. 21 June 2005: long distant relationships are very hard to handle. like you said, he had a child out of marriage. to me, he sounds like the type of guy that would cheat. he could cheat of you and you would not even know it. think about this. you may love him but i ... (read in full...)
Things with my current bf are getting dull. Should I leave or try to make it work?
Q. I am only 18 and I have been with the same guy for 2 years. Things are now getting boring, we have nothing in common and our sex life is non exsistant. I really like another guy and want to get to know him better. Do I try and make things work with ...
A. 21 June 2005: i think that you should talk to him. communication is the only way to go. he may even say the same thing. if it is getting dull, he is probably getting sick of it as well. anyways, i would go out with the other guy. he sounds interesting. try to ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend what happened when I was passed out, or will he leave me for good if I do?
Q. My boyfriend told me he was thinking about breaking up with me. I love him so much and was devastated, so I went out to a party and I told myself since techincially he hadn't broken up yet not to do anything stupid. Well I got really intoxica...
A. 20 June 2005: i think that communication is the only way to go. tell he what had happened. he will most likely be glad that you were truthful. a lot of peeps do not have that quality.so do the right thing man. this is one that you must deside on your own. but he ... (read in full...)
We don't do... anything! She waits for me to make a move and I'm afraid of screwing up!
Q. I have been going out with this girl for 1 year and a half. We don't do anything, but both want to. The reason for this is she waits for me to make the first move, yet I don't really have the guts and am afraid of screwing up. How could I manage ...
A. 20 June 2005: If you really love her, then you shouldnt be afraid of screwing up when you know that she should not judge you. and if she really loved you, she would not judge you. and you shouldnot be afraid to show the love that you have for her. you should ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's friend is more my type, but I'm getting mixed signals from her...
Q. Have been seeing a girl for three months now. I do care for her, although there's not much physical attraction on my behalf towards her any more. To be honest, she's becoming very clingy towards me and I don't particularly want to take things ...
A. 20 June 2005: i suggest that you break it of with this girl. talk to her with respect. dont say something like its not you, its me type of stuff. talk to her in a mature way. communication is the only way to go. she may even feel the same way, but you must talk ... (read in full...)
I left my husband for a woman who I love. But do I have to sacrifice my relationship with my daughters?
Q. I am 47 and have 2 children one 18 and one 14. Three years ago I fell in love with another woman. I left my husband and two children for her. I saw my daughters at least 4 times a week but obviously my ex hates me. 3 years on, my eldest will not...
A. 20 June 2005: i think that your children should come first. you brought them into this world, and you want to get them out without them hating you for the rest of the time that you have living. i know that you are in love with with this person, but if it was ... (read in full...)
He didn't want a relationship, which is OK. But he said he'd call me and he hasn't!
Q. I was talking to this guy who I liked very much. We were not dating yet, even though it felt like it. I thought everything was going fine until he stopped talking to me. Finally I got him to tell me what was wrong, and he said he didnt want a ...
A. 20 June 2005: I think that when he said that he did not want a relationship with you, he meant it! sometimes after going out with someone for a lil while, they seem to loose travk of communication with you. between most people, they think that if they cant be ... (read in full...)
Something happens when we're in the bedroom... he loses his erection.
Q. My guy says he loves me and does show it at times. We're both affectionate and have fun together but in the bedroom just before we have sex, his erection goes away. Why?...
A. 19 June 2005: He may be afraid. afraid of commitment. if the two of you have sex, he will probably get worried that you will get pregnant and he will have to sacrifice everything he has to keep that baby living and breathing. if he does not want to have sex, you ... (read in full...)
We were together but it didn't work out... Now I can't get her off my mind.
Q. Well I'm 15 years of age but don't think 'lust' as soon as you see my age; it isn't like that. My problem is I like this girl and she pretty much means everything to me. I have liked her for nearly a year now and we once were together but it didn'...
A. 19 June 2005: ok tell her how you feel. you may even be in love with this girl. if you believe that it can work between the two of you, then dont give up, keep working at it. here are the main things to have a good relationship going..... -trust. let her tell you... (read in full...)
The sex seemed normal, but... what happened?
Q. Okay, I might be sounding a bit stupid here, but here goes anyway. I took my fiance on holiday last week, and as normal people do, we had sex. I have had a fair share of sexual partners in my life, but something odd happened that has never happen...
A. 19 June 2005: dont freak out but you may have made her turned on by you. you found the spot where chicks go crazy over. good job. the puddle of muck was simply discharge. you just got her juices flowin. lol. keep up the good work. i bet it made her really horny. ... (read in full...)
I've been in love with my bi friend since childhood, but now he only wants his girlfriend!
Q. I'm a gay guy 20yrs, in love with my best friend (who is Bisexual) since childhood. I couldn't tell him over the years but last year i told him and he was ok with it. we had great sex for a couple of months and he went abroad..since then i missed ...
A. 19 June 2005: I think thaat you should respect his decision, but you should also tell him you feel. if he is a true friend, he should most likely be able to understand where you are coming from. sit him down without his girlfriend and tell him that you have ... (read in full...)
My girl's dad found out some of my history as a stupid kid, and now he won't let me see his daughter!
Q. Guys or Girls, I really need your help on this one because my life depends on it. You may ask well how can a problem with your girlfriend effect your life? Well it's because my girlfriend is my life ya see. Before her I was a lonely "boy". I didn't...
A. 19 June 2005: Hey Eric, ok Robin loves you very much. This is what I would do.... first, i would keep it secret for a lil while. Her dad said that if she can stay away from you for around a month, then he would consider letting her see you as a friend (you two ... (read in full...)
How do I show my boyfriend the "passion" he says is missing?
Q. I'm a man and have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. We get along very well together but he has told me that I don't show passion for him and he is getting frustrated. I really love him very much but just can't seem to come up with different ...
A. 17 June 2005: alright this one is easy. Some things that you could do. Try cuddling with him. Just wrap your arms around him and tell him how much he truly means to you. Love is a passionate thing, you love him, show it. Cuddling means a lot to the other person ... (read in full...)
The guy I like is a few years older, and my mum doesn't want me to get involved with him...
Q. Hi, I really like this guy. He is a few years older than me I don't know exactly how many. I have liked him for some time. My mother does not like me to get involved with him because he has just come out of jail for fighting, but I reassured her ...
A. 15 June 2005: You do not know this guy very well. I understand what you are talking about when you say that he isnt like that in real life when he got out of jail. my bf is the same way. if your mom does not approve of him, do you really think that the two of you ... (read in full...)
My bf doesn't know I slept with someone else and I don't know if I should tell him, 'cause I suspect he cheated too!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is really good to me. He has never pressured me into doing anything i dont want to do.I did something terrible to him i would think. The story begans like this when i first started talking to my boyfrien...
A. 15 June 2005: Always be truthful. To you and him. If you think that it is wrong for him to cheat, what thinks that you are any better and that you can do it and he cant? i suggest you talk to him about it. if you come out and say that you have cheated in your ... (read in full...)
I feel rejected because my partner "just doesn't like" having sex during my periods...
Q. I'm wondering whether I'm making a fuss over nothing, as it's hard to get men's honest opinions on this: should I be bothered that my partner "just doesn't like" making love during my periods. For the record, he is not squeamish about anything else ...
A. 15 June 2005: Ok, Being on your period while having sex or making love is disgusting to most men. Just imagine it.... the two of you are having sex. you are done now. the both of you are covers with the blood that came straight from your "pootang". That is what i ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I live 1000 miles apart... but we want to keep dating!
Q. I'm am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and I had to move like 1000 miles from him. I love him and he loves me and we want to keep dating, but how could we if we can't see each other? You know what I am saying? People call me crazy beacause I still want to ...
A. 14 June 2005: Ok, for one. Not seeing your boyfriend causes the other to gain less trust in the other, and causes one to be depressed because you just want to hold them but you cant. you two live so far apart. You may love him, but sooner or later, one of you are ... (read in full...)
I get jealous so easily and I know my boyfriend won't take much more...
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years now and the other year I was diagnosed with depression. Since then my personality is very different, I get jealous easily and I am always arguing with my boyfriend. I don't talk to him about ...
A. 14 June 2005: If you really love him, you need to show it. Love does not mean argueing and yelling and being depressed all of the time. Cuddle with him. Put your arms around him and really show how much you love him. How you are dealing with the depression is is ... (read in full...)
Will it spoil our friendship if I make a move on my friend?
Q. I'm only 16 but I have been best friends with a guy for almost two years now. In the past we have dated off and on about three times. Currently we are just friends, but I think I want more. I don't want to ruin our friendship either, however ...
A. 13 June 2005: You have made it this far. You know that it will not ruin you guys's friendship. its too strong to ruin. talk to him about it. ask him if he still has feeling for you and ask him if he would ever reconsider going back out with you. if you believe ... (read in full...)
Not happy in my marriage and my husband is overseas. Now I want to check out my old friend...
Q. I am married and he is overseas. I recently reconnected with an old guy friend and we have admitted to both having feelings for each other. We want to meet up to see what is there between us! What do I do? I am not really happy in my marriage ...
A. 13 June 2005: You should be happy. dump him. go out with the guy that makes you feel special. you never see your husband. marry someone you actually get to see. ... (read in full...)
I told her how I feel about her by text... but I don't understand her answers!
Q. I text a girl on my mobile asking her out by using a poem and I told her how i felt saying she was beautiful and stuff. she text me back saying it meant a lot to her but she doesn't want to risk our friendship because if we split she would get ...
A. 13 June 2005: Hey, ok going out with someone that you have been friends with for many of years, and then going out and even breaking up could or may even ruin your friendship. It's true.You guys could get into a huge fight and you may end off calling her names ... (read in full...)
Everything was fine between us for 3 months, then she dumped me and I was devastated.
Q. I used to have a girlfriend for almost 3 months. Everything was fine until she had her dancing shows. As I thought she would be tired I let her be. When I phoned her up we barely talked. She then dumped me and said that it wasn't working out. As I ...
A. 13 June 2005: Relationships are difficult. They don't always go the way that you plan. You start to actually love someone and then they break it off. You cry and cry untill you start to feel as if you can kill yourself. Thats exactly how I felt when my ex told me ... (read in full...)
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