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writes:How do I learn to trust someone again, when I got dumped by my ex completely out of the blue and when things were going well? It makes me feel insecure now, that it could happen again
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reader, RennieGeek  +, writes (26 September 2010):
You have to remember that everyone is different. I have been dumped out of the blue, when I thought things were going well, but was actually told that for him, it wasn't out of nowhere. I think usually there are signs or actions that we do, that we choose to ignore.
Be tough, stay strong. When you let go you will find someone else when you least expect it. I know this is cliche but it's true! Think back on your relationship, and any actions you may have done that may have pushed him away, think HARD, about it. You will start seeing signs. Then realize that if it doesn't work, it doesn't work, and there is ALWAYS someone else. :)
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