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writes: My partner of 7 years recently visited a prostitute. They didn't have full sex and he admitted to me what he had done the day after. He said that his reason for going was that as I had been the only woman he had ever been with he had got curious about what it would be like with another woman. He begged me to forgive him and said that he now knew that I was all that he wanted. Can I just write this off as a 7 year itch or should I end it?
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reader, disappointedwoman  +, writes (29 August 2008):
I don't believe he didn't really have sex with her. That is what they say when they get caught...they minimize. I'm sorry, but there is no way he got in the room with a prostitute, after going through all the steps it took him to get in that room...and he didn't have sex with her. Be careful and start snooping. You will find out the truth.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (9 August 2005):
He wanted to see what sex with someone else was like so he went to a prostitute? What a lame excuse. I would end the relationshiop immediately as if you tolerate what he has done, he will only do it again.
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reader, Cutie_pie1990 +, writes (21 June 2005):
Hey,You need to ask yourself if you can trust him not to do it again.How did it make you feel when he told you what he had done? If you love him and you can trust him not to do it again then tell him you trust him. But if he truly loved you though, would it be necessary for him to sleep with another girl, you should be enough for any man who's worth it.Well good luck with whatever you decide to do.Best Wishes Robynxxxxx
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (21 June 2005):
If you really love each other & have a solid relationship, I would try & find it in your heart to forgive him, but if he EVER does it again...respect yourself enough to leave !Make sure if he's REALLY sorry, that he has to earn your trust & respect again...heal the wounds & start fresh.If he continues to have a wandering eye & "curiosity" gets the best of him repeatedly..dump his ass & move on !
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (21 June 2005):
 he basically cheated on you when he did that. i would not trust him. once a cheater, always a cheater. he might be telling the truth though when he said that he wanted to see what another chick was like. he is so used to you, he wanted to try something different. nothin big, but he should of asked for ur permission first and said that he would see what another gurl was like for one night, would that be ok with you. and he should of respected ur decision and without asking u first is what most people would call cheating so think about what you are doing. good luck~Robin~aka advice gurl
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