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writes:I am in love with a married man. We have been seeing each other for over a year now. I love him more than anything in the world. I want to be with him forever, but this is killing me. When I try to break it off, he makes me feel guilty. He says, how can someone who loves me so much run away so fast? Help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): I did it for seven years and finally realized that he was never going to leave his wife. I came to the conclusion that the only person who should ever insist a man has to choose between the mistress and the wife is the wife.
It took a lot for me to move on because we had fun together, could talk about anything, the sex was great - it was amazing all around. Except he was married. But all I have out of it today is seven lost years of my life.
Good luck. Be strong.
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (26 September 2010):
Honey, he's playing you. I had someone make me feel guilty because I tried to break it off in fear of getting hurt, and so I let him come back, and in the end he told me all I was, was a rebound.
This man doesn't want to leave his wife, but he doesn't want to lose you either. However, when you got with him, you were aware that he was married. Now it's your choice, stay with him and know he'll never leave her, or let him go and cut off communication with him so he can't guilt you.
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