Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 9 October 2010: So, just wanted to say, after a few weeks, he contacted me last night. He honestly must just have been busy. Thanks for all your answers and advice, I truly appreciate it.... (read in full...)
I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17
Q. basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...
A. 28 September 2010: Cerberus is right. He's totally playing you. All of that information/advice is the most sound I've heard yet and it's coming from a man!... (read in full...)
I thought he was my dearest friend and lover..and he threw away 22 years
Q. I don't even know where to start and yet feel better just by starting. This man is or rather I thought that we were the best of friends and that we would see each other through any and everything. We have been friends over 22years or at least that's ...
A. 28 September 2010: Now, is he still living with you or has he moved out, and is he just wanting sex from you, or does he still want to be your boyfriend for lack of a better term?
I think, because things are so difficult, it is hard to get married, especial... (read in full...)
Does he deserve this last and final chance?
Q. Long story short, the guy who i dated for a year and a half wants a last chance. Btw hes 20, if that makes a difference. He was the one who i gave multiple chances too and every time i did he would take advantage of it. He knew how much i loved ...
A. 27 September 2010: You need to go. You have given him multiple chances and still he has not changed. I have endured this kind of pain, but you honestly are not happy, you cannot trust him, and you are worn out from it all mentally.
Do it and ask him how long he ... (read in full...)
My 1st time wasn't horrible and there was no bleeding why?
Q. Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i ...
A. 27 September 2010: This is normal. I in fact had no problems my first time. Most women have what is called a hymen, a thin layer of skin or something similar inside the vagina, this is what breaks (and hurts) and causes bleeding. In some women it is thicker, and ... (read in full...)
Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 27 September 2010: Wow, I didn't realize how complicated the situation was. Everyone is asking questions! My point is, he responded to my invite, does it sound like a nice way to turn me down even though I do know as a fact he is busy at work, or is he truly ... (read in full...)
Is it realistic for me to hold out for the day that he isn't selfish?
Q. My boyfriend has always been quite selfish. Not in a terrible way. But he does continue to put himself first. Even when I really really need him. I asked him to come over the other day as I had had an awful day and just needed comforting. He had ...
A. 27 September 2010: I would say if he realizes this himself and hasn't tried to change yet, he isn't going to. It may be hard, but if your needs aren't being met, it's time to move on and find someone who can meet your needs.... (read in full...)
Gf living life of riley, while I work to making a home - fair?!
Q. dear all, my gf dosent see a future in me, because i have 15k student debt! we where making out after a session of sex, and i asked her how she slept, as she seemed to be having nightmares. she didnt want to tell me at first, but after pers...
A. 27 September 2010: She sounds like she is money hungry and is only concerned with personal possessions and having someone to take care of her. If she is on you about your money and job and debt, but doesn't have one yet, this is a red flag to me! Especially having ... (read in full...)
Why does he like to have his hands around my neck?
Q. Why does my boyfriend like to have his hands around my neck during sex?? no tight enough to choke me.. But still :/...
A. 27 September 2010: I am not sure why, but I know I have experienced this with two other guys. One I was with for five years and I used to just kind of nudge his hands away, it was usually just one hand near my neck but it did make me feel threatened.
The other gu... (read in full...)
I wish he could be more jealous
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really wish my bf was more possessive. Not in the creepy "he needs help"-sort of way, but a balanced way. I don't think he's ever jealous although when my friends text me a lot when with him, he jokes that it's my man on the ...
A. 27 September 2010: As a jealous person myself, I know what it's like to be jealous and wish that the person I was with was jealous too. However, looking in on the picture, consider yourself lucky. This man trusts you. He knows you love him and so he is not worried ... (read in full...)
Is this boy normal, and should he date my daughter?
Q. I am worried about my daughters new relatonship. My daughter is 17, she is a great kid , we are very lucky that we have never really had any trouble with her. Normally I don"t judge the people she chooses to date but I am a little concerned with her ...
A. 27 September 2010: I would say all the trouble he got into was a result of a traumatic experience. When he was sent away, do you know anything about that family or how they raised him? My guess is that while away he was taught to be a certain way with adults and ... (read in full...)
The language of love, is this flirting or just making friends?
Q. Hi, I have a culture-related question about flirting versus making friends. My boyfriend gave out his phone number to 3 girls he said were flirting with him. When I told him I didn't like it he claimed that this is how he makes new friends. Now,...
A. 27 September 2010: I'm from the US and I can safely say this is not how we make new friends. I would go with your gut, and say he is feeding you a line. He may not cheat, but something just doesn't seem right to me about the situation.... (read in full...)
How can I make my cousin have sex with me?
Q. I am 16 years of age and my girl cousin is 15 and a want to have sex with her so badly but i dont know how to ask her, or what to do to make her have sex with me!! I have been trying so hard since 14-15 to have sex with her and i dont know if she ...
A. 26 September 2010: I don't know about where you live, but here in the US it's illegal to marry your cousin.
I'm sorry but it's kinda gross that you want to have sex with her. That's family! Your parents siblings kid. Which is just as good as sister and I really h... (read in full...)
To threesome or not to threesome...
Q. Ok everyone i need help so my boyfriend told me he wanted to spice up our sex life and try new things. I thought he ment to try new positions. Come to find out he wants to have a threesome. I dont mind the whole girl on girl thing or another girl ...
A. 26 September 2010: Well, let me tell you, my sister and her husband had a threesome as a "one time thing" and it turned into a year long thing where the girl moved in and caused lots of problems. I have seen this issue on several shows and it seems this is usually ... (read in full...)
I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17
Q. basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...
A. 26 September 2010: You NEED to be honest with this guy! Even though you consented he could be arrested and put in jail and on the sex offenders list for this if anyone found out and wanted to press charges for you, even if you didn't want them to.
This is very ser... (read in full...)
He says, how can someone who loves me so much run away so fast?
Q. I am in love with a married man. We have been seeing each other for over a year now. I love him more than anything in the world. I want to be with him forever, but this is killing me. When I try to break it off, he makes me feel guilty. He ...
A. 26 September 2010: Honey, he's playing you. I had someone make me feel guilty because I tried to break it off in fear of getting hurt, and so I let him come back, and in the end he told me all I was, was a rebound.
This man doesn't want to leave his wife, but he d... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about pregnancy?
Q. The other night me and my boyfriend were having sex and he pulled out when he felt he was going to cum, which is what he always does but this time when he looked at his penis there was already a white liquid on the tip of hos penis and 2 seconds ...
A. 26 September 2010: Pulling out is NOT an effective form of birth control. Men constantly pre-cum and it does contain sperm. So even if he pulls out before he orgasms, you have most likely been exposed. The best thing you can do is use condoms AND birth control ... (read in full...)
Not sure about anal sex but want to try!
Q. i am interested in having anal sex with my girlfriend of a year and im not really sure on whats safe or what we should do... is it safe not to use a condom and cum inside of her or can i get an infection or something? and is there a way to cle...
A. 26 September 2010: I have bled every time I've had anal sex. It is uncomfortable for at least the next day, and the possibility of getting diarrhea from it is high. It can also seriously mess up her system if done too often.
You're young, wait a few more years. ... (read in full...)
Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 26 September 2010: Ok, so there seems to be confusion about how clear I was, and what I wanted, so here is what I first sent him: "I have this idea, and it's a little crazy but I think it could be fun. I had a good time with you back in July on my first visit to O... (read in full...)
When will he be a man and not a little boy?
Q. My boyfriend is 22. Unmotivated, lacks any discipline and has absolutely no direction in life. My boyfriend has four crazy sisters. His mother and sister never finished high school. That same sister will have two kids before the age of twenty-on...
A. 26 September 2010: You are beating a dead horse. You will never change from your habits just as much as I doubt he will change his. If you can't see yourself with him in the future, as young as you are, I wouldn't prolong the pain that you may cause him.... (read in full...)
I'm in the military and bisexual...big problem!
Q. Hello everyone. I have gotten myself into a grave situation. I was one of the suckers that fell for serving my country in the military and I am currently carrying out my enlistment. I am about a year from my end of active obligated service and have ...
A. 26 September 2010: Just so long as you don't admit you're bi or are caught having sexual relations I don't think they can do anything to you for staring. You have a fiance, be happy with her for now, do what you must do to get your year done.
I would try to stop ... (read in full...)
Am I being ridiculous for asking him to never stop in on the "boys" after work and just come straight home?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for almost 10 years. For the most part we get along really well. I consider us being very close friends. I always find it important that we make sure that our needs are being met in our relationship...
A. 26 September 2010: Each of you need time alone. Since you say you offered him a night with his friends and he said no, I am guessing that all your previous actions of asking him to come home made him feel like he had to tell you that he wanted to spend time with ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and dying inside, please help me save my marriage!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 17 years (we've been best friends for 26) and have 2 teen children. For the most part, we are very close. He seems to have issues though about hiding things from me and lying about them. We used to fight almost ...
A. 26 September 2010: Well, I understand how you are feeling and the hurt you are experiencing, but I am wondering exactly what it was in the bedroom that you feel so uncomfortable doing? This may shed some light on the situation a bit more.... (read in full...)
Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 26 September 2010: @fishdish When I put the offer out there, I told him I knew it was a far drive for just some tail but that I thought it would be fun to go to some bars or something interesting, and then also have lots of good sex. I was very blunt. Since we ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a crush on another girl. I have asked him not to befriend her, but he says I'm being unreasonable.
Q. My boyfriend has a crush on another girl. Is there anything he can do to not have the crush deepen? I asked him to remain aquaintences with her and not to become friends, but he says that is unreasonable and I have no right to tell him who to be ...
A. 26 September 2010: Even with your added explanation, it sounds to me like he is trying to find more ways to be around her. I've done a similar thing and know how it plays out. He'll leave you if he ever thinks he has a chance with her.
He can be an aquainte... (read in full...)
How to trust again and move on?
Q. How do I learn to trust someone again, when I got dumped by my ex completely out of the blue and when things were going well? It makes me feel insecure now, that it could happen again...
A. 26 September 2010: You have to remember that everyone is different. I have been dumped out of the blue, when I thought things were going well, but was actually told that for him, it wasn't out of nowhere. I think usually there are signs or actions that we do, that ... (read in full...)
Broke up with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose!
Q. First of all, this really sucks. I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have been through a lot. I'm currently in graduate school and he moved to be with me. The only problem is he hasn't proposed. It's not like he's one of those guy...
A. 26 September 2010: Marriage is just a piece of paper. It doesn't prove anything about your relationship. By talking about marriage all the time, and breaking up with him because he won't propose, you are showing him that all you want is a marriage, not him.
You a... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to lose my virginity.
Q. So I'm 14 and i want to lose my virginity. But I'm also extremely scared. I don't really know what I'm scared of but I am. So I just wanted to know if there is any tips people can give me on this. Like why am I so nervous and scared to lose my ...
A. 26 September 2010: You are too nervous and scared because you are not yet ready. This is not something you can take back once it is gone. You are very young yet, and have plenty of time to have sex and there are lot of things about having sex that you need to be ... (read in full...)
He says we are just mates but I want more
Q. dear cupid I found this website on being noisey on advice things and now its my turn lol Basically ive got a f**k Buddie and recently we have gotton on really well, basically i prob see him most days and have a little kiss and thats it, ...
A. 26 September 2010: Sounds like he is no longer interested. I would most certainly stop texting and calling him since has hasn't responded. Once is enough. If they don't want to respond they won't, and if they do want to respond they will. He got the text, that is ... (read in full...)
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