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He says we are just mates but I want more

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Question - (26 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

dear cupid

I found this website on being noisey on advice things and now its my turn lol

Basically ive got a f**k Buddie and recently we have gotton on really well, basically i prob see him most days and have a little kiss and thats it,

Anyway i havent slep with him for a few weeks and everytime i ask him if he wants anything he always says no and that we are just mates

Anyway like i saod 2 him other day is he likes what he wants and when he doesnt want to he doesnt and he replied back yeah selfish i replied no not really

Anyway i really want him 2 come round my house well my parents are away just for a meal and some company and he says he will see

I txt him last nite asking if he would like a roast dinner he hasnt replied, and ive assked twice sinced then still no reply

I think ive basically done something wrong i rang him hte other day off my dads phone but couldnt speak so i hung up when he answered so now im worried he hates me for that even tho 50% of me thinks he doesnt no who it was

But i now want to txt him saying to him if i have done anything wrong but im thinking he wont reply im going 2 leave it untill later on tonight

any advice

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A female reader, angel_of_luv United Kingdom +, writes (26 September 2010):

angel_of_luv agony auntyeah, it sounds like he is no longer interested. So just leave it as it is. Keep him as a memory and move on. You will find someone much nicer to be with :-) xx good luck mate x

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A female reader, Baybiegirl United States +, writes (26 September 2010):

Baybiegirl agony auntI think you should call him and ask him about it. Things with relationships are that way. I'm in the same way with my ex but he only wants me around when he's osngle, this guy of yours mite be the same way, he mite have a girlfriends, you should ask him don't be afraid of being open with him.

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A female reader, FluffyPie United States +, writes (26 September 2010):

FluffyPie agony auntNo, he doesn't hate you, he's just not interested anymore, so the best for you is to stop humiliating yourself like this and move on with your life. the fact that he didn't reply should give you the answer.

Men like to chase women, so the more unavailable you are, the more exciting they find this game. You were an easy catch for him.

Best of luck!

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A female reader, RennieGeek United States +, writes (26 September 2010):

Sounds like he is no longer interested. I would most certainly stop texting and calling him since has hasn't responded. Once is enough. If they don't want to respond they won't, and if they do want to respond they will. He got the text, that is for certain.

I'm sorry, but I think it's time to move on.

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