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Is he being honest with me over the reasons for our breakup?
Q. I am devastated and I need an opinion...I met this guys 5 years ago while I was travelling. I fell for him and I believed he fell for me as well. It was my first relationship with an older man and because our cultures and language backgrounds were ...
A. 30 May 2008: its true wat Daniel Pew is saying. It is a way for him to say goodbye.. i just don't know why he texts you.. but i think he is apologising indirectly. on the other hand, there seems to be something telling him that yu want to move on. he may even be ... (read in full...)
Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?
Q. Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...
A. 29 May 2008: You know wat, you want people to accept by force but guess wat, majority will never accept it. you have taken advantage of the situation of your parents and made it as an excuse. you have the capacity to make the right decisions even if your parents ... (read in full...)
Is he being honest with me over the reasons for our breakup?
Q. I am devastated and I need an opinion...I met this guys 5 years ago while I was travelling. I fell for him and I believed he fell for me as well. It was my first relationship with an older man and because our cultures and language backgrounds were ...
A. 29 May 2008: Your welcome that shows you there are many good people in this world just tht one that didn't turn out good doesn't mean all are bad. you shall surely get a better one. There is no break-up that is sweet. even when loved ones die it is a pain we all ... (read in full...)
On the pill for health reasons, haven't stopped bleeding for 17 days!
Q. Im a athlete, and because of certain performance problems while on my period, my doctor and physio advised that i go on the pill. I Started my period on the 12th( they normally last between 5-7 days, and are quite light) i took the pill on the fist ...
A. 28 May 2008: Please go back to your doctor this is not a forum to get a reply of a health issue as such because you may get the wrong advice from the readers who are not in the health proffession as i.
Go see a doctor immediately as i understand loosing ... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to get my husband to communicate?
Q. I have been married for 7 years and lately it is pure hell. My husband seems angry all the time and wont talk to me about anything. He gets mad if he doesnt like the breakfast I made and will continue on being mad the entire day and wont eat ...
A. 28 May 2008: Typical male ego..they do not believe in counselling even when its obvious that they are not able to solve the problem. as i am not a marriage expert, neither i'm i married,i'd like to suggest. why not talk to him when the two of you are lovey do... (read in full...)
She broke up with me because we live too far apart! How do I get her back?
Q. Right, I've just been to see my girlfreind for the first time. she lives about 200 miles away, i really liked her and she really liked me, i came home and cried on the way back. she broke up with me today because we live too far away and we'...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi there, You could arrange with both your parents who can assist you two to be meeting more than once in a month. you could also try saving up for bus tip to her place and vice versa. i can undersand the hopeless situation she's in and she feels... (read in full...)
I am a bisexual female and I am very attracted to my best friend of 5 years. I know she feels the same way, we just never discussed it!
Q. I am 23 and my best friend is 24. I am very attracted to her and shes very aware of this. we have had plenty of encounters in which things could have happened but didnt because i felt like she was nervous and i would only act on it if we both felt ...
A. 28 May 2008: Gosh.. let the Lesbian supporters advice you... just wait.. she was married and divorced.. i should not be telling you this that shall you decide to get on with this rlshp, you shall never be happy for there was someone who got hurt out of a BLESSED ... (read in full...)
I do love him, but we can't compromise on religion!!!!! What should we do?
Q. Hi...i am wondering how many of you have married someone who is of a different religion than you are? If you did, how long did it last? Were there any major issues? My fiance and I are of two different religions and I can't imagine what it ...
A. 28 May 2008: It depends which religions you both are in. it is worse if none of you is in any strong belief of God. there are good religions and bad religions.. for instance i have a friend who is a Christian and is married to a Muslim, neither of the 2 has ever ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with this friend?
Q. hey, im wondering should i have sex with one of my close friendds for the first time. actuaally what im asking is would it be right? becausei can see myself doing that with him, ive done stuff with him before. were really close and it would be ...
A. 28 May 2008: You do not have to ruin your friendship with this guy.. you are obviously not ready for it and if you could just wait a little longer for the person you love... it would be even much more enjoyable.. for now, it'll just be "an experiment" just to ... (read in full...)
I want to tell her what I'm feeling and thinking but I'm rather worried that it will scare her off ... it's a dilemma.
Q. Hey all. Ok, this is something that has been praying on my mind over the past month or so, and not being one to tell people what I'm thinking I thought I'd bash it out here to get a general opinion. Ok, so well I'm 20, and have been seeing a g...
A. 28 May 2008: Yeh, tell her how you feel. she probably MAY feel the same. she could be telling other people that you are just friends becoz the 2 of you have had that agreement. Your the man!! dude tell her she'll understand.. better say it before its too late... ... (read in full...)
I'm furious with my boyfriend for the way he broke up with me!
Q. I'm so hurt. So, so hurt. My boyfriend and i got back together yesterday. We had a faboulous time! He had broken up with me because of things from the past. But we got back together and spent most of the day together. Then, at night, he got up...
A. 28 May 2008: Trust me, if you hope to die just to make him feel guilty.. he WILL NOT... he is very possesive and protective... just be careful that he may not kill you himself... he may be mentally ill..
if you love someone, you will never ever, wish the... (read in full...)
He wants to meet me again, but is moving too fast, saying why wait?
Q. Just met this guy online..... we met briefly and we kissed. Now he wants to meet me again, but is sending me texts saying he wants to make love to me. I'm not happy with moving so fast, and have told him this.... but he feels we have a great con...
A. 28 May 2008: He wants to fulfil his fantansy... sex.. you met him online... right? its probably wat he does... use your head..... (read in full...)
My mother is hanging out with this guy all the time... what do I do?
Q. My mother hangs out with this guy all the time and my dad doesn't relly mind a lot.But i swear they are more than just friends.Like yesterday when i walked through the door they were hugging but when i walked in they walked away like nothing ...
A. 28 May 2008: if your dad doesnt' mind sweetie then i think they have a mutual understanding. your mum and this guy are probably just friends or if they are more than friends, maybe your parents relationship is open about this things... just talk to your mum and ... (read in full...)
He is ignoring me again but it seems like the logest time ever!!
Q. I have the same problem that many girls seem to have on this site...my BF is ignoring me. We have been together for 3 years. It is the 4th time he has done it but it seems for the longest time this time, nearly 3 weeks. for the first few days I t...
A. 28 May 2008: Yeh he is quite immature i would say... just when you decide to move on lol.. don't allow him to take you back. he is clueless and emotional.. you need someone of the same rational thinking as you.. this one, let him grow up first.. if you decide ... (read in full...)
Is my guy gay?
Q. hi i really need some good advice, Ive been dating a good friend, we have been on and off for a year, nothing serious but decided 3 months ago to make a proper go of it, we get on so well and really enjoy each others company, we split up last week ...
A. 28 May 2008: Its not fair for people to be nasty.. true.. He is one honest guy.. i really admire that in him.. is that not wat we want? at times women can't handle the truth even when they want it desperately.. i think you should help him out. he has accepted he ... (read in full...)
Help! I kissed my best friend, am I a lesbian?
Q. right. i recently kissed this girl, my best friend, and it wasnt the first time, we always talk about it and have a laugh but everytime i hear of a boy she has been with i instantly hate them. i dont fancy her, and im sure as hell not a lesbien. ...
A. 28 May 2008: You say you hate the thought sweetie, maybe your best friend is the one that is lesbian... if you don't like it then tell her.. but if you do enjoy the intimacy with her....... well....you may be probably tending more towards that direction.. You ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what to do with what I've seen on myspace!
Q. hello aunts i need your help well i have a boyfriend who i love very much and i kno he loves me but he does some things i do not approve of well he has this so called friend and when i went on myspace today i looked at her pictures and i saw ...
A. 28 May 2008: You know wat, guys always do this the better if they do it openly... if he loves you he's just admiring other galz.. which is normal.. the problem comes when he its only this one gal that he keeps on commenting on.. but guys do flirt even when they ... (read in full...)
I think about blowjobs all the time!
Q. whenever i look at a girl, i just imagine getting a blowjob off her or shagging her mouth. it happens all the time and i dont know why. nothing else works for me but i just think about blow jobs all the time. especially when they are weraing shiny ...
A. 28 May 2008: Its part of growing up sweetie, but make sure this doesn't get practical. Galz are precious jewels and remember they always need to be tendered and treated well like little ladies. try focussing your mind on other things like go out with galz and ... (read in full...)
How do you know if he came inside you?
Q. how do you know if the guy you had sex with came into you?? we only did it for bout 5 to 7 mintues at the most...and he put it in.. i just dont know if he came or not he told me he didnt but i dont know if he was just lying to me. How will I know if ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hurry .... hurry... go buy an emergency contraceptive within the 72hours you had unprotected sex.. do this immediately... go to the nearest pharmacy and buy it... there are a range of them e.g. postinor 2, levonelle etc.. the pharmacist should be ... (read in full...)
Should I name this horse 'noid' or not?
Q. today my girl and i had a very good day laughs and jokes. so after i drop her off at home,she calls me and tells me that she loves me and that she had fun today, about 3 hours later she calls again and says she loves me and thanks me for everything ...
A. 28 May 2008: Yes you are being paranoid.. don't act like a looser... coz that's what will put her off. she was just being a lady to thank you dah...... (read in full...)
Do I choose the jailbird or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a dilemma, I have had this pen pal since 1995 I was 18 at the time, we've continued writing and became like best friends, he's 9 years older than me, anyway, this past February 2008, he sent me a ring and a card asking if I'd marry him, its ...
A. 28 May 2008: sometimes we women let the right guy pass as by and end up desperately on such forums goin on about wat bad decisions we made. well, choose the guy that you feel has your personality, the prisoner or the local guy. as i have no intention whatso... (read in full...)
Is he being honest with me over the reasons for our breakup?
Q. I am devastated and I need an opinion...I met this guys 5 years ago while I was travelling. I fell for him and I believed he fell for me as well. It was my first relationship with an older man and because our cultures and language backgrounds were ...
A. 28 May 2008: Gal, to me it seems that you are the one that has decided not to move on even when i believe your heart tells you that it was not meant to be. i will also comment on the guys part so as to be fair, you seem to have trapped him by always dragging him ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and have an 8 inch penis!
Q. Hi, I have a problem, a really big huge problem. I am 17 next month and my penis is just over 8 inches long. I realise that this is unusally big for a lad of my age and I would not mind only a rumour has started at school that I am rather well ...
A. 27 May 2008: date galz that have not been exposed to this rumours and at 17years you are still young to be worrying about ur sex life this is because the galz you may be meeting are still undermature or the older ones may just want to exploit you. You note that ... (read in full...)
Is my problem insecurity or not?
Q. is my problem insecurity or not. i love my boyfriend very as he loves me. at times i know that he loves me and at times i just think he's out just for the physical thing. well, he is very charming and galz do love his company... he likes making ...
A. 27 May 2008: Thankyou Peter Pan, for your unbiased answer, being a man. Your response shall surely assist me in waying my next options. i am probably ignoring my gut feeling as i have once felt, that if i could have a man that appreiates me and treats me like ... (read in full...)
Is my problem insecurity or not?
Q. is my problem insecurity or not. i love my boyfriend very as he loves me. at times i know that he loves me and at times i just think he's out just for the physical thing. well, he is very charming and galz do love his company... he likes making ...
A. 27 May 2008: Thankyou Peter Pan, for your unbiased answer, being a man. Your response shall surely assist me in waying my next options. i am probably ignoring my gut feeling as i have once felt, that if i could have a man that appreiates me and treats me like ... (read in full...)
I can't help but think that I don't satisfy him. Please, it's ruining our relationship, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months now. I love him very much but every time he's alone he feels the need to watch porn and masturbate. 5 times a week at least. When he doesn't have his computer at his house, he even goes as f...
A. 27 May 2008: Hello dear,
your boyfriend is what we call a porn addict and this has got nothing to do with you. Unfortunately, he has not accepted tht this is a problem to him becoz he is addicted. this kind of addiction is very strong as any other addictio... (read in full...)
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