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Ditch my friends? Or ditch my boyfriend?

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Question - (23 June 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2005)
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I have this boyfriend and I really like him. He makes me happy all the time, but my friends like him too. They were the ones who set me up with him. They said they were over him. Now they say they aren't. I don't wanna break up with him but I want them to be my friends again, but they also lied to me.

I wanna know if I should ditch my bratty, jealous friends or my wonderful boyfriend who makes me happy 24/7, even when I'm not with him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2005):

That is easy. Who gives you orgasms, your friends or your man? I dont think that should be too hard to decide.

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A reader, robinlovescena +, writes (24 June 2005):

robinlovescena agony auntalright, it seems to me as if you are even friends with your boyfriend. with ur bf, you get a guy that you like that likes you and friend that you can talk to and everything. with ur friends, you just get people that get jealous. dont ditch ur boyfriend. he sounds like a great guy. talk to ur friends. tell them that he is ur bf and you need to be ur friend. not just a way to see and talk to him.

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~Robin~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2005):

Is simple to just say do that and do this, this situation has to be think carefully, You have your friends on one hand, your boyfriend on the other. Try not to ditch your friends, remember, no matter what they are doing, they got you this wonderful boy for you.

If they are jealous, this kind of jealousy won't last very long, in fact if you just try to ignore that facts around you from your friend and stick to your boyfriend, your friends, if they are really your friends will see it, and will get sick and tired of doing what they doing. Rather follow the way with your boyfriend and have your friends still, not as before of course, but ignore the jealousy around you. It can be done, 0nly if you put your mind into it.

Love your boyfriend very much, and know your friends will be there ... for good or bad. That's why we have friends.

Wish you all the very best

Matt,20

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2005):

There you go, you answered the question yourself! dump your "bratty, jealous friends"!

They lied to you by pretending they were over him, set you two up with each other, and then changed their minds. Is that your fault? NO! They have to live with the consequences!

Have fun with your wonderful boyfriend! And maybe your friends will come round eventually, but forget them if they don't.

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